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Joel Young - Negotiation Skills
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Negotiation – Vero
2013 © Joel Young (2012) www.newinsight.co.nz With acknowledgements to M. Rosenburg’s&D.Riddell for inspiration. To sustainably achieve goals as a team we must stay on the same page and avoid pretend agreements that result in resentment. This workshop teaches the skills of assertiveness and negotiation as well as theory on perceived power. This facilitates ownership, and mutuality, and avoids resentment. Agenda: Personal Power and Perceived Power o Power is as power is perceived o Why do I say yes/no? Ownership o Pretend agreements o Resentment Check What is Yes and No o What’s the ‘need’ behind the ‘no’? o If I say yes do I mean it? A good negotiator aims for mutual need meeting(bi-winning) not just ‘winning’! Negotiation Awareness Write down some thoughts, feelings, and needs that activate when you think of negotiation. I think_____________________________________________ I feel______________________________________________ I need_____________________________________________ Our memories, associations, echos, welds and beliefs all come together to determine how well we assert ourselves. If we don’t dismantle our defaults we are destined to disaster, that is, unless we had a perfect upbringing!. Q. What did my parents (or caregiver) teach me about negotiation? Mum ______________________________________________ Dad _______________________________________________ Who held the power!?_______________________________ Why? _____________________________________________ Notes:
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Negotiation – Vero
2013 © Joel Young (2012) www.newinsight.co.nz With acknowledgements to M. Rosenburg’s&D.Riddell for inspiration. Step 1 = Awareness of self and other Put my judgments/strategy aside. What are my needs and feelings? What are their needs and feelings? Step 2 = Expressing my need and Empathising with theirs When I notice: I feel: I have a need for: Step 3 = Brainstorm (traditional negotiations) I would like… Would you consider… Spinning Spanner of Death – (being addicted to our strategy) Psychodynamics kick in on difficult conversations with difficult people (that includes us sometimes). e.g. Deep Hurts, Family Mottos, Outdated Beliefs. Q. What are my vulnerabilities? ___________________ Q. What is my default spanner? ___________________ Boundaries Negotiation has to take place inside healthy boundaries. Fundamentals like; My feelings are my feelings. My needs are my needs. My actions are my actions. Boundaries tell us what is ours and what isn’t. Q.Are you aware of your own boundaries? Without boundaries we take responsibility for what isn’t ours.Assertiveness is about protecting our boundaries or negotiating boundary lines. Without assertiveness people don’t know what our boundaries are. “…their response is THEIR RESPONSIBILITY”. Overstep and Pushback exercise. Asserting my boundary felt ____________________. Being pushed back on felt ______________________. Without true negotiation we don’t agree on where the boundaries are. This is called a pretend agreement. Notes: “What bruises do I have that influence my negotiations?”
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Negotiation – Vero
2013 © Joel Young (2012) www.newinsight.co.nz With acknowledgements to M. Rosenburg’s&D.Riddell for inspiration. Pretend Agreements I am in pretend agreement with ____________________. Because I feel ________________ . I find it difficult to be honest with them because ___________ __________________________________________________. Pretend agreements breed resentment which results in distanced relationships.Taking time to think things over is different. Pretending you are thinking things over is also a pretend agreement. Keys to negotiating more win/wins in my life: Change in thinking: *___________________________________________ *___________________________________________ *___________________________________________ Change in action/technique: *___________________________________________ *___________________________________________ *___________________________________________ *___________________________________________ Recommended Recourses www.newinsight.co.nz Strength Finders with Anna Sanford Counselling/Coaching with Joel/other Relate – Christopher Defibaugh School of Living Wisdom Boundaries Face to Face – Town and Cloudsend ______________________________ Notes:Notes:Notes:Notes:Notes:Notes: “My responsibility is to speak the truth in love and their response is their responsibility.”
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Negotiation – Vero
2013 © Joel Young (2012) www.newinsight.co.nz With acknowledgements to M. Rosenburg’s&D.Riddell for inspiration. Common Feelings curious furious calm uncomfortable stressed depressed overwhelmed tender afraid reluctant impatient hurt unhappy ashamed disappointment sad puzzled troubled shocked tired anxious irritated vulnerable surprised bored embarrassed concerned angry annoyed sceptical torn worried confused frustrated upset envious nervous discouraged suspicious scared grumpy thrilled comfortable inspired relieved happy content thankful optimistic delighted excited grateful hopeful intrigued Common Needs CONNECTION acceptance affection appreciation belonging cooperation communication closeness community companionship compassion consideration consistency empathy inclusion intimacy love mutuality nurturing respect/self-respect safety security stability support to know and be known to see and be seen to understand and be understood trust warmth HONESTY authenticity integrity presence PLAY joy humour PEACE beauty communion ease equality harmony inspiration order PHYSICAL WELLBEING air food movement/exercise rest/sleep sexual expression safety shelter touch water MEANING awareness celebration of life challenge clarity competence consciousness contribution creativity discovery efficacy effectiveness growth hope learning mourning participation purpose self-expression stimulation to matter understanding AUTONOMY choice freedom independence space spontaneity
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