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Make Him Desire You™ by Alex Carter

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Ever seen a kid at the candy store? I bet you have.
Now imagine the same kid staring all over the store from corner to
corner, and salivating over every little to big piece of candy, in the
store.
At first, he just wants the red candy, but then he looks at the green
one, and that appears to be more delicious, so he changes his mind,
and now wants the green one.
But, he doesn’t stop there. Suddenly, he sees the pink candy, and
now he has changed his mind all over again, and wants the pink
one.
He finally gets the pink one, eagerly unwraps it and quickly puts it
in his mouth.
He absolutely loves how it tastes, but suddenly his mind wonders –
If this one tastes this good, I wonder what the other ones taste
like?
Then he forces his dad to buy him the green one, and then also
the red one. But even after tasting 3 candies one after another, he
still wants more.
Something similar goes on in a man’s mind, when it comes to
women and attraction. There is no guarantee that if he likes or
even loves you right now, this feeling is going to sustain in his
mind, and he will continue to like, or love you forever.
In fact, most men are absolutely unconscious to this reality, and are
in a reactive mode. In other words, they are completely at prey to
their emotions, and only act on how they feel around you.

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If they feel good around you, they like you.
If they feel attached to you, they love you.
And if they feel sexual around you, they will try to have sex with
you.
You probably know how the drill runs right?
But, does that mean that you can’t do anything to ensure that he
remains attracted to you, over the long term? No. In fact, there are
things you can do, which will make him completely ignore his
natural urges, and will make him see you as a high quality woman.
A woman he would never ever want to let go.
But before I even explain the process to you, let me give you 3 big
reasons why you absolutely must learn this...
Big reason #1 – Most don’t know that they don’t know, but
they think they know…
At first, this looks like a fancy play of words, but try to read the
above once again.
You will realize that the point I’m trying to make is simple –
Women assume that they understand men and how their mind
works, but they really don’t.
I don’t mean to sound rude or arrogant, but majority of women I
coach, have very little, to no idea regarding how the male mind
functions, and nor do they understand the primary drivers behind
why men do what they do.

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So, when you don’t clearly understand the true motivation behind
why a man ignores, you or avoids you, then you will never be able
to alter that reality.
However, I'm also not blaming you for it. No one is taught this
subject in school, therefore, it's not really your fault for not having
enough information in this area.
However, the issue I usually encounter is that some women assume,
that they understand everything, and there is nothing new under
the sun. That's the point when they often harm themselves,
because they don't focus on where they could be going wrong.
Big reason #2 – You might assume that it’s the man’s fault
when It’s really not…
I might get some heat for saying this, and some women might
even absolutely hate me, but do you know that in certain situations
- where you assumed that it was the man’s fault it really wasn’t?
Have you ever found your man staring at other women, while he
was out on a date with you? How did it make you feel, and the big
question is – How did you react when you finally caught him
casually glancing at that hot blonde, in the corner of the room?
The standard reaction is to blame the man, and mark him as a
good for nothing loser, who can’t control himself.
But, I have a different view on this, and because of it I’m going to
say something outrageous now – It’s not the man’s fault.
I know, I know! Sounds ridiculous right?

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Well, stay with me because, I’ll explain why I said this very soon
but before that, let me get to the big reason number 3.
Big reason# 3 – You will get total control of his mind when
you understand how he works…
Okay, now don’t take this the wrong way, but if you learn and
apply everything you’re going to discover in this report, you will
find yourself in a very strong position around your man, or any
man for that matter.
To prove this further, I'd like to give you an example. The example
of a moving train.
How do you stop a moving train?
No really, think about it – How do you stop a moving train?
Do you stand in front of it, and assume that just like superwoman,
you will be able to bring it to a complete halt?
No?
Well, It’s obvious that you can’t stop a moving train by standing in
front of it, in fact, that’s a perfect recipe to get yourself killed, but
why do so many women do this with the man in their life?
Trying to make a man do something by asking, forcing, begging,
pleading or even arguing, indirectly means, that you are standing
in front of the train, and hoping that it would stop. The truth is - It
won’t.

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So how do you really stop a moving train?
Well, first, you wait for the time it’s gets slow, then you run along
side it, then you get into the train, and make your way to the main
engine and then control the engine from the inside. That’s the
easiest way.
With a man, you need to do something similar as well. By working
on him from the inside, you will have his unconditional love, and
devotion or as long as you want.
So now, I would like to transition into the next part and tell you 2
really important truths about men, which simply can’t be ignored…
Truth # 1 – Men are always fighting their inner urges…
Life for a man is pretty complicated. Much more complicated than
you can ever imagine. Do you know why? It’s because, majority of
the men don’t understand their own psychology and emotions, and
are in a reactive mode.
Nature didn’t design us to be monogamous. It designed us to
ensure the survival of the human race, therefore we naturally
desire to spread our seed around, among as many women as
possible.
I know this sounds like a very nasty thought, but for some weird
reason, we come from the factory that way.
So just think about it – When you catch your man looking at other
women and call him out on it, he won’t really have a good enough
reason or answer for it.
Becuase the truth is – It’s not an easy answer either way.

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Deep down, he is really fighting his strong inner urges, which were
given to him by good old mother nature. But then, he also has
expectations from your end and the society as a whole, which just
confuses him.
In fact, some men can take this as a personal attack on their
freedom, when they are judged for staring at other women.
They assume – I am feeling these strong urges all the time, while
she is asking me to completely neglect this, and do what she wants
me to do.
Now, the cold truth is this – Since nature designed men this way,
it’s not something you can take out of them by standing in front of
the train.
Rather you will have to work with this weakness, and turn it in your
favor. I’ll show you how to do that soon, but before that let me give
you the second truth about men…
Truth #2 – When you understand his weaknesses, you turn
into his ultimate dream girl…
This is completely counter-intuitive, and isn’t something most
women even understand, let alone actually try.
We have already established that guys are genetically wired to
pursue many woman, but once you understand this weakness and
work with it, you will turn into this special girl, he would never ever
want to let go.
You see – Men do want many women but the moment they find a
high quality woman, the woman who finally gets their psychology
the right way, they can’t help but get strong inner urges to trap her
and be around her as much as possible.

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You see, his mindset and actions around you, will be completely
different to his actions around other women once you get this. In
other words, he will find himself in a consistent state of desire for
you, and will find it hard to think of anyone else but you.
Okay, so now you understand the 3 big reasons why you need to
understand this, and also 2 core truths about men.
Now, the next question is – How do you actually do it? How do you
make him feel a consistent level of desire for you?
The formula is quite simple – In order to keep him consistently
attracted to you, you need to make sure he remains in the bubble
of desire.
But, what is this bubble of desire? Well, it basically means a state
of mind, where a man feels a strong need to capture you. In other
words, it is a state of mind, where whenever he thinks of you – He
experiences strong feelings of love and attraction for you.
So, how does it actually work? Well in order to make him stay in
the bubble of desire, you need to do 2 really important things…
1You need to give him the illusion that he has captured you.
2You break that illusion once in a while, and let him work a little
harder, to capture you again.
What do I mean when I say give him the illusion that he’s captured
you? Well, since we have already established that a man is
genetically wired to pursue as many women as possible.
He naturally experiences strong inner desires and urges, to chase a
woman, until the time he captures her.

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This is why you will see that at first, a man works really hard,
specially at the early stages of the relationship.
He holds hands, and kisses you in public, puts others things on
hold just to spend time with you, and even makes you feel really
good, as often as possible.
But, when a little bit of time passes by, and you find yourself falling
for him more and more, you witness that he is withdrawing a little,
and things between you two, aren’t as intense as they used to be.
The reason why this happens, is because he has captured you, and
now the chase has ended. As long as a woman is a big challenge, a
man will find himself emotionally charged, and is ready to do
anything to get her.
But once he gets her, he finds himself a little bored, and wonders –
Okay, I have her now. What’s next?
So, when you give him the illusion that he has captured you, you
are showing him that he does have a little access to you, but, he
still doesn’t have complete access.
This makes him feel a consistent level of emotional charge, and
this is where, he will find himself in a constant state of desire for
you.
But you must be thinking – Wait a minute here, does this mean, I
have to keep on making him chase me? What if I want to be in a
relationship with him? This sounds like a game and I don’t like
playing games.
Well the truth is – You don’t have to keep on doing this, rather you
will only do this when you feel, that your relationship is getting a
little bit stale.

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And, if you feel this is too much of a game, then you need to once
again read my analogy on how to stop a moving train.
Men are genetically wired this way, and you can’t get them to feel
a consistent level of desire if you aren’t willing to work with their
weakness.
Okay, so now let’s get to our second point – Second point states
that you break the illusion that he has captured you, once in a
while, and make him work hard to capture you once again.
This means, the moment he feels that he has completely captured
you, you must do something which indirectly shows him that there
is a lot more to do, and he might have to work a little harder.
I have an interesting story which illustrates this point really well…
I had a client who was in a long distance relationship. She met this
man on a dating site, and this guy did all the chasing at first.
He used to speak to her for 5 to 6 hours on Skype daily from his
workplace, in fact, he was spending most of his time just speaking
to her.
The things were really hot for the first few weeks, and then they
finally decided to meet. The meeting went way better for my client,
than what she could have ever expected.
They met quite a few times after that, and things seemed to be
going really well up until the middle of the second month.
This is when things started to change a little, as my client found

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to get a little distant.
Their conversations started getting a little dry, and there were
times when they didn’t feel like they had much to talk about.
Eventually, it got to the point where the man claimed that he was
busy for most of his days, and had a lot of work, when in the past
he would spend several hours talking to my client from work.
So, he was clearly lying to her.
Eventually, my client approached me for help, and couldn’t figure
out why he was suddenly uninterested in her.
After she told me everything, I just said one thing – He isn’t in the
bubble of desire anymore. He has been pushed too far back, due
to which, he is taking you for granted right now.
Then I gave her a very easy solution, which is point number 2. I
asked her to pull back a lot more, and wait for him to make the
next move. So, for the next few days, she didn’t call him at all, nor
did she email him.
In other words, she broke the daily pattern she was following. After
the first couple of days, the man emailed her and asked, if she
would like to come talk to him on Skype.
Once again, according to my instructions, she told him that she
was a little busy, and will be busy for a while and, will talk to him
whenever she gets some time.
After the third day or so, this same man was sending her several
emails per day, and was showing the same level of interest, he
showed at the early phases.

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So, the lesson was simple here – When the man knew that he had
captured the girl, he suddenly felt – Okay, so what’s next now?
In short – He felt a little bored because he was out of the pursuit
mode. All I really did was ask my client to put him back into the
pursuit mode, and make him work a little for her attention. This
fixed everything, and he was back in the bubble of desire.
So now, try to use this same formula in your own personal life, and
look for areas where you might have given a little bit too much.
Areas where you know, that maybe you pushed your man outside
the bubble of desire.
It could be something as simple as – Calling him too much, being
too eager to meet him, showing too much love/affection when he
isn’t reciprocating, or even things like putting your whole life on
hold, to make time for him. I hope you get the point.
To conclude, what do you think will happen when you put this
advice into action?
You will witness that men drool after you exactly like a puppy
drools after a piece of bone. Yeah, the analogy sounds a little
exaggerated, but is absolutely true.
However, at this point you must be thinking - what if it doesn’t
work for me?
Well, here are two common situations where this advice might not
work…

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Situation #1 – When the things are beyond the point of
return, in your relationship…
What does point of return even mean? Well in simple terms, when
your partner has seen you in your absolute worst form, and
understands you from inside to outside to a point where things
seem irreparable, that is where, this advice might not work.
I have clients come to me, who have seen both verbal and
emotional abuse, yet still want this to work in their relationship.
The problem is that, when the issue is so deep that it’s goes
beyond the point of return, you might only hurt yourself more by
making it work.
I can talk about this for hours, but this is another topic for another
day, so let’s get to the second situation where it doesn’t work.
Situation # 2- When you don’t believe it will work, and
make mental judgments instead of trying it out…
I can’t tell you how many women I know, who tell me that they’ve
tried it all, but nothing works, when in reality, they haven’t really
acted on the advice they were given.
It is one thing to think of something in your mind and rationally
analyze it, just in your mind.
And it’s completely another thing to actually go out there, and put
it into action. Most women never act because, in their own mind,
they make an assumption that it’s not going to work for them, so
why even bother trying?
This is a massive mistake. The thing is – If you just take action and
stop over-analyzing things, you will be surprised at how quickly your
life actually changes.

14. Therefore I hope you put this advice into action as fast as possible
and I'll love to hear some success stories from your end soon. All
the best.
Alex
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