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  1. EQ at the Workplace What is Intelligence? Multiple Intelligence IQ vs EQ and How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position?
  2. EQ at the Workplace Emotional Intelligence refers to a set of emotional and social skills and competencies that influence the way we perceive and express ourselves; develop and maintain social relationships; cope with challenges; and use the information in emotions in effective and meaningful ways. This program explores how you can leverage EQ competencies to enhance performance and productivity in your organization.
  3. Content Self Awareness and Self- Management Competencies Strategic Leadership - Applying EQ to Address your Workplace Challenges Moving Forward - Setting Clear Action Plans for Ongoing EQ Engagement Emotional Intelligence (EQ) at the Workplace - Understanding EQ in Yourself and the Workplace
  4. 1. Define the critical role of your emotional intelligence in today's increasingly complex and changing working relationships Objectives 2. Assess why emotional competencies are “essential capabilities” for anyone who manages departments or leads teams 3. Learn how to engage EQ skill and competency practices throughout your department to achieve dramatic improvements in employee attitude and performance levels
  5. EQ at the Workplace What is Intelligence? Multiple Intelligence? IQ vs EQ
  6. Is There Multiple Intelligence?Is There Multiple Intelligence? IQ vs EQIQ vs EQ
  7. Definition of IntelligenceDefinition of Intelligence The ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations: the skilled use of reason The cognitive abilities of an individual to learn from experience, to reason well, and to cope effectively with the demands of daily living.
  8. "Intelligence, is the aggregate or global capacity of the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to deal effectively with his environment” - David Wechsler
  9. Although experts differ on an exact definition ofAlthough experts differ on an exact definition of intelligence, most agree that intelligent behaviorintelligence, most agree that intelligent behavior has at least two components:has at least two components: IntelligenceIntelligence 1.The ability to learn from experience. 2.The ability to adapt to the surrounding environment.
  10. What do we know about IQ?What do we know about IQ? Predicts school grades relatively well Does not predict success in life Predicts 6% of job success Peaks in late teens Culture-bound, Gender Bias, SES Racial controversies Gets you in the door – Professional schools (medicine, dentistry, law) – Can help you get hired (Harvard MBA) Static
  11. Factors of General Intelligence TestsFactors of General Intelligence Tests 1. Verbal Comprehension - vocabulary, verbal analogies 2. Number - mathematical operations 3. Space - visual-spatial and mental transformation 4. Associative Memory - rote memory 5. Perceptual Speed - quickness in noticing similarities and differences 6. Reasoning - skill in inductive, deductive, and math problems, and math problems
  12. Is There MultipleIs There Multiple Intelligence?Intelligence?
  13. Gardner first theory on Multiple Intelligence (1983) Since 1999, Gardner has identified eight intelligences: 1.logic-mathematical, 2.linguistic, 3.musical, 4.spatial, 5.bodily/kinesthetic, 6.interpersonal, 7.intrapersonal, and 8.naturalistic. “humans have several different ways of processing information and these ways are relatively independent of one another”.
  14. Intelligence Core Components End-States Logical- mathematical Linguistic Musical Spatial Sensitivity to, and capacity to discern, logical or numerical patterns; ability to handle long chains of reasoning. Sensitivity to the sounds, rhythms, and meanings of words; sensitivity to the different functions of language. Abilities to produce and appreciate rhythm, pitch, and timbre; appreciation of the forms of musical expressiveness. Capacities to perceive the visual-spatial world accurately and to perform transformations on ones initial perceptions. Scientist Mathematician Poet Journalist Violinist Composer Sculptor Navigator Gardner’s Seven Intelligences
  15. Intelligence Core Components End-States Bodily- Kinesthetic Interpersonal Intrapersonal Abilities to control ones body movements and to handle objects skillfully. Capacities to discern and respond appropriately to the moods, temperaments, motivations, and desires of other people. Access to ones own feelings and the ability to discriminate among them and draw upon them to guide behavior; knowledge of one’s own strengths, weaknesses, desires, and intelligences. Dancer Athlete Therapist Salesman Person with detailed accurate self- knowledge Gardner’s Seven Intelligences
  16. Multiple IntelligenceMultiple Intelligence Naturalistic is the most recent addition to Gardner’s theory and has been met with more resistance than his original seven intelligences. According to Gardner, individuals who are high in this type of intelligence are more in tune with nature and are often interested in nurturing, exploring the environment and learning about other species. These individuals are said to be highly aware of even subtle changes to their environments.
  17. What is Emotional Intelligence ? (EQ) Wikipedia Emotional intelligence or (EQ) is the ability to identify, assess, and control the emotions of oneself, of others, and of groups. Generally, it’s being able to correctly perceive and respond appropriately to the underlying emotions of the people you come in contact to.
  18. Where did the concept of EmotionalWhere did the concept of Emotional Intelligence come from?Intelligence come from? In 1983, after Gardner theory, from extensive brain research on Multiple Intelligence, Reuven Bar-On (1988), Peter Salovey & John Mayer (1990) and Goleman (1995-2003) all proposed, defined and popularized their individual theory and concept of emotional intelligence (EI)
  19. Emotional intelligence is “an array of non-cognitive capabilities, competencies, and skills that influence one’s ability to succeed in coping with environmental demands and pressures” Reuven Bar-On (1988) has placed EI in the context of personality theory, specifically a model of well-being
  20. Emotional intelligence is “an array of non-cognitive capabilities, competencies, and skills that influence one’s ability to succeed in coping with environmental demands and pressures” Peter Salovey and John Mayer first proposed their theory of emotional intelligence (EI) in 1990 and defined it John D. Mayer
  21. “Emotional Intelligence refers to the capacity for recognizing our own feelings and those of others, for motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions well in ourselves and our relationships.” Goleman (1995-2003) has popularized the concept of emotional intelligence and formulated EI in terms of a theory of job and work performance
  22. Emotionally Intelligent Behavior “I look upon intelligence as an effect rather than a cause, that is, as a resultant of interacting abilities – non intellective included. Intelligence Does Not = Behavior The problem confronting psychologists today is how these abilities interact to give the resultant effect we call intelligence.“ - Wechsler
  23. EQ at the Workplace How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position?
  24. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? 1.Take initiative 2. Act as a team player 3. Be flexible 4. Communicate effectively
  25. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? 1. Take Initiative: Demonstrate responsibility and enthusiasm for your job by striving to go the extra mile. Do tasks without being asked by someone else. Look around, This starts by finishing work without constant reminders from your supervisor. And if you are already in a leadership role, this means setting the example what needs to be done, and do it. Be the owner
  26. Be the owner .This rarely goes unnoticed. If a co-worker has a large project and you have some time on your hands, volunteer to help. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? Further, you could seek more challenging work and strive to develop your technical skills and do it.
  27. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? Practice leading in small group discussions by asking your teammates questions and bringing quieter members into the conversation. 2. Act as a team player: This means not only being cooperative, but also displaying strong leadership skills when necessary.
  28. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? Be open and agreeable to other people’s suggestions, respect difference of opinions, accept your mistakes, and show empathy to others. 3. Be flexible: Employees who can adapt to any situation are dependable no matter what is thrown at them. Understand constraints and reasons why someone is unable to stick to a plan and then work to create a new plan if necessary. You do not want to be called a “stuck up” as a manager. Adopt agile methods. Be prepared for any breakdowns.
  29. How can you develop your EQ skills to perform better at your workplace position? Get to a discussion, write down the key points and send them all over Email, so that people can sign off to what was being said, and everyone is on the same page. 4. Communicate effectively: Communicate clearly through written, oral, and nonverbal communication. Be concise instead of going in loops. Articulate well, be a good listener, and use appropriate body language at all times.
  30. People with High EQ Know: • Who they are • What they need to do to take care of themselves • Who others are within their own context How they need to manage their impact on others.
  31. EQ is not… • Letting your feelings run rampant • Being nice regardless of what happens to you • Specific to gender or genetically fixed • IQ, knowledge or education based • About anger management EQ is being able to come into a relationship with your full self. Do you swallow your truth? Be able to speak your truth.
  32. Emotional Intelligence is not just about managing emotions: Understanding EQ in Yourself and the Workplace It involves engaging a distinct combination of emotional, personal and interpersonal skills and competencies that are essential to your leadership and management success.
  33. And the way we can choose effective leadership behaviors to benefit individuals we work with and the organization as a whole. Self Awareness and Self-Management Competencies How well we understand ourselves is the basis of successful self management.
  34. The Impact of Self- Awareness Research supports that Self-Awareness is a necessary underpinning of both Self-Management and Social Awareness
  35. With Self-Awareness, a person has 50/50 chance of demonstrating Self-Management 49%49% 4%4% 51%51% Yes No Yes No N = 427, p < .001 (Burckle and Boyatzis, 1999) Self-Management Self- Awareness Without Self-Awareness, a person has virtually no chance of demonstrating Self-Management. Self Awareness & Self Management 96%96%
  36. 83%83% 38%38% Self Awareness & Social Awareness With Self-Awareness, a person has a 38% chance of having Social Awareness 83%83% 38%38% 17%17% 62%62% Yes No Yes No Social Awareness Self- Awareness N = 427, p < .001 (Burckle and Boyatzis, 1999)
  37. • why some people with moderate IQ do well in life while others with high IQ fail • distinct from IQ (cognitive intelligence) • components resemble personality factors, but can change and can be altered Dr. Reuven Bar-On in 1980 began to explore factors that were related to success in life: Self Awareness and Self-Management Competencies
  38. BarOn/EQ-iBarOn/EQ-i®® FactorsFactors Intra-Personal – Emotional Self-Awareness – Assertiveness – Self-Regard – Self-Actualization – Independence Stress Management – Stress Tolerance – Impulse Control Inter-Personal – Interpersonal Relationship – Empathy – Social Responsibility Adaptability – Problem Solving – Flexibility – Reality Testing General Mood -- Optimism -- Happiness
  39. Why was the BarOn EQ-i Developed?Why was the BarOn EQ-i Developed? To help answer a basic question: Why do some peopleWhy do some people with high IQ fail inwith high IQ fail in life, while others withlife, while others with moderate IQmoderate IQ succeed?succeed?
  40. How Does the EQ-i Work?How Does the EQ-i Work? • 133 brief items answered on a 5-point scale from “Not True of Me” to “True of Me” • 30 minutes to complete • Standard scores based on “100” as the average, Standard Deviation of 15 • Includes the following scales: –Total EQ –5 EQ Composite Scales –15 EQ Content Scales –4 Validity Scales
  41. Sample Test Items: I have good relations with others I’m fun to be with I like helping people Rating Scale: 1 = Very Seldom or Not True of me 5 = Very Often True of Me or True of Me WorkshopWorkshop Bar On /EQ-iBar On /EQ-i
  42. EQ-I ScoringEQ-I Scoring Standard Score Guideline 130+ Markedly High Atypically well developed emotional capacity 120-129 Very High Extremely well developed emotional capacity 110-119 High Well developed emotional capacity 90-109 Average Adequate emotional capacity 80-89 Low Under-developed emotional capacity 70-79 Very Low Extremely under-developed emotional capacity Under 70 Markedly Low Atypically impaired emotional capacity
  43. There’s No Crying in Baseball How do you think the coach would score on his EQ Assessment? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKCHvOvlHL0
  44. •Critical thinking skills •Influencing even when you do not have authority •Supporting the effectiveness and success of your change initiatives •Responding to the intense emotions that accompany transition and change Strategic Leadership – Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges An organization that collectively exhibits effective EQ builds capacity for sustainable organizational change and performance.
  45. Critical thinking skills The word “critical” often misleads us to think that critical thinking is only based on soul-less data, information and evidences. According to Rudd, Baker and Hoover (2000), critical thinking is a “reasoned, purposive and introspective approach to solving problems or addressing questions”. Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges Introspection when solving problems as a team includes acknowledging the thoughts of others, one of the key elements of emotional intelligence.
  46. Influencing even when you do not have authority Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges With authority, you can simply “order” to do what you want. That may not be the most effective leadership strategy; you’ll get what you ask for. But, how to influence someone over whom we have no control, power or authority?. First, respect other people’s opinions or thoughts. Don't tell people they are wrong. Be more inclusive, less divisive. Be conversational, not argumentative.  Listen more, talk less.
  47. Influencing even when you do not have authority Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges True influence can be seen in great leaders. They represent a segment of the population who depends that he or she will stand up for their rights, their beliefs and their needs. I like how Rick Warren used a biblical example to explain influence: "The purpose of influence is to 'speak up for those who have no influence.' It's not about you." (proverbs 31:18)
  48. Supporting the effectiveness and success of your change initiatives Change management focuses on people, and is about ensuring change is thoroughly, smoothly and lastingly implemented Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges When initiating a change, the first step is to dig down further to define your specific objectives.
  49. Supporting the effectiveness and success of your change initiatives Typically, these will cover : Sponsorship, - senior level directly or indirectly Buy-in, -from those involved and affected Involvement, -people from design and implementation Impact, how the changes will affect people. Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges Communication, -Telling everyone who's affected about the changes Readiness, - to adapt, ensuring they have the right information, training and help
  50. Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges In addition, keeping an open mind and being curious about the possibilities that change promises, being flexible, staying motivated, and having a sense of humor will buoy your resiliency and help you persevere. Keep things in perspective and practice the 5 P‘s -Patience, -Persistence, -Practical, -Positive , and have a -Purpose. Responding to the intense emotions that accompany transition and change.
  51. Responding to the intense emotions that accompany transition and change. Applying EQ to Address Your Workplace Challenges Going through transitions that accompany change can be thriving and also difficult. Mastering the art of change over the course of a lifetime provides a great advantage to alter your responses to change in order to create a more satisfying experience. These are basic 5P’s of things to consider that can help you negotiate and navigate your course to the intense emotion that accompany transition & change.
  52. Your EQ learning and development does not end here and now. We must set clear intentions and action plans in maintaining and moving forward. Moving Forward – Setting Clear Action Plans for Ongoing EQ Engagement •Integrating your new ways of thinking and acting to enhance your leadership effectiveness back at the office •Building on your strengths and identifying strategic areas for development •Clarifying your vision of success and developing a customized development action plan
  53. Setting Clear Action Plans for Ongoing EQ Engagement •Empathy •Self Control •Self Confidence ------------------------------------ •Developing Others •Holding People Accountable •Team Leadership ------------------------------------- •Results Orientation •Initiative •Problem Solving ------------------------------------- •Influencing Others •Fostering Teamwork Manager Model
  54. EQ in Action What positive and/or negative examples do you see of emotional intelligence? http://youtu.be/CiXTwfipyqk
  55. He passed $2.5 million forged checks across 26 countries over five years, beginning 16 years old. He became one of the most famous impostors ever, assumed no less than eight separate identities as an airline pilot, a doctor, a US Bureau of Prisons agent, and a lawyer. Catch Me if You Can – scene demonstrates prime example of a person with a very high EQ and social awareness and excellent ability to manage his emotions. Movie is a true story based on the life of Frank Abignale (played by Leonardo Di Caprio) who became notorious in the 1960s He escaped from police custody twice (once from a taxiing airliner and once from a US Federal Penitentiary before he was 21 years old. He served fewer than five years in prison before starting to work for the FBI with He is a consultant and lecturer at the academy and field offices for the FBI – with Agent Carl Hanratty (Tom Hanks character)
  56. EmotionsEmotionsEmotionsEmotions ThoughtsThoughtsThoughtsThoughts BehaviorBehaviorBehaviorBehavior Performance Developing EQ Involves • Revising responses to feelings • Changing thinking patterns • Altering behavior and trying new things • Coaching can be instrumental in the process
  57. Self- Awareness Social Awareness Self- Management Relationship Management • Emotional Self-Awareness • Accurate Self-Assessment • Self-Confidence • Empathy • Organizational Awareness • Service Orientation • Emotional Self-Control • Transparency • Optimism • Adaptability • Achievement Orientation • Initiative • Developing Others • Inspirational Leadership • Influence • Change Catalyst • Conflict Management • Teamwork & Collaboration The Twenty EQ Competencies
  58. The Stake Prime When you’re up to something big that requires enrolling a large group, there will be a mix of all three types of people. You must address each of their unique ways of listening. When the STAKE is stated powerfully, of it’s impact on the Heart, the Head and the Wallet, CHANGE and TRANSFORMATION become possible. A weakly stated STAKE keeps groups entrenched in the status quo. Three basic ways that people listen: Analytical people listen with their Heads. Emotional people listen with their Hearts. Financially motivated people listen with their Wallets.
  59. The Stake Prime We start by closely examining our powerful STAKE conversation, dissecting the patterns it reveals, and from those revelations we make the case for change. Before any CHANGE or TRANSFORMATION can occur, people must be convinced; therefore, the STAKE must operate on an organizational, community, and personal level. The STAKE illustration shows three basic ways that people listen: Analytical people listen with their Heads. Emotional people listen with their Hearts. Financially motivated people listen with their Wallets. Powerful STAKE conversat ions must have negative aspects (what to avoid or PUSH away from) and positive aspects (what people desire and want to PULL toward them).
  60. The Path Between Feeling and Reason The secret is to manage the way we explain situations to ourselves. You have to SHIFT YOUR PERSPECTIVE The mind needs conditioning as much as our muscles. Changing our thinking patterns.
  61. Some Applications of theSome Applications of the EQ-iEQ-i®® • Recruiting high performers • Retaining high performers • Teambuilding • Managing diversity • Leadership development • Coaching • Performance management • Risk management • Self development • Change management • Merger integration & re-shaping culture • Restructuring & realignment • Stress management • Career planning
  62. Effects of IntelligenceEffects of Intelligence (EI)(EI) on Career Successon Career Success High IQ & EI CAREER ADVANCEMENT High IQ low EI CAREER DERAILMENT
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  1. ccording to Gardner&amp;apos;s theory of multiple intelligences, humans have several different ways of processing information and these ways are relatively independent of one another. The theory is a critique of the standard intelligence theory, which emphasizes the correlation among abilities. Since 1999, Gardner has identified eight intelligences: linguistic, logic-mathematical, musical, spatial, bodily/kinesthetic, interpersonal, intrapersonal, and naturalistic. Gardner is informally considering two additional intelligences, existential and pedagogical.[10][11] Many teachers, school administrators, and special educators have been inspired by Gardner’s Theory of Multiple Intelligences as it has allowed for the idea that there is more than one way to define a person&amp;apos;s intellect.[12]
  2. Interpersonal Intelligence Relationship awareness / Management ability to perceive, express, understand, and regulate emotions Many teachers, school administrators, and special educators have been inspired by Gardner’s Theory of Multiple Intelligences as it has allowed for the idea that there is more than one way to define a person&amp;apos;s intellect.[12]
  3. EQ is being able to come into a relationship with your full self. Do you swallow your truth? Be able to speak your truth. EQ is about managing emotions in the moment, not controlling.
  4. This model was developed by Reuven Bar-On to measure emotional-social intelligence. It is considered to be one of the three major models of this construct according to the Encyclopedia of Applied Psychology (2004).
  5. The Emotional Quotient Inventory (EQ-i), EQ-360 and EQ-i: YV were developed to assess the Bar-On model of emotional-social intelligence. The EQ-i is a self-report measure designed to measure a number of constructs related to EI. The EQ-i consists of 133 items and takes approximately 30 minutes to complete. It gives an overall EQ score as well as scores for the following five composite scales and 15 subscales (Bar-On, 2006).
  6. Show film clip. Which skill set(s) does he need to work on? It is natural to assume that if something happens to you, the EVENT makes you FEEL a certain way. For example, a colleague speaks very rudely to you, and you conclude, he MADE you angry. You may also conclude that his BEHAVIOR Made YOU BEHAVE in a particular way – hang up on the person, etc.
  7. True influence can be seen in great leaders. They represent a segment of the population who depends that he or she will stand up for their rights, their beliefs and their needs. I like how Rick Warren used a biblical example to explain influence (proverbs 31:18): &amp;quot;The purpose of influence is to &amp;apos;speak up for those who have no influence.&amp;apos; It&amp;apos;s not about you.&amp;quot;
  8. True influence can be seen in great leaders. They represent a segment of the population who depends that he or she will stand up for their rights, their beliefs and their needs. I like how Rick Warren used a biblical example to explain influence (proverbs 31:18): &amp;quot;The purpose of influence is to &amp;apos;speak up for those who have no influence.&amp;apos; It&amp;apos;s not about you.&amp;quot;
  9. Typically, these will cover : Sponsorship: Ensuring there is active sponsorship for the change at a senior executive level within the organization, and engaging this sponsorship to achieve the desired results. Buy-in: Gaining buy-in for the changes from those involved and affected, directly or indirectly. Involvement: Involving the right people in the design and implementation of changes, to make sure the right changes are made. Impact: Assessing and addressing how the changes will affect people. Communication: Telling everyone who&amp;apos;s affected about the changes. Readiness: Getting people ready to adapt to the changes, by ensuring they have the right information, training and help.
  10. Typically, these will cover : Sponsorship: Ensuring there is active sponsorship for the change at a senior executive level within the organization, and engaging this sponsorship to achieve the desired results. Buy-in: Gaining buy-in for the changes from those involved and affected, directly or indirectly. Involvement: Involving the right people in the design and implementation of changes, to make sure the right changes are made. Impact: Assessing and addressing how the changes will affect people. Communication: Telling everyone who&amp;apos;s affected about the changes. Readiness: Getting people ready to adapt to the changes, by ensuring they have the right information, training and help.
  11. Practice the 5 &amp;quot;P&amp;apos;s&amp;quot;. Learn patience. Generally, things do not happen overnight. In fact, it may take some time before a desired and/or reasonable outcome is reached. Don&amp;apos;t be impulsive or try to rush the results. Patience will help you arrive at the best possible place you need to be. Be persistent. It&amp;apos;s easy to want to give up, especially when things are not going your way, or are even looking glum. Keep on chipping away at the issues; the outcome or solution you&amp;apos;re seeking may be just around the bend. Be practical. Some changes require an immediate response to remedy a situation, but in most instances, there&amp;apos;s simply no rush to the finish line. Go about your life in a way that focuses attention on maintaining balance. Stay present, firmly rooted, in the here and now. In other words, create a structure that provides stability and support while you&amp;apos;re in the process of transitioning. Be positive. Expect &amp;quot;up and down&amp;quot;. In fact, that&amp;apos;s more the norm while you&amp;apos;re going through change. A sense of optimism will help equalize the hills and valleys and will keep you focused and committed. Have a purpose. No matter how many major changes and transitions you go through during the course of your life, having an organizing guiding principle that is vital to you and gives meaning to your life is essential.
  12. Practice the 5 &amp;quot;P&amp;apos;s&amp;quot;. Learn patience. Generally, things do not happen overnight. In fact, it may take some time before a desired and/or reasonable outcome is reached. Don&amp;apos;t be impulsive or try to rush the results. Patience will help you arrive at the best possible place you need to be. Be persistent. It&amp;apos;s easy to want to give up, especially when things are not going your way, or are even looking glum. Keep on chipping away at the issues; the outcome or solution you&amp;apos;re seeking may be just around the bend. Be practical. Some changes require an immediate response to remedy a situation, but in most instances, there&amp;apos;s simply no rush to the finish line. Go about your life in a way that focuses attention on maintaining balance. Stay present, firmly rooted, in the here and now. In other words, create a structure that provides stability and support while you&amp;apos;re in the process of transitioning. Be positive. Expect &amp;quot;up and down&amp;quot;. In fact, that&amp;apos;s more the norm while you&amp;apos;re going through change. A sense of optimism will help equalize the hills and valleys and will keep you focused and committed. Have a purpose. No matter how many major changes and transitions you go through during the course of your life, having an organizing guiding principle that is vital to you and gives meaning to your life is essential.
  13. Show Catch me If You Can Hotel Scene – start at 1:20 (bad language at beginning of scene) Catch Me if You Can – prime example of a person with a very high EQ. Movie is a true story based on the life of Frank Abignale (played by Leonardo Di Caprio) who became notorious in the 1960s for passing $2.5 million worth of forged checks across 26 countries over the course of five years, beginning when he was 16 years old. He became one of the most famous impostors ever, claiming to have assumed no fewer than eight separate identities as an airline pilot, a doctor, a US Bureau of Prisons agent, and a lawyer. He escaped from police custody twice (once from a taxiing airliner and once from a US Federal Penitentiary before he was 21 years old. He served fewer than five years in prison before starting to work for the FBI with He is a consultant and lecturer at the academy and field offices for the FBI – with Agent Carl Hanratty (Tom Hanks character) This scene demonstrates Frank’s social awareness and excellent ability to manage his emotions.
  14. Show Catch me If You Can Hotel Scene – start at 1:20 (bad language at beginning of scene) Catch Me if You Can – prime example of a person with a very high EQ. Movie is a true story based on the life of Frank Abignale (played by Leonardo Di Caprio) who became notorious in the 1960s for passing $2.5 million worth of forged checks across 26 countries over the course of five years, beginning when he was 16 years old. He became one of the most famous impostors ever, claiming to have assumed no fewer than eight separate identities as an airline pilot, a doctor, a US Bureau of Prisons agent, and a lawyer. He escaped from police custody twice (once from a taxiing airliner and once from a US Federal Penitentiary before he was 21 years old. He served fewer than five years in prison before starting to work for the FBI with He is a consultant and lecturer at the academy and field offices for the FBI – with Agent Carl Hanratty (Tom Hanks character) This scene demonstrates Frank’s social awareness and excellent ability to manage his emotions.
  15. When the STAKE is stated powerfully, in terms of it’s impact on the Heart, the Head and the Wallet, CHANGE and TRANSFORMATION become possible. A weakly stated STAKE keeps groups entrenched in the status quo.             After you’ve enlisted others in bold effort to achieve the extraordinary, questions and doubts arise — all perfectly reasonable — among the same people who heeded your call and pledged their support. STAKE is a key element of the CORE PRIME and it reveals six components of a robust answer to the question, “What’s at STAKE?”   Before any CHANGE or TRANSFORMATION can occur, people must be convinced; therefore, the STAKE must operate on an organizational, community, and personal level. We start by closely examining our powerful STAKE conversation, dissecting the patterns it reveals, and from those revelations we make the case for change.   The STAKE illustration shows three basic ways that people listen: Analytical people listen with their Heads. Emotional people listen with their Hearts. Financially motivated people listen with their Wallets.   When you’re up to something big that requires enrolling a large group, there will be a mix of all three types of people. You must address each of their unique ways of listening.   Powerful STAKE conversations must have negative aspects (what to avoid or PUSH away from) and positive aspects (what people desire and want to PULL toward them). 
  16. When the STAKE is stated powerfully, in terms of it’s impact on the Heart, the Head and the Wallet, CHANGE and TRANSFORMATION become possible. A weakly stated STAKE keeps groups entrenched in the status quo.             After you’ve enlisted others in bold effort to achieve the extraordinary, questions and doubts arise — all perfectly reasonable — among the same people who heeded your call and pledged their support. STAKE is a key element of the CORE PRIME and it reveals six components of a robust answer to the question, “What’s at STAKE?”   Before any CHANGE or TRANSFORMATION can occur, people must be convinced; therefore, the STAKE must operate on an organizational, community, and personal level. We start by closely examining our powerful STAKE conversation, dissecting the patterns it reveals, and from those revelations we make the case for change.   The STAKE illustration shows three basic ways that people listen: Analytical people listen with their Heads. Emotional people listen with their Hearts. Financially motivated people listen with their Wallets.   When you’re up to something big that requires enrolling a large group, there will be a mix of all three types of people. You must address each of their unique ways of listening.   Powerful STAKE conversations must have negative aspects (what to avoid or PUSH away from) and positive aspects (what people desire and want to PULL toward them). 
  17. Our brains are hard-wired to make us emotional creatures – our feelings are strong motivators of our behavior. Everything we sense travels through our bodies up the spinal cord to the brain in the form of electric signals. The signals first pass through the brain’s limbic system, the place where emotions are produced. They then travel to our frontal lobe (behind our forehead) the place where rational, logical thinking takes place. The journey the signals follow ensures we experience things emotionally before reason and rationality kick in. The Limbic and Frontal areas do communicate and this is the source of EQ. When Emotions are high it is hard to think clearly. In face of danger or under stress, the brain puts out a rush of adrenaline that drives the blood from our brain and into our limbs where it can help us fight or take flight. We get dumbed down. In order to think clearly, we have to reengage the brain. SHIFT PERSPECTIVE Changing our thinking patterns. The secret is to manage the way we explain situations to ourselves. You have to SHIFT YOUR PERSPECTIVE The mind needs conditioning as much as our muscles.
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