1. By
T Mohenchander

2. Psychology
 Your Children are not your children
 You are only a means to them
 Do not impose your thoughts on them
 Cause they have enough of themselves
 Ghaleel Gibran

3. The Ways
 You need to know them closely
 Watch them at every stage
 They need you – you need to contribute
 They are flexible
 They can change gears according to plan
 Of course you need to know the road map

4. Their Need
 Instilling confidence by Parents
 Make them know that they are here to create greater
wishes of their parents
 Parents should always learn according to their needs.
 Parents means not just father and mother and its
beyond that

5. Aspirations
 Every child has an idea of their well being
 Knows that they need a clear map of their plans
 Parents need to guide them in their ambitions to
achieve their goals
 Create an atmosphere where the children get into
the ambience at the earliest and start dreaming.

6. The Basics
 Teach them the basics in life as you had and
have
 Make them know the dos and donts
 Clear all apprehensions from their mind
 Impart Godliness always in them
 Create awareness about the family and its
values

7. The Hurdles
 Sparing your time when they need that
 Your compromises ultimately ends in children’s
disbelief
 Never promise anything which is not possible by you.
 Make them understand your responsibilities also,
cause they have to take the mantle latter like you.

8. Disciplines
 Teach discipline as you have envisaged
 They automatically fall in line
 Educate the invaluable (relationships) in life
 Educate their optioned curriculum
 Engage them in a sports activity on a regular
basis. Let them select their activity, but an
activity is a must.

9. They are go getters
 Every child has an ambition today and they are all
well informed of the electronic development.
 Imbibe them through their own medium how to
take up and get going
 Involve them in their area of interest and
encourage them at all levels

10. Putting in
 Your effort to bring in the results should be
articulate and must not be imposed
 When you make them understand their roles
properly the interest is created naturally
 You be a guide and infuse the confidence in
them in their game plan
 Envisage a clear action plan involuntarily

11. Easy ways
 Create a brain storming sessions with your children at
every week end
 Come out of your thoughts and they can also bash out
their ordeals and positive aspects
 Find out a solution then and there and make them
understand, we have an answer
 This puts them in good stead to face the realities in
life

12. The Missing links
 We always do not come out with proper game
plan for their actions
 We always find an excuse this way or that way
and putting the burden on our children and
say we have no time
 Honesty has to be imbibed first and then
preached
 Most of it what you say you have to be like
real Roll Models

13. The Strengths
 Parents and their everlasting faith in their
children and their growth
 You decide yourself first and imp lead them in
all your activities.
 You have to make a kick start and rest of the
game is, in their court
 Select the right ball to hit for a six or else you
may miss because you need to score six runs
to win, the balls available are only one.

14. Summing up
 Every children are God sent with innumerable
ideas and thoughts
 What we need to do is to fix them in the right
place at the right time.
 We are desirous and why don’t we make them
also more desirable.

15. Wishing you all well
 If you have started these exercise – you are
on the right path, if not better late than never.
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