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You need to look at the things YOU do that you know are not helpful to the relationship. If you want something different, you have to do something different!<br />It’s very important to pay attention to and express appreciation for positive things your partner says or does--no matter how small!<br />Try not to start your sentences with “you should”, “you shouldn’t”. No one likes to be ordered around and told what to do. <br />Remember that relationships are not only about taking; they are about giving as well. <br />

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Never try to change your partner because people don’t change. You have to face it! We may try to learn from our mistakes and act differently in some situations, but we can’t become someone we are not. <br /> Something good is to give your partner some free space. Don’t try and demand from the person that you care about to spend all of his/her free time with you. <br />

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With patience, understanding and creativity you can turn your relationship into an amazing experience.<br />You have to respect his/her wishes and decisions even if you don’t agree with them.<br />Do not make less your partner’s self-esteem by making comparisons with other people.<br />You have to love the other person the way he/she is. <br />You must learn that punishing your partner won&apos;t work. A better tactic is to reward the things you like and ignore what you don&apos;t like. <br />If you don’t give quality time to your partner, your relationship will not survive. Find out at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when both of you spend time exclusively together. <br />

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Remember that when things turn bored usually it hides anger. If you feel bored with him, ask yourself what you&apos;re angry about. <br />Something helpful is to learn how to argue well. The trick is to never say anything that you wouldn&apos;t want to hear said to you. <br />Always try to forgive. If you know you will never forgive your partner over something important, then give both a break and start again.<br />