SlideShare une entreprise Scribd logo
1  sur  11
Télécharger pour lire hors ligne
Mindset
by Carol Dweck
Synthesis by Deepak Jayaraman
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Some Context to this Document
• Does not substitute reading the book but hopefully provides an 80% view of the book in less than 20%
of the time it takes to read the book
• Most other book summaries I feel are too brief and don’t provide the richness we seek when we want to come
back to it later. In my mind, they provide a 40% view in 10% of the time it takes to read a book
• Most of us “get it” quite quickly; We don’t need extensive narration. Have used a “Pyramid Principle”
approach
• Instead of just having plain text (which a lot of summaries often are), have tried to keep it visual to aid
digestion
• Written by a Leadership consultant who works with CEOs and CXOs. Hopefully the nature of synthesis is
more appropriate and “fit for purpose” for consumption by business leaders
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Summary in 1 page
SUCCESS OF OTHERS
…feel threatened by the
success of others
…find lessons and
inspiration in the success
of others
CRITICISM
…ignore useful
negative feedback
…learn from
criticism
EFFORT
…see effort as
fruitless or worse
…see effort as the
path to mastery
OBSTACLES
CHALLENGES
Fixed Mindset
Intelligence is static
Growth Mindset
Intelligence can be
developed
Leads to a
desire to look
smart and
therefore a
tendency to…
Leads to a
desire to learn
and therefore a
tendency to…
…avoid challenges …embrace challenges
…get defensive or give
up easily
…persist in the face of
setbacks
As a result, they may plateau early &
achieve less than their full potential
As a result, they reach ever-
higher levels of achievement
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 1: The Mindsets
Key assertions
• Each person starts with a unique genetic endorsement, but research says that experience, training and personal effort take them rest of the way.
• Major factor in whether people achieve expertise is not some fixed prior ability but purposeful engagement.
• The view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life
• Your mindset can fundamentally affect how you deal with situations and develop over time
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
What you tell
yourself
• Basic qualities are things I can cultivate through efforts
• I am not constrained by the “hand I am dealt with”, i.e. the
starting point
• I believe in the power of potential and possibilities that can be
accomplished with years of passion, toil and training
• Need to prove myself again and again
• If I have a certain amount of intelligence, moral character,
personality I better prove that I have a healthy dose of them
• My reputation is at stake each time there is a test, conversation or
an interaction. I want to “look good” and “be right”
• Avoid labeling themselves and throwing up their hands
• Although they are distressed, they are ready to take risks,
confront the challenges
• Keep working away at the areas which come in the way
• Feeling of utter failure and paralysis
• Tend to blame the system, get angry about the world at large and
get into a feeling of self-pity
• Will try and avoid similar situations in the future (stay in bed, get
drunk, eat, yell at someone, eat chocolate, binge etc)
• Look at news in binary terms (good/bad) when it comes to their
traits.
• They process feedback in a distorted manner – some outcomes
are magnified, some are explained away
• If you have a learning orientation, you would seek accurate
information about your current abilities
• This will help you drive the learning process more effectively
When thing’s
don’t go per
plan
Self
awareness
“You can change your mindset. It is not hard-wired
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
Chapter 2: Inside the Mindsets
• Focus on stretching yourself to learn something new and developing
yourself
• Emphasis is on proving that you are smart and talented and
validating yourself
Dealing with
Success
Dealing with
Failure
Receiving
Feedback
Relationships
Leadership
When do you
feel smart
Interpreting
test results
Treating
others
Dealing with
depression
Dealingwithhighsandlows
• Setback is seen as an obstacle to fulfilling one’s potential. Pull up your
socks and rethink next steps
• One takes responsibility for a disaster than blaming others
• Having a setback (rejected, poor score, losing a tournament, getting
fired) is interpreted as one is not smart and talented
• Shift from “I have failed” to “I am a failure”
• Shirk, Cheat and blame (external attribution) to get out of a failure
• Work on something for a long time and start figuring it out
• Confronting a challenge and making progress
• Feel smart when something is easy for you and others cannot do it
• Not enough if you succeed. You need to appear flawless
• Hang on, drag themselves, get more determined and feel better when
life rebounds
• High propensity of hurtling down a slippery, downward slope
• Realize that test scores don’t limit the future smarts as they grow up.
They don’t let the setback come in the way of growth
• Take the results as gospel and label yourself if they don’t do well or
ace an exam; They feel the test measures their future capability too
• Paid close attention to what they could do to develop; learning was a
key priority for them
• Most attentive when they are told if they are right or wrong
• Pick relationships that see their faults, help them work on them,
challenge them to be a better person and encourage them to learn
new things
• Pick relationships that bolster your ego; ideal mate would put you on
a pedestal, make you feel perfect and worship you
• Have the courage of conviction to drive long term shareholder value
even if it means giving bad news in the short term, E.g. Jack Welch
• Drive short term results (often jeopardizing long term value) driven
by the urge to look good in the eyes of the stakeholders, specifically
the shareholders. E.g Lee Iacocca, Jeff Skilling
• Believe that you are human like anyone else (e.g. Michael Jordan)• If you are successful, you feel better than others and feel justified
abusing others and getting them to gravel in front of you
Interfacingwithpeople
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 3: Ability and Accomplishment
• Children with a Growth mindset don’t give up when they fail. They discover learning strategies
to overcome challenges (find patterns in mistakes, develop better coping strategies etc). They
turn the external world into allies to help them with the learning (instead of looking at others
as judges)
• Several greats started out as average
- Mozart produced average work for 10 years before belting out his classics
- Thomas Edison was an average school kid who was persistent and had the growth orientation
- Charles Darwin was collecting samples from when he was a kid; Many people don’t know his
persistence and determination through the years
• What any person in the world can learn, almost all others can learn (except for 2-5% of the
people who have a severe handicap) if provided with the appropriate conditions for learning
• Artistic ability – long considered as a “gift” can be taught. It is more about “seeing” better.
(Read “Drawing on the right size of the brain” for context)
“Ability is often over-rated. Even in exceptionally able people, the grind they put
themselves through often goes un-noticed”
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 4: Mindset of a Sports Champion
• Several cases* where the mindset is often the difference between champions and the ones that never made it
- Sachin Tendulkar vs Vinod Kambli (see 5:30 t0 6:15 of the video – Final Speech of Sachin Tendulkar after
his last test match – Illustrates his growth mindset) – He talks about analysing how he got out so that he
could improve if he came back to bat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4_0vR0vmMY. Vinod
Kambli, who was often considered more talented than Sachin, had a good start but stumbled when he had
a rough patch. He had a higher Test Batting average than Sachin.
- Roger Federer, when asked about the secret behind his successful run in 2014 after people had written him
off in 2013, spoke about the hard work he did in the off-season (in the winter of 2013). We think he is the
most gifted player ever but we miss out on all the hard work that goes on in the background
- Michael Jordan, was dropped from his initial selection trials at college and club level. Talented sportsman
but arguably the hardest working of all
• Some themes
- Sportspeople with a growth mindset found the training as much fun as the accomplishment. Fixed mindset
people thought working hard casts doubts over your talent
- Growth mindset people acknowledge the role of a team (even in a solo sport like Tennis, Swimming, Golf,
Chess etc). They are able to get the most out of the resources at their disposal
*Some of the examples are not from the book
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 5: Mindset and Leadership
• Jim Collins (Good to Great) analyzed high performing companies that created sustained value. The leaders that came on top were more
of the self-effacing types (not the charismatic types) who could confront brutal answers. They had a Kaizen mindset and asked more
questions than had answers
• If you praise the smartest idea, then it leads to Fixed Mindset. If you praise effort and right behavior you are trying to cultivate
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
• Jack Welsh
- When he was being considered for the CEO role at GE, he
pitched himself based on his capacity to grow not based on
what he knew
- When one of the mergers he led failed, he personally called
each of his Direct Reports and acknowledged that he had
“messed up”
• Alfred Sloan would say, “Looks like we are all in agreement here.
I propose we postpone further discussion until our next meeting
to give ourselves time to develop disagreement and gain some
understanding of the issue”
• Other examples – Lou Gerstner, Anne Mulcahy
• Leaders often create a culture of worshipping talent (e.g.
Enron). Forces employees to look smart and act extraordinarily
talented
• The leaders are keen on personal greatness. They often set up
the company to fail when they leave (just to prove the point
around how great they are)
• They often build weak teams (Genius with 1000 helpers model)
and don’t develop a pipeline of leaders under them. They feel
they just need mortals to execute their great ideas
• Odds of GroupThink increases. Everybody thinks that the
leader has the answer and nobody wants to contradict the leader
• A lot of people become bosses and not leaders. They stop
growing very quickly
• Other Examples – Jeff Skilling, Kenneth Lay, Steve Case, Jerry
Levin
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 6: Relationships
“They lived happily ever after…” “They worked happily ever after…”
Handling
Rejections
• Learn from a break-up about communication and other elements that
contributed to the separation. They also reflect on how to approach it the next
time
• They approach it from a sense of forgiveness
• They separate the event from the person. Labeling the person is of lesser
importance
• Take offense and feel they have been labelled as “not worthy” of a relationship
• Lasting intense feeling of bitterness
• “Will get back at him when I get a chance”
View of
relationships
• Growth Mindsets could be brought into play at 3 levels (Self, Partner,
Relationship)
• Couples focus less on how similar or how dis-similar they are. They understand
that differences are a given in any 2 people
• There is a good conflict resolution mechanism (listening, empathy,
communication, problem-solving on what they could do differently etc)
• Expect a Cinderella story. Come in with expectations of perfect conditions of
romance, experiences etc
• When cracks appear, instead of healing them, they get wider and start
separating
• They assume that if they are having to work hard at the relationship, they
probably aren’t meant for each other
Conflict
Resolution
• Start focusing on the issue at hand and how to resolve it than label the partner
• You recognize your end of the bargain in the relationship and acknowledge
• E.g. – Hillary and Bill Clinton – You forgive (or give benefit of doubt that this
was a one-off and unlikely to recur) and you work together to resurrect the
relationship
• Problems indicate character flaws. Feel anger and disgust towards the partner.
They start developing contempt and start hating the partner
• Also end up avoiding the issue and let the issue fester
• Don’t want to expend the energy resolving the issue. Start judging the
person/decision they took to get into a relationship
• Often poor awareness about what you are expected to “give” in a relationship.
Often there is a “take” mindset
Introversion • Start shy but open up over time
• More keen to meet different people and learn from their experiences
• They become more shy because they don’t want to be told that they are an
introvert
Bullying • As a receiver of bullying, the kids often say “poor guy, something must be wrong
with him”. They don’t let the bullying behaviour affect their assessment of
themselves
• Often comes from a Fixed Mindset behaviour space. Bully wants to feel better
than other kids and exerts power over others
• To change them, don’t label them but focus on their behaviours that they are
showing to change
• As the receiver of bullying, FM kids start doubting their capability and start
wondering if something is wrong with them
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 7: Where Does Mindset Come From
Parents • Praise children for what they achieved as a combination of
practice, study, persistence and good strategies. Ask them about
their work in a way that gets them to reflect on the effort they
have put in
• For somebody that failed (and you thought didn’t put in enough
effort), tell them that more is required for them to succeed. Tell
them other kids have spent more time at this
• For someone who put in the effort and didn’t succeed, provide
them the required moral support and tell them that WE will
work together to clear the hurdles
• Kids feel that parents are here to help them succeed. They see
the UNCONDITIONALITY
• We end up praising intelligence; Gives the kid a boost but when
they hit a snag, it does not give them the capability to deal with
a tough situation
• Since they don’t want to fail, they don’t take on tough
assignments as they don’t want to be seen as failures.
• Kids often feel judged on how good/capable they are. If the kid
doesn’t make the cut, the kid feels that the parents will not love
them any more. They believe that the love is conditional on
their “smarts” and achievement of certain milestones.
• The children hear parents say – “We love you, on our
terms”
Teachers • Believe in infinite potential of the mind
• Set high standards and a nurturing atmosphere
• Like to learn by teaching. They are passionate about knowing
what makes other people tick. They see school as a place for
their learning too, not just students’ learning
• Label the smart and the not so smart
• Ignore the “dumb ones”. They have stereotypes that influences
them to think about what would work and what wouldn’t
• See themselves as a finished product and stop learning
Coaches • Care about whether each player gave his or her 100%. They
believe that if this is true then success will come automatically
• Take the failure of the team members personally and see it as a
reflection on their capability
• They treat players based on how they performed
• Players often break down under the scenario (e.g. Drumming
tutor in the movie Whiplash)
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman
Chapter 8: Changing Mindsets
Opinion on
self
• You try and determine, how else you could do things, what you
could do differently, what you need to learn etc
• Knowing about this framework is half the battle won. It gives
you an ability to reframe situations and how you look at yourself
• End up judging and labeling yourself at any point in time
• If things don’t go well, then the immediate reaction is “I am
incompetent, this will never work” etc
Interventions
to develop
the mindset
• Brainology programme – Help kids understand how they can
proactively work with their brains
• Mindset workshop for adolescent kids (brain is a muscle that
can be developed with some exercise); When you learn new
things, the tiny connections in the brain become stronger
• Stretch the child by giving slightly harder and harder tasks. Its
not just about solving tough problems
• Also talk to the child about other facets (friends they are
making, sacrifices, empathy they show etc)
• Haven’t come across any intervention to instill a Fixed Mindset
in people! –
☺
Why they
have a
mindset
• Some of the kids who know that hard-work and grind is the
only way out of their situation often could end up adopting a
growth mindset given their circumstances
• The fixed mindset might have saved them at some point in life.
When the child is low on self-confidence, the child tries to
pretend to be smart and get approval of parents
• Child stops saying “I don’t know” and stops asking questions
View of the
world
• Focus on making a difference to the people around
• Focus on the efforts it takes to achieve outcomes. If you enjoy
learning, you will eventually grow and pick up the capabilities
required for success
• Entitlement. The world owes me stuff. I am superior to the rest
and need to be treated differently
• Searching for Bobby Fisher - Chess genius but never realized
his potential
Nobody looks at a baby and says it is dumb. It hasn’t learnt yet!
Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset

Contenu connexe

Tendances

The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck a visual summary
The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck   a visual summaryThe power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck   a visual summary
The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck a visual summarySameer Mathur
 
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset Le Phu
 
How to develop growth mindset
How to develop growth mindsetHow to develop growth mindset
How to develop growth mindsetRajeev Ranjan
 
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528bl4
 
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth Mindset
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth MindsetDo You Have Fixed or a Growth Mindset
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth MindsetMarlies Cohen
 
The Magic of Thinking Big
The Magic of Thinking BigThe Magic of Thinking Big
The Magic of Thinking BigSameer Mathur
 
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth Mindset
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth MindsetLeadership: A Need for Developing a Growth Mindset
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth MindsetVeronica Carroll, MBA CFRE
 
Understanding Growth Mindset
Understanding Growth MindsetUnderstanding Growth Mindset
Understanding Growth MindsetKevin Kaminski
 
What makes a leader truly great?
What makes a leader truly great?What makes a leader truly great?
What makes a leader truly great?Wiley
 
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental Shifts
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental ShiftsThe Success Mindset: 6 Mental Shifts
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental ShiftsJill Coleman
 
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
 
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...Akash Sharma
 
How to Win Friends & Influence People
How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleHow to Win Friends & Influence People
How to Win Friends & Influence Peopledre229
 

Tendances (20)

Mindset
MindsetMindset
Mindset
 
The Power of Mindsets
The Power of MindsetsThe Power of Mindsets
The Power of Mindsets
 
The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck a visual summary
The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck   a visual summaryThe power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck   a visual summary
The power of believing that you can improve by Carol Dweck a visual summary
 
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset
Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset
 
How to develop growth mindset
How to develop growth mindsetHow to develop growth mindset
How to develop growth mindset
 
Mindset
MindsetMindset
Mindset
 
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528
Bosse Larsson Growth Mindset 130528
 
The Power of A Success Mindset
The Power of A Success Mindset The Power of A Success Mindset
The Power of A Success Mindset
 
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth Mindset
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth MindsetDo You Have Fixed or a Growth Mindset
Do You Have Fixed or a Growth Mindset
 
The Magic of Thinking Big
The Magic of Thinking BigThe Magic of Thinking Big
The Magic of Thinking Big
 
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth Mindset
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth MindsetLeadership: A Need for Developing a Growth Mindset
Leadership: A Need for Developing a Growth Mindset
 
Developing the Growth Mindset
Developing the Growth MindsetDeveloping the Growth Mindset
Developing the Growth Mindset
 
Understanding Growth Mindset
Understanding Growth MindsetUnderstanding Growth Mindset
Understanding Growth Mindset
 
What makes a leader truly great?
What makes a leader truly great?What makes a leader truly great?
What makes a leader truly great?
 
Grit
GritGrit
Grit
 
Success Mindset
Success MindsetSuccess Mindset
Success Mindset
 
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental Shifts
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental ShiftsThe Success Mindset: 6 Mental Shifts
The Success Mindset: 6 Mental Shifts
 
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
 
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...
MOTIVATE YOURSELF-- eyes on goal...
 
How to Win Friends & Influence People
How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleHow to Win Friends & Influence People
How to Win Friends & Influence People
 

En vedette

Growth Mindset Explained
Growth Mindset ExplainedGrowth Mindset Explained
Growth Mindset ExplainedRichard Fryer
 
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)Surana Ir, MSc, PU-SDA
 
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional Mindset
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional MindsetHelp Young Talent Develop a Professional Mindset
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional MindsetDaniel Goleman
 
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)Ria Widia
 
Jenis jenis pola pikir
Jenis jenis pola pikirJenis jenis pola pikir
Jenis jenis pola pikirTabok Muter
 
Presentasi pola pikir asn2
Presentasi pola pikir asn2Presentasi pola pikir asn2
Presentasi pola pikir asn2hadiarnowo
 

En vedette (10)

Growth mindset
Growth mindsetGrowth mindset
Growth mindset
 
Growth Mindset Explained
Growth Mindset ExplainedGrowth Mindset Explained
Growth Mindset Explained
 
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)
Pola Pikir / Mindset (Bab1 dari 5 bab)
 
Kekuatan pikiran
Kekuatan pikiranKekuatan pikiran
Kekuatan pikiran
 
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional Mindset
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional MindsetHelp Young Talent Develop a Professional Mindset
Help Young Talent Develop a Professional Mindset
 
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)
Perkembangan Pola Pikir Manusia (IAD dan ISBD)
 
The Educator with a Growth Mindset
The Educator with a Growth MindsetThe Educator with a Growth Mindset
The Educator with a Growth Mindset
 
Jenis jenis pola pikir
Jenis jenis pola pikirJenis jenis pola pikir
Jenis jenis pola pikir
 
POLA PIKIR
POLA PIKIRPOLA PIKIR
POLA PIKIR
 
Presentasi pola pikir asn2
Presentasi pola pikir asn2Presentasi pola pikir asn2
Presentasi pola pikir asn2
 

Similaire à Mindset by Carol Dweck synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman

Self-reflection.pptx
Self-reflection.pptxSelf-reflection.pptx
Self-reflection.pptxMaqbool Ahmad
 
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptx
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptxDeveloping the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptx
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptxOlusegun Mosugu
 
Entrepreneurship mindsets
Entrepreneurship mindsetsEntrepreneurship mindsets
Entrepreneurship mindsetsRobin Low
 
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptx
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptxGrowth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptx
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptxAnand Reddy
 
Agile camp2016 mindset
Agile camp2016 mindsetAgile camp2016 mindset
Agile camp2016 mindsetErin Bolk
 
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...Sustainable Brands
 
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker Hackett
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker   HackettManaging Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker   Hackett
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker HackettNaomi Smith
 
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop Slides
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop SlidesAspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop Slides
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop SlidesDr Sam Collins
 
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)Justin Cates
 
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdf
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdfOrchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdf
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdfOla Ogunfeyitimi (M.Eng, MBA, R.Eng)
 
Models of Educational leadership
Models of Educational leadershipModels of Educational leadership
Models of Educational leadershipSuchitraBehera11
 
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and Solutions
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and SolutionsAuthentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and Solutions
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and SolutionsTim Bright
 

Similaire à Mindset by Carol Dweck synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman (20)

Mindsets
MindsetsMindsets
Mindsets
 
Self-reflection.pptx
Self-reflection.pptxSelf-reflection.pptx
Self-reflection.pptx
 
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptx
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptxDeveloping the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptx
Developing the Growth Mindset for Enhanced Productivity.pptx
 
Entrepreneurship mindsets
Entrepreneurship mindsetsEntrepreneurship mindsets
Entrepreneurship mindsets
 
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptx
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptxGrowth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptx
Growth Mindset- Role of a leader.pptx
 
Agile camp2016 mindset
Agile camp2016 mindsetAgile camp2016 mindset
Agile camp2016 mindset
 
Growing as a Leader
Growing as a LeaderGrowing as a Leader
Growing as a Leader
 
The new art of the leader
The new art of the leaderThe new art of the leader
The new art of the leader
 
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...
Search Inside Yourself, Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence Competencie...
 
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker Hackett
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker   HackettManaging Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker   Hackett
Managing Oneself And Reflective Practise Drucker Hackett
 
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop Slides
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop SlidesAspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop Slides
Aspire Leadership Presence and Impact Workshop Slides
 
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)
Leadership Mastery (FitLife 2015)
 
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdf
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdfOrchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdf
Orchestrating Accelerated Growth through Positive Energy and Mindset.pdf
 
Models of Educational leadership
Models of Educational leadershipModels of Educational leadership
Models of Educational leadership
 
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and Solutions
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and SolutionsAuthentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and Solutions
Authentic Leadership - Focusing on Strengths and Solutions
 
Strength_Kateryna
Strength_KaterynaStrength_Kateryna
Strength_Kateryna
 
The Agile Mindset
The Agile MindsetThe Agile Mindset
The Agile Mindset
 
Mindset Matters
Mindset MattersMindset Matters
Mindset Matters
 
Strengths
StrengthsStrengths
Strengths
 
Ch 5
Ch 5Ch 5
Ch 5
 

Dernier

call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Mor
call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Morcall Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Mor
call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Morvikas rana
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)Delhi Call girls
 
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptx
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptxWOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptx
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptxpadhand000
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)Delhi Call girls
 
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theory
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy TheoryPokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theory
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theorydrae5
 
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdf
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdfLC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdf
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdfpastor83
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)Delhi Call girls
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)Delhi Call girls
 
Top Rated Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...
Top Rated  Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...Top Rated  Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...
Top Rated Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...Call Girls in Nagpur High Profile
 
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...PsychicRuben LoveSpells
 
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentation
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentationthe Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentation
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentationbrynpueblos04
 
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...Cara Menggugurkan Kandungan 087776558899
 

Dernier (14)

call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Mor
call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Morcall Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Mor
call Now 9811711561 Cash Payment乂 Call Girls in Dwarka Mor
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Dashrath Puri (Delhi)
 
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptx
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptxWOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptx
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT women empowerment.pptx
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Mukherjee Nagar (Delhi)
 
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theory
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy TheoryPokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theory
Pokemon Go... Unraveling the Conspiracy Theory
 
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdf
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdfLC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdf
LC_YouSaidYes_NewBelieverBookletDone.pdf
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Palam (Delhi)
 
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)
2k Shots ≽ 9205541914 ≼ Call Girls In Jasola (Delhi)
 
Top Rated Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...
Top Rated  Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...Top Rated  Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...
Top Rated Pune Call Girls Tingre Nagar ⟟ 6297143586 ⟟ Call Me For Genuine Se...
 
(Anamika) VIP Call Girls Navi Mumbai Call Now 8250077686 Navi Mumbai Escorts ...
(Anamika) VIP Call Girls Navi Mumbai Call Now 8250077686 Navi Mumbai Escorts ...(Anamika) VIP Call Girls Navi Mumbai Call Now 8250077686 Navi Mumbai Escorts ...
(Anamika) VIP Call Girls Navi Mumbai Call Now 8250077686 Navi Mumbai Escorts ...
 
(Aarini) Russian Call Girls Surat Call Now 8250077686 Surat Escorts 24x7
(Aarini) Russian Call Girls Surat Call Now 8250077686 Surat Escorts 24x7(Aarini) Russian Call Girls Surat Call Now 8250077686 Surat Escorts 24x7
(Aarini) Russian Call Girls Surat Call Now 8250077686 Surat Escorts 24x7
 
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...
$ Love Spells^ 💎 (310) 882-6330 in West Virginia, WV | Psychic Reading Best B...
 
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentation
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentationthe Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentation
the Husband rolesBrown Aesthetic Cute Group Project Presentation
 
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...
KLINIK BATA Jual obat penggugur kandungan 087776558899 ABORSI JANIN KEHAMILAN...
 

Mindset by Carol Dweck synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman

  • 1. Mindset by Carol Dweck Synthesis by Deepak Jayaraman
  • 2. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Some Context to this Document • Does not substitute reading the book but hopefully provides an 80% view of the book in less than 20% of the time it takes to read the book • Most other book summaries I feel are too brief and don’t provide the richness we seek when we want to come back to it later. In my mind, they provide a 40% view in 10% of the time it takes to read a book • Most of us “get it” quite quickly; We don’t need extensive narration. Have used a “Pyramid Principle” approach • Instead of just having plain text (which a lot of summaries often are), have tried to keep it visual to aid digestion • Written by a Leadership consultant who works with CEOs and CXOs. Hopefully the nature of synthesis is more appropriate and “fit for purpose” for consumption by business leaders
  • 3. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Summary in 1 page SUCCESS OF OTHERS …feel threatened by the success of others …find lessons and inspiration in the success of others CRITICISM …ignore useful negative feedback …learn from criticism EFFORT …see effort as fruitless or worse …see effort as the path to mastery OBSTACLES CHALLENGES Fixed Mindset Intelligence is static Growth Mindset Intelligence can be developed Leads to a desire to look smart and therefore a tendency to… Leads to a desire to learn and therefore a tendency to… …avoid challenges …embrace challenges …get defensive or give up easily …persist in the face of setbacks As a result, they may plateau early & achieve less than their full potential As a result, they reach ever- higher levels of achievement
  • 4. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 1: The Mindsets Key assertions • Each person starts with a unique genetic endorsement, but research says that experience, training and personal effort take them rest of the way. • Major factor in whether people achieve expertise is not some fixed prior ability but purposeful engagement. • The view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life • Your mindset can fundamentally affect how you deal with situations and develop over time Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset What you tell yourself • Basic qualities are things I can cultivate through efforts • I am not constrained by the “hand I am dealt with”, i.e. the starting point • I believe in the power of potential and possibilities that can be accomplished with years of passion, toil and training • Need to prove myself again and again • If I have a certain amount of intelligence, moral character, personality I better prove that I have a healthy dose of them • My reputation is at stake each time there is a test, conversation or an interaction. I want to “look good” and “be right” • Avoid labeling themselves and throwing up their hands • Although they are distressed, they are ready to take risks, confront the challenges • Keep working away at the areas which come in the way • Feeling of utter failure and paralysis • Tend to blame the system, get angry about the world at large and get into a feeling of self-pity • Will try and avoid similar situations in the future (stay in bed, get drunk, eat, yell at someone, eat chocolate, binge etc) • Look at news in binary terms (good/bad) when it comes to their traits. • They process feedback in a distorted manner – some outcomes are magnified, some are explained away • If you have a learning orientation, you would seek accurate information about your current abilities • This will help you drive the learning process more effectively When thing’s don’t go per plan Self awareness “You can change your mindset. It is not hard-wired
  • 5. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset Chapter 2: Inside the Mindsets • Focus on stretching yourself to learn something new and developing yourself • Emphasis is on proving that you are smart and talented and validating yourself Dealing with Success Dealing with Failure Receiving Feedback Relationships Leadership When do you feel smart Interpreting test results Treating others Dealing with depression Dealingwithhighsandlows • Setback is seen as an obstacle to fulfilling one’s potential. Pull up your socks and rethink next steps • One takes responsibility for a disaster than blaming others • Having a setback (rejected, poor score, losing a tournament, getting fired) is interpreted as one is not smart and talented • Shift from “I have failed” to “I am a failure” • Shirk, Cheat and blame (external attribution) to get out of a failure • Work on something for a long time and start figuring it out • Confronting a challenge and making progress • Feel smart when something is easy for you and others cannot do it • Not enough if you succeed. You need to appear flawless • Hang on, drag themselves, get more determined and feel better when life rebounds • High propensity of hurtling down a slippery, downward slope • Realize that test scores don’t limit the future smarts as they grow up. They don’t let the setback come in the way of growth • Take the results as gospel and label yourself if they don’t do well or ace an exam; They feel the test measures their future capability too • Paid close attention to what they could do to develop; learning was a key priority for them • Most attentive when they are told if they are right or wrong • Pick relationships that see their faults, help them work on them, challenge them to be a better person and encourage them to learn new things • Pick relationships that bolster your ego; ideal mate would put you on a pedestal, make you feel perfect and worship you • Have the courage of conviction to drive long term shareholder value even if it means giving bad news in the short term, E.g. Jack Welch • Drive short term results (often jeopardizing long term value) driven by the urge to look good in the eyes of the stakeholders, specifically the shareholders. E.g Lee Iacocca, Jeff Skilling • Believe that you are human like anyone else (e.g. Michael Jordan)• If you are successful, you feel better than others and feel justified abusing others and getting them to gravel in front of you Interfacingwithpeople
  • 6. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 3: Ability and Accomplishment • Children with a Growth mindset don’t give up when they fail. They discover learning strategies to overcome challenges (find patterns in mistakes, develop better coping strategies etc). They turn the external world into allies to help them with the learning (instead of looking at others as judges) • Several greats started out as average - Mozart produced average work for 10 years before belting out his classics - Thomas Edison was an average school kid who was persistent and had the growth orientation - Charles Darwin was collecting samples from when he was a kid; Many people don’t know his persistence and determination through the years • What any person in the world can learn, almost all others can learn (except for 2-5% of the people who have a severe handicap) if provided with the appropriate conditions for learning • Artistic ability – long considered as a “gift” can be taught. It is more about “seeing” better. (Read “Drawing on the right size of the brain” for context) “Ability is often over-rated. Even in exceptionally able people, the grind they put themselves through often goes un-noticed”
  • 7. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 4: Mindset of a Sports Champion • Several cases* where the mindset is often the difference between champions and the ones that never made it - Sachin Tendulkar vs Vinod Kambli (see 5:30 t0 6:15 of the video – Final Speech of Sachin Tendulkar after his last test match – Illustrates his growth mindset) – He talks about analysing how he got out so that he could improve if he came back to bat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4_0vR0vmMY. Vinod Kambli, who was often considered more talented than Sachin, had a good start but stumbled when he had a rough patch. He had a higher Test Batting average than Sachin. - Roger Federer, when asked about the secret behind his successful run in 2014 after people had written him off in 2013, spoke about the hard work he did in the off-season (in the winter of 2013). We think he is the most gifted player ever but we miss out on all the hard work that goes on in the background - Michael Jordan, was dropped from his initial selection trials at college and club level. Talented sportsman but arguably the hardest working of all • Some themes - Sportspeople with a growth mindset found the training as much fun as the accomplishment. Fixed mindset people thought working hard casts doubts over your talent - Growth mindset people acknowledge the role of a team (even in a solo sport like Tennis, Swimming, Golf, Chess etc). They are able to get the most out of the resources at their disposal *Some of the examples are not from the book
  • 8. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 5: Mindset and Leadership • Jim Collins (Good to Great) analyzed high performing companies that created sustained value. The leaders that came on top were more of the self-effacing types (not the charismatic types) who could confront brutal answers. They had a Kaizen mindset and asked more questions than had answers • If you praise the smartest idea, then it leads to Fixed Mindset. If you praise effort and right behavior you are trying to cultivate Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset • Jack Welsh - When he was being considered for the CEO role at GE, he pitched himself based on his capacity to grow not based on what he knew - When one of the mergers he led failed, he personally called each of his Direct Reports and acknowledged that he had “messed up” • Alfred Sloan would say, “Looks like we are all in agreement here. I propose we postpone further discussion until our next meeting to give ourselves time to develop disagreement and gain some understanding of the issue” • Other examples – Lou Gerstner, Anne Mulcahy • Leaders often create a culture of worshipping talent (e.g. Enron). Forces employees to look smart and act extraordinarily talented • The leaders are keen on personal greatness. They often set up the company to fail when they leave (just to prove the point around how great they are) • They often build weak teams (Genius with 1000 helpers model) and don’t develop a pipeline of leaders under them. They feel they just need mortals to execute their great ideas • Odds of GroupThink increases. Everybody thinks that the leader has the answer and nobody wants to contradict the leader • A lot of people become bosses and not leaders. They stop growing very quickly • Other Examples – Jeff Skilling, Kenneth Lay, Steve Case, Jerry Levin
  • 9. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 6: Relationships “They lived happily ever after…” “They worked happily ever after…” Handling Rejections • Learn from a break-up about communication and other elements that contributed to the separation. They also reflect on how to approach it the next time • They approach it from a sense of forgiveness • They separate the event from the person. Labeling the person is of lesser importance • Take offense and feel they have been labelled as “not worthy” of a relationship • Lasting intense feeling of bitterness • “Will get back at him when I get a chance” View of relationships • Growth Mindsets could be brought into play at 3 levels (Self, Partner, Relationship) • Couples focus less on how similar or how dis-similar they are. They understand that differences are a given in any 2 people • There is a good conflict resolution mechanism (listening, empathy, communication, problem-solving on what they could do differently etc) • Expect a Cinderella story. Come in with expectations of perfect conditions of romance, experiences etc • When cracks appear, instead of healing them, they get wider and start separating • They assume that if they are having to work hard at the relationship, they probably aren’t meant for each other Conflict Resolution • Start focusing on the issue at hand and how to resolve it than label the partner • You recognize your end of the bargain in the relationship and acknowledge • E.g. – Hillary and Bill Clinton – You forgive (or give benefit of doubt that this was a one-off and unlikely to recur) and you work together to resurrect the relationship • Problems indicate character flaws. Feel anger and disgust towards the partner. They start developing contempt and start hating the partner • Also end up avoiding the issue and let the issue fester • Don’t want to expend the energy resolving the issue. Start judging the person/decision they took to get into a relationship • Often poor awareness about what you are expected to “give” in a relationship. Often there is a “take” mindset Introversion • Start shy but open up over time • More keen to meet different people and learn from their experiences • They become more shy because they don’t want to be told that they are an introvert Bullying • As a receiver of bullying, the kids often say “poor guy, something must be wrong with him”. They don’t let the bullying behaviour affect their assessment of themselves • Often comes from a Fixed Mindset behaviour space. Bully wants to feel better than other kids and exerts power over others • To change them, don’t label them but focus on their behaviours that they are showing to change • As the receiver of bullying, FM kids start doubting their capability and start wondering if something is wrong with them Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
  • 10. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 7: Where Does Mindset Come From Parents • Praise children for what they achieved as a combination of practice, study, persistence and good strategies. Ask them about their work in a way that gets them to reflect on the effort they have put in • For somebody that failed (and you thought didn’t put in enough effort), tell them that more is required for them to succeed. Tell them other kids have spent more time at this • For someone who put in the effort and didn’t succeed, provide them the required moral support and tell them that WE will work together to clear the hurdles • Kids feel that parents are here to help them succeed. They see the UNCONDITIONALITY • We end up praising intelligence; Gives the kid a boost but when they hit a snag, it does not give them the capability to deal with a tough situation • Since they don’t want to fail, they don’t take on tough assignments as they don’t want to be seen as failures. • Kids often feel judged on how good/capable they are. If the kid doesn’t make the cut, the kid feels that the parents will not love them any more. They believe that the love is conditional on their “smarts” and achievement of certain milestones. • The children hear parents say – “We love you, on our terms” Teachers • Believe in infinite potential of the mind • Set high standards and a nurturing atmosphere • Like to learn by teaching. They are passionate about knowing what makes other people tick. They see school as a place for their learning too, not just students’ learning • Label the smart and the not so smart • Ignore the “dumb ones”. They have stereotypes that influences them to think about what would work and what wouldn’t • See themselves as a finished product and stop learning Coaches • Care about whether each player gave his or her 100%. They believe that if this is true then success will come automatically • Take the failure of the team members personally and see it as a reflection on their capability • They treat players based on how they performed • Players often break down under the scenario (e.g. Drumming tutor in the movie Whiplash) Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset
  • 11. Mindset by Carol Dweck. Synthesized by Deepak Jayaraman Chapter 8: Changing Mindsets Opinion on self • You try and determine, how else you could do things, what you could do differently, what you need to learn etc • Knowing about this framework is half the battle won. It gives you an ability to reframe situations and how you look at yourself • End up judging and labeling yourself at any point in time • If things don’t go well, then the immediate reaction is “I am incompetent, this will never work” etc Interventions to develop the mindset • Brainology programme – Help kids understand how they can proactively work with their brains • Mindset workshop for adolescent kids (brain is a muscle that can be developed with some exercise); When you learn new things, the tiny connections in the brain become stronger • Stretch the child by giving slightly harder and harder tasks. Its not just about solving tough problems • Also talk to the child about other facets (friends they are making, sacrifices, empathy they show etc) • Haven’t come across any intervention to instill a Fixed Mindset in people! – ☺ Why they have a mindset • Some of the kids who know that hard-work and grind is the only way out of their situation often could end up adopting a growth mindset given their circumstances • The fixed mindset might have saved them at some point in life. When the child is low on self-confidence, the child tries to pretend to be smart and get approval of parents • Child stops saying “I don’t know” and stops asking questions View of the world • Focus on making a difference to the people around • Focus on the efforts it takes to achieve outcomes. If you enjoy learning, you will eventually grow and pick up the capabilities required for success • Entitlement. The world owes me stuff. I am superior to the rest and need to be treated differently • Searching for Bobby Fisher - Chess genius but never realized his potential Nobody looks at a baby and says it is dumb. It hasn’t learnt yet! Fixed Mindset Growth Mindset