3. For real lasting enduring genuine love It must
be an unselfish innate desire to protect & to
help & to make someone else happy.
為了要有一種真正持久、經得起考驗的無偽真
愛。你們之間的愛及關係一定要建立在一個
較為持久的基礎上，而不只是肉體上互悅及
滿足而已。這個基礎一定要是在你內心有一
種不自私的欲望，想要去保護、幫助對方及
4. "And because lawlessness will abound,
the love of many will grow cold. MAT.24:12
那時世上的罪惡劇增，大
MAT.24:12
部分人的愛心都變成冷淡 ；
5. Using
People
Selfishly
versus
Sacrificial
Giving
自私的利用人或
是犧牲給予 ?
6. All the best things in life are shared. That's why
many don't marry, they don't want to share. Pride &
selfishness wreck more marriages (relationships)
than anything else.
在生命中所有最好的事物都是由於分享而有的。這就
是為什麼許多人不結婚的原因，他們不想要分享。驕
傲及自私，比任何其他事物更摧毀了更多的婚姻 ( 愛
7. The rule of thumb is very simple
& it's summed up in the little
slogan on priorities,
"Jesus & others, then you".
一般性的原則是十分簡單的，它
可用一個小口號來總括其意義，
說明其優先次序，那就是 :
「耶穌、別人，然後是你」
。
9. The absolutely
perfect mate
simply does not
exist or they
wouldn't be
human.
十全十美的配偶根
本就不存在，否則
的話，他們就不會
是人類了。
10. If someone can stand to put up with you, maybe
you'd better learn how to put up with them too and be
thankful that anyone is willing to live with you at all.
如果有人能夠容忍你、與你一同生活的
話，那麼也許你也最好學習如何容忍他
們，並且因有任何人願意與你一同生活
11. If you want to leave your mate simply because
there is something about them you don't like,
you're going to want to leave every mate you
ever get, because there's bound to be
something you don't like about each one.
你若想要離開你的配偶，只因為他（她
）有些地方你不喜歡，那麼你將會想要
離開你會有的每一個配偶，因為他們每
一個人一定會有一些地方你不喜歡的。
12. If you can't get along with the mate
you now have under almost any
circumstances, how do you know
you're going to be able to get along
with the next one under almost any
other circumstances?
如果你在幾乎任何情況下，都無
法與你現有的配偶合得來的話，
那麼你如何能知道你將能在幾乎
任何其他情況下，與你下一個配
13. People who can't get along with
their present mate, frequently can't
get along with any mate! Success in
marriage is much more than finding
the right person!--It is a matter of
being the right person!
那些不能與他們現有的配偶合得來的
人，他們經常也不能與任何配偶合得
來！
婚姻成功的要訣並不只是在於找到那
適合的對象！而是在於你本身成為那
15. No man (or woman) can stand being
constantly belittled & humiliated, brow-
beaten & henpecked.
沒有男人 ( 或女人 ) 能受得
了不斷地被藐視、被侮辱、
被威嚇叱責及不斷的嘮叼惱
16. Be to her virtues 對她的美德，要非常溫
very kind. Be to her 柔地珍視，對她的錯誤
faults a little blind. ，則要稍微盲目忽視。
17. Compliment her! Tell her she's beautiful & she'll
be beautiful! Tell her she's wonderful & she'll be
wonderful!
讚賞她！告訴她她是美麗的，於是她就
會是美麗的！告訴她她是美妙的，於是
她便會是美妙的了！
18. Say "I love you"
a hundred times a day!
在每天，說一
百次「我愛
你」！
19. Phil.4:8 applies to your
mate as well. Try to
remind yourself
constantly of his or her
good qualities, the good
things, & try not to think
about the bad things.
腓立比書 4:8 也可應用
在你的伴侶身上。設
法不斷提醒你自己，
他或她的好素質、那
些優越良善之處 ; 而設
法不要去想及那些缺
20. 嫉妒 - 另外一 Jealousy- Another
個愛情關係的 obstacle to
障礙 ; Relationships:
“I will pray
for you!”
21. i.e. sharing our loved one, when partner is busy with others,
ministries, even having some free time, relaxation, etc.
例如不願意分享我們的配偶去輔導
別人 , 或是不讓他花時間跟別人相處
22. Suspicion is far more
apt to be wrong than
right, oftener unjust
than just. It is no friend
to virtue, & always an
enemy to happiness.
猜疑通常多半是錯多
於對的，更經常是不
公平多於公平。它不
是美德的朋友，及總
是快樂的敵人。
23. "Thou shalt give unto him that asketh of thee & of
him that would borrow of thee, turn not thou
away."
「你要給與那些向你求助的人，那些向
你借貨的人，你不可拒絕他。」
24. You better be
thankful for what you
have, even if it's only
a little. Be thankful
you have to share
once in awhile. Be
thankful you're able
to have something to
share once in awhile.
即使你有的只是
一點點，你也最
好因你所有的而
感恩。要因每隔
一陣子你必須分
享而感恩。要因
每隔一陣子你能
有一些事物去分
25. As Mrs. Billy Graham
said when they asked
her, "How can you
stand to be married to
a man who is gone
most of the time?"
She said, "I'd rather
have a little bit of Billy
Graham than a whole
lot of somebody else."
就如當人們問比利葛培理太太時，她所回答的
一樣，他們問她：「你如何能受得了，與一個
大部份時間都不在家的男人結了婚呢？」她說
: 「我寧可有一點點比利葛培理，也好過有很
27. You must forgive those who have wronged you & seek
forgiveness of those whom you have wronged & take
them by the hand back into your circle of love &
fellowship & happy, joyful labours & pleasures together.
你一定要原諒那些錯待你的人 ; 而對那些你曾
錯待的人，你要真心尋求他們的原諒，並且用
手再把他們帶進你們愛心、聯誼的圈子裏，再
在一起快樂歡欣的工作及享受歡樂。
28. The Law of Love
supersedes the law of
Justice. The law of Justice
says you can divorce your
wife if she has been
disloyal & unfaithful to you,
& for a lot of reasons.
「愛的律法」大過講
「公正」的律法。講
「公正」之律法說，如
果你的妻子或丈夫對你
不忠實、不忠心，以及
因為許多理由，你可以
與她或他離婚
29. But the Law of Love says if he/
she's sorry, you should forgive
him/her & take him/her back in
& love him/her. How do you
know but maybe you'll be able
to win them through your love?
但是「愛的律法」說，如果她或他覺得後悔的話，你
應該原諒她 ( 他 ) ，把她 ( 他 ) 重新再帶回你的懷抱中
及愛她 ( 他 ) 。你怎麼知道你不能鸁回你的妻子或丈
夫呢？你怎麼知道你不能藉著你的愛而鸁取她 ( 他 )
30. 贏 I pray for him
daily, because I
取 really love him
還
沒
相
信
耶
穌
的
人
來
信 Winning non-believers
祂 to be believers
31. 弟兄，你那位軟 That weak wife,
弱的妻子，應該 Brother, ought to bring
會引發出你內在 out the protective
的保護本能，這 instinct in you or may
也許是上帝教導 be God's way of
你有關愛、耐心 teaching you love,
及憐憫的方式。
patience and mercy.
32. That weak husband,
Sister, may be just
what you need to
bring out the strong
motherly instinct in
you that'll make you
a good leader &
keep you both closer
to the Lord!
姐妹，你那位軟弱
的丈夫，也許就正
是你所需要的，來
引發你內在的強烈
母性本能，而且這
麼一來將可使你成
為一個好的領導人
，並使你們兩人都
33. Principle of the Love Triangle;
Jesus being the Glue
愛的三角形 : 耶穌是我們中間的黏
著劑
34. Without good communication with your
Lord there cannot be much good
communication between you.
Lord! I…uh…
你們若與你們的上主
之間沒有好的溝通的
話，那麼在你們之間
也不可能會有多少好
36. To have a few occasional
personality clashes is
understandable, but love
never fails, & these
should be healed through
humility, love & the oil of
His Spirit.
偶然發生幾次性格方
面的衝突是可被諒解
的，但是愛永不失敗
，這些事情是應該可
以藉著謙卑、愛及祂
聖靈之油而被治愈的
37. Some people seem to
have forgotten all about
something called love, real
love, which can survive
almost any difficulties,
differences, weaknesses,
shortcomings, failures,
faults, sins or obstacles.
有些人似乎完全忘記
了一件叫愛、真愛的
東西，有了這東西，
你能經得起幾乎任何
困難、不同、弱點、
缺點、過錯、罪或阻
43. Marriage should be as
equal as possible, as
sharing as possible.
You should talk
together, pray together,
love together, discuss
together & then decide
& agree together.
婚姻應該是盡可能
的平等、盡可能的
分享。你們應該在
一起談、一起禱告
、愛在一起、一起
討論，然後一起決
定及同意。
44. Don't forget to say, "I love you!" Keep speaking words
of love. Words sometimes can do more for a woman
than anything else!--Especially if you are speaking with
love, tenderness, meaning & sincerity.
不要忘了去說 : 「我愛你！」不斷說出充滿
愛意的話語。話語有時比任何其他事物更能
感動一個女人的心！─ 特別是如果你是充滿
愛意、溫柔、真心、誠懇這麼說的話。
45. A Tip to the
Women: Be
Tender, not
so pushy, etc.
給女士的
小秘訣 :
要保持
溫柔 ,
不要咄
46. God's law is that a woman's
desire shall be unto her
husband (Gen.3:16) & the
Devil's been trying to
overthrow that from the
beginning, of which women's
lib is a classic example.
上帝定的律條是，一
個女人應戀慕她的丈
夫（創世記 3:16 ），
而魔鬼從最開始就在
設法廢除這個律條，
所謂「婦女解放運動
」就是一個典型的例
47. They don't desire to
please their husbands,
they desire to rule over
them. They don't want
equality, they want to
enslave their husbands &
to be the boss. It's
rebellion against the plan
& order of God.
她們不想要取悅
她們的丈夫，她
們只想要統治他
們。做領頭上司
，這種作法是叛
逆上帝的計劃及
48. It must be pride that keeps so many women from giving in,
surrendering, they hate to give up. It's almost like they hate to
trust the Lord, much less their husband. I guess it's just the nature
of women that after a certain length of time their faith in their
husband & their confidence in him wears off & they try to get
control & make the decisions & do what they think is best.
一定是因為驕傲，使得那麼多女人不願屈順、
降服，她們憎惡降服。這幾乎就好像是她們憎
惡去信靠上主，更別說去信靠她們的丈夫了。
我猜想這只是女人的天性，在過了某一段時間
之後，她們對她們丈夫的信心及信心逐漸減少
，而她們設法想要控制一切、作決定及去做她
49. They lose respect for their husband & no longer
honour him. They only want to control him & make
sure he does what they want him to do. He
becomes a tool in their own hand instead of leaving
him in the Lord's hand, & they try to use him to get
their way. It's part of the Devil's corruption, trying to
throw a monkey-wrench in God's machinery.
她們失去了對她們丈夫的尊敬之心，也不再
敬重他。她們只想要控制他，確定他在做她
們想要他去做的事。他成為在她們手中的一
個工具，而沒有將他放在上主的手中，她們
設法利用他來達到她們的目的。這是魔鬼使
人墮落敗壞的部份作法，他在設法搗亂上帝
50. 其他有關婚姻的引言… OTHER QUOTES ON
MARRIAGE
…
Don't marry the girl
you can live with, but
marry the girl you
can't live without!
不要與一個你能和她在
一起生活的女孩子 / 男
孩子結婚，你要與那個
若沒有她 ( 他 ) 你就不能
生活下去的女孩子 / 男
51. The great secret of
successful
marriage is to treat
all disasters as
incidents, & none
of the incidents as
disasters.
成功婚姻的大秘
訣是，把所有大
事當作小事，並
且不把任何小事
當作大事來看待
52. If you want to learn something about
unselfishness, humility and sharing, just get
married!
如果你想要學習有關不自私、謙卑
和分享之事的話，那麼就結婚吧
53. Marriage is more than sex or friendship or even a
business partnership for the Lord's Work!
婚姻不只是性愛關係或友誼，或甚至是
為上主工作的一個事務合夥人關係而已
54. It is the most intimate, humbling, loving & self-sacrificial
relationship between human beings in all of life. "No
greater love hath any man than this: that a man lay
down his life for his friends!" (Jn.15:13)
它是在人類所有生命中最親密、最使人謙卑、
最富愛心、最需自我犧牲的關係。「人為朋友
捨命，人的愛心沒有比這個大的！」（約翰
55. This is love, real love, true love--the
willingness of a husband to sacrifice
himself for his wife, the eagerness
of a wife to lay down her life for her
husband!
這是愛、真正的愛、無偽的愛，一
個作丈夫的願意為他的妻子犧牲他
自己，一個作妻子的切望為她的丈
夫捨命！
56. This is 這是超
supernatural 自然的
love, divine 愛、屬
love, God's 神的愛
Love, more 、上帝
than human! 的愛，
超過人
類的愛
！
Love, Till Death do Us Part!
57. LOVE YOU SO000 MUCH!
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