Leaner and remixed from the previous talk. What lessons from working with Complex Computer Systems can we apply to our Complex Human Relationships? How can optimizing for relationship or repair make us better? What tools can we use to do this?

1. OPERATING HUMAN SYSTEMS:
MTBF V. MTTR
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2. COMPLEX SYSTEMS
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3. MEAN TIME BETWEEN
FAILURE
MEAN TIME TO
REPAIR
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4. THERE IS NO ROOT CAUSE IN
{COMPLEX SYSTEMS | RELATIONSHIPS}
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11. LESSONS FROM DISTRIBUTED SYSTEMS:
TRANSLATIONS
ARE HARD
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12. ASSUME
GOOD INTENT
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14. LESSONS FROM NETWORKING:
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15. "WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS 'X',
WHAT I'M HEARING IS 'Y'."
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16. NON-VIOLENT
COMMUNICATION
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17. NVC FRAMEWORK
1. Observation: !== evaluation || judgement
2. Feelings: !== thinking, [SASHET]
3. Needs: connection, well-being, honesty, play, peace,
autonomy, meaning
4. Requests: what we DO want, != demand
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18. NVC FRAMEWORK
1. Observation: !== evaluation || judgement
2. Feelings: !== thinking, [SASHET]
3. Needs: connection, well-being, honesty, play, peace,
autonomy, meaning
4. Requests: what we DO want, != demand
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19. NVC FRAMEWORK
1. Observation: !== evaluation || judgement
2. Feelings: !== thinking, [SASHET]
3. Needs: connection, well-being, honesty, play, peace,
autonomy, meaning
4. Requests: what we DO want, != demand
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20. > Richard Cook - "How Complex Systems Fail"
(http://bit.ly/2mKO8UL)(pdf)
> Velocity 2012: Richard Cook - "How Complex Systems Fail"
(https://youtu.be/2S0k12uZR14)
> Philip G Boysen, II, MD, MBA, FACP, FCCP, FCCM - "Just Culture: A Foundation for
Balanced Accountability and Patient Safety"
(http://bit.ly/2DgJM1Z)
> Certified Fresh Events: "Oh No You Didn't: Conflict Management in Today's Tech
Industry"
(https://certifiedfreshevents.com/events/conflict-management/)
> The Center for Non-Violent Communication
(https://www.cnvc.org/)
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