Most people had already understood that quitters never
win. That is undeniably the truth, as always. There are
times when allowing a person believe that you've quit can
turn the tables in your approval. This strategy is applicable
in both life and love.
Always bear in mind that you will never give up. You are
just adjusting with the breakup or separation. You are
permitting to break things off. You are making your "ex"
believe that you have endured the breakup without any
complains or that you have thought to cease the fighting
and accept that this is how things working for the two of
you.
The reasons why this is an effective strategy to help you
get your ex back are very numerous. One reason is that it
directly makes your ex so defensive. Then, he is starting to
question the thing which made you so interested to walk
away when before, you were really not. Your ex will be
recognizing the new you and this is what you want in
times like this.
The second is that it will amaze your ex. Maybe your ex
believes he/she knows you very well. Your ex was certain
that you'd be fighting things longer for a while. Your ex has
also possibly thought that you'd never just barely agree
then give in. It compels your ex to ask everything he/she
believes and assumes about you.
Third, it will make your ex feel like he or she is the one
being dismissed. In a way that's precisely what you're
doing. You're telling your ex that you've decided he or she
is no longer worth your effort, time, and attention to hold
onto. It turns the tables, just a little bit, and gives your ex
a taste of what you've been going through since being
dumped.
The bottom line is that "giving up" puts you front and
center on your ex's mind. That's EXACTLY where you want
to be. More importantly, it gets you there in a manner that
isn't stressful to your ex. Your ex is going to start
remembering the good things about your relationship
instead of focusing only on the bad and constantly fueling
his or her anger, resentment, or feelings of general
discontent.
There will be many reasons to come up at the end of the
day why this is an effective strategy. You just need to have
the presence of mind on what comes next. Take a look at
this FREE video to know what you need now that you've
already taken your ex' attention so that you can get your
ex back as quick as the blink of an eye.