2. LEARNING ABOUT EACH OTHER
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Who am I?
This talk is based on
Workshops and
sessions in STTPs,
college,
Publication in
conferences and
journals
discussions with
academicians
some experimentation.
Who are You?
Background
Qualification
Experience
Pre requisite
4. BEFORE WE BEGIN……..
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Agenda
Importance of Attitude
Benefits of positive
attitude
Consequences o
negative attitude
Steps for building
positive attitude
You can at any time in
the session:
Interrupt
Comment
Share
Your expectations from the program?
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FOR ME, ATTITUDE CAN BE DEFINED AS ONE
WORD…LIFE.
• It makes an incredible difference in your LIFE.
• It can be a powerful tool for positive action.
• It can be a poison that cripples you.
• It dictates whether you’re living life or life’s living you.
• It determines whether you’re…
ON THE WAY or IN THE WAY.
8. WHAT IS ATTITUDE?
Attitude is a state of mind
Your attitude is your mind-set
It is the way you look at things mentally
Attitudes are evaluative statements
It expresses individuals positive or negative feeling
about the same object.
Can attitude be learnt?
Is attitude contagious?
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9. How do you recognize attitude?
What are things in your control/ not in your control
which affect your attitude?
Impact of negative attitude.
Let us brainstorm and list some killer statements
which indicate negativity. How do you feel when
you are on the receiving end?
Benefits of positive attitude.
Who controls your attitude? 9
10. NEGATIVE ATTITUDE TRAITS
ANGRY
NEGATIVE BODY LANGUAGE,
DEFENSIVE,
CONFRONTING OTHERS, WORDS THEY USE,
CAN’T ADMIT MISTAKES, WON’T FORGIVE,
JEALOUSY,
CRITICAL OF EVERYTHING & EVERYONE,
ANTI EVERYTHING,
MISTRUSTFUL,
UNCOOPERATIVE,
PROBLEM ORIENTED,
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11. IMPORTANT CHARACTERISTIC OF
ATTITUDE
Attitudes affect behaviour
Attitudes are invisible
Attitudes are acquired
Attitudes are pervasive
Attitudes & Belief
Attitudes & Values
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13. BRAINSTORM ACTIVITY
I feel I have a ……………… attitude because
…………….
I like being with people who have a
……………………. Attitude because
…………………..
One thing I like about my friend is
……………………………………………………
If I could teach my friend one thing it would be
…………………………………..
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“You can make yourself
happy or make yourself
miserable, the amount
of work is the same.” –
Don Juan
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Your attitude reflects YOU.
Focus on the POSITIVE.
Your Setbacks can be Setups for
even greater opportunities.
Be committed to change!
17. List some negative assumptions.
Transform them into positive assumptions.
Attitude buildingDale Carnegie - Top 10 Quotes.flv
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Your choices TODAY impact your
successes TOMORROW.
Happiness is Your’s to create.
Build your attitude from the INSIDE out.
Watch what you say to yourself.
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“Ability is what you are
capable of doing.
Motivation determines what
you do.
Attitude determines how well
you do it.”
– Lou Holtz
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The BAGGAGE you carry shapes your
attitude. “IF-only?”; “What-now?”;
“What-if?” The root causes of bad
attitude are-Low Self Esteem, Stress,
Fear, Resentment, Anger.
Toss the BAGGAGE and lighten the
load.
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Change your attitude with a change in
PERSPECTIVE. Give yourself permission
to love and forgive.
See Failure as an Event.
Don’t Take it Personally.
22. WORD SEARCH GAME
In groups, having following attitude:
All positive
All negative
More positive, few negative
More negative, few positive
Observers and participants will discuss the
reactions and responses.
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“FAILURES” WHO MADE IT BIG...
• Harrison Ford was told early in his career by a studio exec
that he’d never make it as a leading man...he didn’t have
“it.”
• In high school, Michael Jordan was cut from the basketball
team.
• Thomas Edison failed 6000 times before the light bulb.
• Charles Schwab was dyslexic and almost flunked out of
Stanford after failing English twice.
• Vanessa Williams was de-crowned Miss. America and has
become a an award-winning African-American actress.
25. Every failure, obstacle or hardship is an
opportunity in disguise. Success in many
cases is failure turned inside out.
Eliminate the negative attitude and believe
you can do anything. Replace 'if I can, I
hope, maybe' with 'I can, I will, I must.”
Mary Kay Ash
Founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics empire
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27. HOW DO YOU RESPOND TO FAILURE?
I’m such an IDIOT!
I’ll never try THAT
again!
What can I learn
from this
experience?
OR
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28. ACTIVITY
Positive sharing
How do you like some one praising/ appreciating
you?
Could you also appreciate your friends?
Attitude buildingMotivational video Change your
mind in just 2.50 mins .mp4
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29. EIGHT ACTION STEPS TO BUILD
POSITIVE ATTITUDE.
VIII. Start your day with a positive attitude.
I. Change focus, look for the positive.
II. Make it a habit of doing it now.
III. Develop an attitude of gratitude.
IV. Get into a continuous education programme.
V. Build a positive self-esteem.
VI. Stay away from negative influences.
VII. Learn to like the needs that need to be done.
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•Your attitude is YOUR responsibility… Start managing your emotions.
•Change your perspective.
•YOU determine the value of YOUR life experiences.
Life is 10% what happens to YOU and
90% how YOU respond to it.
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You must have VISIONS, GOALS and PLANS to turn attitude into
action.
Lack of VISION will make you lose.
Develop a complete GAME PLAN.
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BE PREPARED to take action BEFORE a situation
occurs. Victory lies on the other side of each
challenge…
KEEP THE FAITH.
Attitude buildingPositive Attitude is Everything - Very Funny Attitude
Video - Inspirational.flv
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•Count your blessings daily.
•Get proper rest and exercise.
•Set aside personal time with family and close friends.
•Help someone less fortunate.
•Read and listen to motivational books and tapes.
•Motivation is not permanent.
•Reflect on your victories – things you’ve forgotten that
were special.
•Create an upbeat, positive greeting.
Motivation…
35. MIRROR ACTIVITY
1. Leaning forward in chair
2. Leaning back in chair, arms folded
3. Resting chin in both hands
4. Resting chin on your knuckles
5. Yawning
6. Smiling
7. Frowning
8. Smiling and nodding
9. Rubbing your temples
10. Glancing at watch
11. Looking around the room
12. Tapping fingers on the table
Discuss your reactions.
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36. HANDOUT
How powerful is nonverbal communication?
Do we all interpret nonverbal messages in the
same way? Why or why not? What is the “correct”
interpretation?
What are some things we can keep in mind
regarding the messages we send nonverbally?
What are some nonverbal signals we may use in
times of conflict that adversely affect resolution?
What are some nonverbal signals that would
indicate a willingness to work toward resolution and
collaboration?
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Build Your OWN “A – Team”
Network with like-minded
individuals…shared values are the
foundation.
Use your Partnerships!
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Our tools will help YOU create
REAL SYNERGIES
REAL PARTNERSHIPS
REAL
ATTITUDES!
40. ACTIVITY
Write a positive happiness message for each of
your friend in a group
What is your reaction when you get this happiness
message?
Make a new friend.
Attitude buildingMotivational - Rebirth of an
Eagle.mp4 40
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Embrace change…it’s inevitable.
Develop a “Whatever-It-Takes” attitude.
Take your time…change doesn’t happen overnight.
Keep your long-term goals in mind.
Brainstorm: What is the one thing you can change in
yourself?
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No matter what you do in life, if you have a
positive attitude,
you’ll always be100%
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A = 1
T = 20
T = 20
I = 9
T = 20
U = 21
D = 4
E = 5
ATTITUDE = 100
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!
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Make a difference in the life of
someone else and be self-fulfilled.
We can all find the time to GIVE BACK.
Attitude buildingHarsha Bhogle_ Attitude is more important than
talent.flv
45. UNLESS YOU ARE ON CONSTANT GUARD NEGATIVES
CAN SLIP IN TO YOUR MIND WHICH MAKE YOUR MIND
TIME SPEND ON DIFFICULTIES RATHER THAN ON
OPPORTUNITIES
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46. IF NEGATIVE FACTORS STAY AROUND FOR A LONG
TIME THEY WILL BE REFLECTED IN YOUR DISPOSITION
THE POSITIVE MAY BE STILL THERE BUT MAY BE
OVERSHADOWED BY THE NEGATIVE
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47. HAVING A (+) IMPACT ON (-) PEOPLE
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BE A POSITIVE
EXAMPLE
LISTEN BUT SET
LIMITS
HELP THEM DIAGNOSE
IT
FOCUS ON BEHAVIOR
APPROPRIATE USE OF
PRAISE
ENCOURAGE THEM
HELP THEM SET
GOALS
DEPERSONALIZE
MISTAKES
HELP THEM BE
SUCCESSFUL
COACH OR MENTOR
THEM
DIRECT TO PROBLEM
SOLVING
USE “I” STATEMENTS
APPEAL TO THEIR
PRIDE
GIVE THEM MORE
RESPONSIBILITY
48. AIDS TO COMMUNICATION
Listen Actively
Relax
Observe body
language
Develop interest in
others interests
Ask for clarification
Plan what you are
going to say
Tailor words to
person
Determine the best
timing
Determine the best
place
Why is the
conversation
necessary
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49. Which is the one single quote you can think of to
convince your friend to become positive?
How do I create a positive environment around me?
In what ways can I make my friends feel positive?
What is the best gift I can give my parents after
completing my education?
What quotes can keep you going on the path to
success by ensuring that you continue to be
motivated and positive to achieve your goals?
What is the first step to achieve success? 49
50. SUMMARY AND ACTION PLAN
What is the five important things that I have learnt
today?
What are the two things I am going to do to change
my attitude?
In what two ways can I help my friend to keep up a
positive attitude?
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51. THANK YOU
For your time
For participation in the session
For being a learner
For the work you do everyday!!!!!!!
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