A short guide for the bondage beginners3. Many people have tried bondage club and found it to be an exciting way to spice up their love life. 4. The most important aspect is trust, because one of the partners is restricted and therefore vulnerable. 6. The active partner should never use the session purely to fulfill their own fantasies in a selfish way. 8. It allows some people to relax and enjoy being given pleasure without worries of giving pleasure back at the same time. 9. Some prefer to struggle against their restraints (they say it builds up an exciting adrenaline rush). 13. Take turns in tying each other using silk scarves and then tease; 14. Tie up with something that can easily be broken out of. Then they only have to stay in that position if they want to be there; 21. Never let a partner coerce or bully you into any sexual practice that you don't want to do. 25. Have a safe word (something that the passive partner can say if they want the other person to stop). Everything must be stopped immediately, and the passive partner released within seconds. 29. They have to be comfortable, breathing properly, nothing may be cutting off their circulation. 31. Don't rush into anything that uses complicated equipment without experience.