STRESS
MANAGEMENT
Presented by:-
Mr. Suresh Kumar Sharma
RN, MSN(PSYCHIATRY)
What do you understand by
Stress?
• The way our body and
•mind react to life changes
HELP ME!
WHAT IS STRESS ?
Stress is the reaction people have to
excessive pressures or other types of
demand placed upon them. It arises when
they worry that they can’t cope.
I HATE YOU
WHAT IS STRESS ?
Stress is the “wear and tear” our minds and
bodies experience as we attempt to cope
with our continually changing environment
DEFINITIO
N
An adaptive response to an
internal & external situation that
results in physical, psychological
and behavioural deviations
Adaptation – a coping up mechanism
S=P>R
Stress occurs when the pressure is greater than the resource
Adolescents and stress ?
Teens are under more stress
Since adolescence is a period of
significant changes
physical,
emotional,
social,
and
academic changes
many than at any other time of
life.
Where does stress come from ?
Stress can come from Inside -
– INTERNAL STRESSOR:-
– Body image
– Not happy with the way you look
– self-conscious feel everyone is staring at
you
Stress can come from Outside
EXTERNAL STRESSOR:-
i.e. surroundings, environment
– Family ……..
– School ….
– Friends /Peers …
– Society ….
– Others ……
Stresses physical
– Prolonged school
hours
– Over-packed class
rooms
– Transport
– Pollution air, noise
– Overcrowding road
– Poor ventilation
– Bad furniture
Stresses psychological
– Bullies,
– Changing schools,
– Conflicts with teacher,
– Forced
competitiveness,
– Falling grades,
– Have to present in
class
– Learning disorders,
– Special recognition
Stress psychosocial
Relationships
Peers –
– You want to spend time with peers
but without parental supervision
– Their opinions more important than
that of parents
Conflicts with parents, friends
Media internet
Secret lives ……
How do we react to stress?
Reaction
– FFF (Fight – Flight – Freeze)
ULTIMATELY how each person reacts will
decide how STRESS will affect YOU
This means that whether we get “stressed out
or not” depends mainly on US
HEALTHY RESPONSE TO STRESS
1. LAS 2. GAS
LOCAL ADAPTION SYNDROME(LAS)-
Eg. Wound healing, blood clotting,
accommodation of eye to light
Characteristic of stress response-
Localised
Adaptive - stimulation of stressor is necessary.
Natural & protective- catecholamine
HR & BP
Characteristic of stress response
IN LAS-
LIMITS IN ABILITY TO COMPENSATE
MAGNITUDE & DURATION IS GREAT
THAT HOMEOSTATIC MECHANISM FOR
ADJUSTMENT FAIL, LEADING TO DEATH.
INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES.
RESPONSE IS SHORT TERM.
RESTORATIVE
Signs and Symptoms of Stress
Physical
Poor appetite or overeating
Feeing tired and fatigued
Various aches and pains ---headache body ache
muscle pain
Nausea & abdominal Pain
Sleep problems
Falling sick very often e.g. fever cough cold diarrhea
( because of lowering of immunity due to stress)
Mental
Feeling low
Nervousness and Anxiety
Excessive Anger
Depression
Being easily upset
Poor self confidence
Low self esteem
Lack of Concentration
Poor performance in studies
Is STRESS good or bad for
us ?
Some amount of stress is essential for us to
excel in life. This is good stress or “EUSTRESS”
Butwhen stress is too much then it reduces
performance. This is bad stress or “DISTRESS “
The Stress Model
TheStress Model helps us understand differently the
behavior . The Stress Model states:
– All behavior arises from a state of stress.
– In between the stress and behavior is the presence of an
emotion.
– The emotion is either love or fear.
– It is through the expression, processing, and understanding
of the emotion that we can calm the stress and diminish the
behavior.
Stress
We must first be aware of our own stress
before we can begin to address the stress in
others.
Let’s dissect these situations.
What stresses do you face each day?
– Work related? Home related? System related?
Stress
Thinkabout the situations that prompted you
to come here today…
– What is it about this particular situation that is so
stressful?
– Where in your life has this situation occurred
before?
STIMULUS-BASED MODEL:-
(Holmes and Rahes model-1960)
Stress:-
a stimulus , a life event, or a set of
circumstances that arouses physiologic &
psychological reactions that may increase
the individual’s vulnerability to illness.
SRRS(SOCIAL READJUSTMENTS
RATING SCALE)
43 life changes or events.
Both positive & negative in nature.
Considered stressful.
Identify the Effect of stressor in person’s life.
If stressor is more in short period(1-2yr) then
more likely physical illnesses, mental
disorders or other stress response will follow.
SRRS MEASURING
SRRS SCORE STRESS HIGH
SRRS SCORE STRESS LOW
But results are depends on mediating factor
– Eg. Coping strategies,
– Role of stressor, perception of individual etc.
TRANSACTION-BASED MODEL
(LOZARAS, 1966)
Cognitive, affective & adaptive(coping)
response that arise from person-environment
tractions.
Environment & person is not separable.
Environment changes person responds with
coping response.
Different individual show different reaction to
response. Eg. Illness respone one denial,
another anxiety, still another depression
Applying The Stress Model
Absolutely, the first step when we are
triggered in our stress is to ACKNOWLEDGE
our stress!
BREATHE!
Stress causes us to:
– React from the past
– Obsess about the future
– Take us out of the present
Applying the Stress Model
Acceptance
– we must develop an accepting relationship with
individual. We must also teach the parents about
acceptance and model this for them.
Understanding
– this is really seen in our perception of the child’s
behavior. If we see anger, we do not truly
understand this child. What is your child trying to
communicate through their behavior?
Applying the Stress Model
Empathy
– Defined as the ability to experience and identify
with the emotional state of another person.
Empathy and reflecting feelings does not mean
we have to agree. It means that we get what is
going on.
Patience
– We ourselves must be emotionally regulated in
order to exercise patience.
Applying the Stress Model
Trust
– Our children trusting us may be more important
than our trust in our children.
Love
– Takes effort, love is in the action of doing all the
things above.
– This is the opposite of fear. We must know love
in order to teach and model love. This is what we
want to replace fear.
Applying the Stress Model
Training
– “form habits, thoughts, or behaviors by discipline
and instruction”
Affection
– physical contact can be calming
Structure
– chaotic vs. organized- home vs. school?
Expectations
– be clear and communicate them, clarify that the
child understands
Applying the Stress Model
Time-In
– “I see that you are in need of something, come and sit
beside me until you feel better.” When we think a child is acting out
to get attention, it is because a child needs attention.
Mentoring
– connect this child to another adult outside the parent/child
relationship.
Awareness
– Early identification of stress
Containment
– keep the child in a space of more direct proximity to the
teacher than what may be needed for other students.
Applying the Stress Model
Team
– the power and importance of a team working with this youth
is vital.
Reduced Peer Interaction
– match the developmental needs of the youth.
Applying The Stress Model
Reacting versus responding
– Flexibility versus Rigidity
– Windows of Tolerance
Trauma
– Our relationship blueprints are affected by the
trauma we experience.
Summary
Understanding our own stress before we engage
with a child is sure to help reduce the child’s stress.
A child’s behavior is a way of communicating that
he/she is stressed and needs regulation.
Adults are responsible for teaching and modeling
regulation.
Understanding the stress underlying the behavior
assists us in helping a child change his/her behavior.
Is STRESS good or bad for
us ?
All stresses can be GOOD
So all efforts should be to convert all
stresses into EUSTRESS –This can be
achieved by stress management techniques
STRESS MANAGEMENT
MANAGE AT ALL THE THREE LEVEL
– PSYCHOLOGICAL LEVEL: MEDITATION,
REASSESSING OUR THOUGHTS & FEELINGS
– PHYSICAL LEVEL: EXERCISES, YOGA,
PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES
– BEHAVIOURAL LEVEL: RESPONDING WITH
EQUANIMITY AND CALMNESS
IF the distress crosses the threshold
level medical problems like
Depression, Anxiety disorders,
Hypertension etc. sets in. seek medical
help from a qualified medical
practitioner
SUGGESTED COPING
STRATEGIES
Take life the way it comes
Stop blaming others
Develop your own inherent potential
Live in the present & Work for the future
Maintain harmonious relation with others
Learn to be happy & cheerful
SUGGESTED COPING
STRATEGIES
Respond to situations with equanimity, detachment,
courage, determination
Avoid negative emotional reactions like anger,
grumbling, worrying and apprehensions.
Create a supportive climate
Redesign and enrich the job content*
Reduce conflict & clarify roles
Seek professional counseling
Meichenbaum’s approach to
stress management
1. Teaching individuals that negative self-
evaluation increase stress
2. Monitoring one’s own self-defeating
strategies – teaching new cognitive
strategies
3. Teaching new skills like relaxation
4. Providing real life homework assignment
that become increasingly difficult to carry
out
CONCLUSION
Stress is manageable -It needs efforts
Engage truthful thinking
Modulate your behavioral pattern
Lead a well balanced life of satisfaction.
Assert control on self in terms of thinking &
action
ADAPTABILITY IS THE “MOTHER KEY” TO
CONVERT DISTRESS TO EUSTRESS
Stress Management Tips
Making little changes in your life can really add up
to a big feeling of relief.
Learn to recognize when you are feeling stressed
and simple ways you can relax.
Take a break. Have a cold drink, get some fresh air,
or close your eyes for a minute to refocus.
Stay positive to help friends and family cope with
stress.
Let others know you're feeling overwhelmed and
tell them how they can help.
Allow yourself to simply say "no" to friends and
family when you know you cannot meet their
demands without becoming overwhelmed.
Stress Management Tips
Be prepared for unexpected problems such
as traffic, a lost pet or a family emergency.
Prioritize. Take control of your "to do" list by
deciding what's really most important on your
list.
Write down feelings of sadness, frustration
or anger to get a clearer perspective of your
emotions.
Enjoy life's simple pleasures like colorful
flowers, dancing, music, and social outings,
etc.
Stress Management Plan
Exercise regularly.
Have healthy eating habits never skip breakfast
Reduce sedentary activities like TV Video
games etc.
Eat healthy nutritious food. Avoid Junk food .
Avoid excess caffeine intake eg tea coffee
chocolates and cola drinks
Do NOT TAKE QUICK FIX REMEDIES like
alcohol tobacco and drugs
‘as they have long term and very harmful
effects on your body and mind ‘’.
Stress Management Plan
Practice time management
Learn relaxation exercises.
Rehearse and practice situations.
Learn practical coping skills.
Decrease negative self talk.
Learn to feel good with a workable result –
Don’t be a perfectionist.
Build a network of friends.
METHODS OF ACHIEVING
RELAXATION:-
1. Deep-breathing exercises:-
Oxygen inserted so tension released.(sobel &
ornstein,1996)
Reducing anxiety, depression, irritability,
muscular tension and fatigue.
It can be done at anywhere and at any time.
3 0r 4 time a day or whenever feels tenseness.
RE-FRAMING
Re-framing is a technique to change the way
you look at things in order to feel better about
them. There are many ways to interpret the
same situation so pick the one you like. Re-
framing does not change the external reality,
but helps you view things in a different light
and less stressfully.
Positive Thinking
Forget powerlessness, dejection, failure
Stress leaves us vulnerable to negative
suggestion so focus on positives;
Focus on your strengths
Learn from the stress you are under
Look for opportunities
Seek out the positive - make a change.
Change your Behaviour
Be assertive
Get organised
Ventilation
Humour
Diversion and distraction
Be Assertive
Assertiveness helps to manage stressful
situations, help to reduce their frequency.
Lack of assertiveness often shows low self -
esteem and low self - confidence. The key to
assertiveness is verbal and non - verbal
communication. Extending our range of
communication skills will improve our
assertiveness.
Equality and Basic Rights
1) The right to express my feelings
2) The right to express opinions / beliefs
3) The right to say ‘Yes/No’ for yourself
4) Right to change your mind
5) Right to say ‘I don’t understand’
6) Right to be yourself, not acting for the benefit
of others
7) The right to decline responsibility for other
people’s problems
8) The right to make reasonable requests of
others
9) The right to set my own priorities
10) The right to be listened to, and taken
seriously
Being Assertive
Being assertive involves standing up for your
personal rights and expressing your
thoughts, feelings and beliefs directly,
honestly and spontaneously in ways that
don’t infringe the rights of others.
Assertive People
Respect themselves and others
Take responsibility for actions and choices
Ask openly for what they want
Disappointed if ‘want’ denied
Self - confidence remains intact
Not reliant on the approval of others
Assertive Skills
Establish good eye contact / don’t stare
Stand or sit comfortably - don’t fidget
Talk in a firm, steady voice
Use body language
‘I think’ / ‘I feel’
‘What do you think?’ ‘How do you feel ?’
Concise and to the point
Benefits
Higher self-esteem
Less self-conscious
Less anxious
Manage stress more successfully
Appreciate yourself and others more easily
Feeling of self-control
Get Organised
Poor organisation is one of the most common
causes of stress.
Prioritising objectives, duties and activities
makes them manageable and achievable.
Don’t overload your mind.
Organisation will help avoid personal and
professional chaos.
Time Management
Make a list
What MUST be done
What SHOULD be done
What would you LIKE to do
Cut out time wasting
Learn to drop unimportant activities
Say no or delegate
Plan your day
Set achievable goals
Don’t waste time making excuses for not
doing something
Ventilation
‘A problem shared is a problem halved’
Develop a support network through friends or
colleagues to talk with. It’s not always events
that are stressful but how we perceive them.
Writing a diary or notes may help release
feelings but do not re-read what has been
written.
Humour
Good stress - reducer
Applies at home and work
Relieves muscular tension
Improves breathing
Pumps endorphins into the bloodstream - the
body’s natural painkillers
Diversion and Distraction
Take time out
Get away from things that bother you
Doesn’t solve the problem
Reduce stress level
Calm down
Think logically
Exercise
Uses up excess energy released by the
‘Fight or Flight’ reaction.
Improves blood circulation
Lowers blood pressure
Clears the mind of worrying thoughts
Improves self image
Makes you feel better about yourself
Increases social contact
Sleep
Good stress reducer
Difficult to cope when tired
Wake refreshed after night’s sleep
Plenty of daytime energy
Leisure
Interest
Gives you a ‘break’ from stresses
Provides outlet for relief
Provides social contact
Stress Management Plan:
How to seek help to destress
Talk and confide to a person whom you trust : friend,
parent, teacher, relative, etc.
If you feel that you are not able to cope with your
distress do not hesitate to go to your - school
counselor /family doctor/ adolescent pediatrician
How do you recognize that you
need professional help ?
Deteriorating school performance
Inability to sleep or excessive sleep
Losing or gaining weight
Feeling low or tired all the time
Mood swings : crying, getting angry
Not wanting to talk to anybody
The only difference between a
diamond and a lump of coal is that the
diamond had a little more pressure put
on it. –
ANONYMOUS
KEY POINTS
STRESS is very common
Use stress in a positive way
– Limit NOT eliminate stress.
– Use it to improve your performance.
Learn Coping Skills
Research on stress:-
Problem statement:-
“ A STUDY ON STRESS MANAGEMENT OF
WORKING WOMEN IN COIMBATORE DISTRICT”
DR. M. DHANABHAKYAM*; V. ANITHA**
*Assistant Professor, Department of Commerce,
Bharathiar University, Coimbatore - 46.
**Ph.D Fulltime Scholar, Department of Commerce,
Bharathiar University, Coimbatore - 46.
Objective:-
(i) To study the kind and level of stress faced by
working women in the study area.
(ii) To identify the sources of stress of working
women.
(iii) To identify the impact of stress of working
women.
(iv) To identify the physical reactions faced by the
working women due to high level of stress.
•RESEARCH DESIGN
descriptive research design.
data collection from the primary sources.
sampling techniques :-
Non -probability convenient .
sample :-
300 working women
Population:-
among the working women of Coimbatore District.
Tools for Data analysis:-
(a) Percentage Analysis:-
(b) Henry Garrett Ranking:-
(c) Two way table ANOVA:-
CONCLUSION:-
Finally this study concluded that the
information technology supported and fast
growing work environment, stress is an
inevitable one. Working women population
has also in
the growth stage. Working women face
stress in managing their personal life with
work life.
PROBLEM STATEMENT:-
Stress management: a randomized study of
cognitive behavioural therapy and yoga.
Granath J, Ingvarsson S, von Thiele U, Lundberg U.
Source
Department of Psychology and Centre for Health Equity
Studies (CHESS), Stockholm University, Stockholm, Sweden.
In this study, a stress management program based on cognitive
behavioural therapy principles was compared with a Kundalini yoga
program.
Sample & sampling tecnique:-
26 women and 7 men from a large Swedish
company were divided randomly into 2
groups for each of the different forms of
intervention.
a total of 4 groups.
. The groups were instructed by trained
group leaders and 10 sessions were held
with each of groups, over a period of 4
months.
FINDINGS
Psychological:- self-rated stress and stress
behaviour, anger, exhaustion, quality of life.
Physiological:- blood pressure, heart rate,
urinary catecholamine, salivary cortisol.
measurements obtained before and after
treatment showed significant improvements on
most of the variables in both groups as well as
medium-to-high effect sizes.
Conclusion:-
However, no significant difference was found
between the 2 programs. The results indicate
that both cognitive behaviour therapy and
yoga are promising stress management
techniques.
Sources of Adolescent stress or Adolescent Stressors are again varied – but if we try to organize them in groups – I hope this is a good workable plan – although I am a very poor organizer – but I do not know how I could do it nicely - I feel all of us should have a very clear understanding of these stressors, as only then we can eliminate them from our dear adolescents. - Let us see them one by one - PSYCHIATRY DEPARTMENT BVCON PUNE
As If a boy has gone for a outing with her GF and they met an accident, and girl has broken her leg, now the boy has to inform her parents, his own parents, deal with the police, deal with the local public etc… just imagine the amount of nervousness – specially if his/her parents are like me – who have very fixed ideas about children and talk very little, similarly how impatient a girl or a boy is before his first dating. And if on the first date the girl asks for a dinner in a five star hotel, that too in a taxi to Dr Bansal’s son who hardly has 100 bucks in his pocket – think about his self image – it will certainly go down (does it mean I should keep 1000 in his pocket so that he can entertain many GFs not only one !) This decreased low self image coupled with nervousness and impatient behavior will lead to frustrations and this can be manifested either by depression when after returning he will not talk to any one – will sit very quite – looking in sky – or to the vacant wall – as if he is trying to count brush marks on the wall. Or he will start reacting violently – throwing objects and taking even the trivial remarks as very serious assaults on his personality. PSYCHIATRY DEPARTMENT BVCON PUNE
Stress is a term we use to describe an imbalance between the demands of life and that person’s ability to meet those demands. Stress, like anything else, can follow typical developmental stages. Children usually pick up on our moods quickly. They are usually the first to know something is not right. Then they begin to worry and assume that the thing wrong is their fault. PSYCHIATRY DEPARTMENT BVCON PUNE
Talk about the difference between feelings and emotions. Anger versus Fear
90% of our behavior is unconscious. What if…my child doesn’t clean his room, he’ll be messy for life.
D.H. Meichenbaum, “Cognitive Modification of Test Anxious College Students”, Journel of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, vol.39, 1972, pp 370-378