1. It appears Waxman may be stalking people who post on Saving
Mila. A Maine mother just forwarded this to me. I do not know this
mother and had no contact with her (except to thank her on the
Facebook wall when she posted) until she forwarded me this
conversation.
If this is happening to others, please forward these messages (if you
are able/willing) to MamaofMila@gmail.com or send via Facebook
in-box.
We are collecting all and will personally deliver (with or without
your name—as you prefer please let us know) to the Maine
Overseers of the Bar next week.
Saving Mila and Mila’s Mama Lori are so sorry to hear that
supporters of Saving Mila appear to be harassed and possibly
stalked by Waxman. Please contact your local Police Department if
you feel threatened, scared, or harassed.
God bless. Stay in the light. Celebrate the love of the holiday season.
Thank you for your support for Mila.
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"I have had no further contact with him, thank GOD! Best of luck to you, I hope
this helps in some small way. I can't imagine a minute without my boys in my arms.
My heart aches for you!"
From:
Sent: Saturday, December 24, 2011 1:16 PM
To: Lori Handrahan
Subject: Re: I posted on your page last night
Waxman to me December 23, 2011 @ 623am ….. Handrahan's site is not what it
seems. She is not helping her child, she is exploiting her. Before you help her any
further, please just read the attached report. This is the most recent report from the

2. Office of the Ombudsman in Maine and gives a very accurate account of what has
been happening in this case. You clearly have a good heart. Handrahan seeks to
manipulate people like you. ombudsman.reportII.pdf
Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1014a ……….. Listen, I don't know what is
true. I DO know that I am a mother and I would fight for my children as she
appears to fight for hers. And if you are an attorney for her ex husband and if there
is a fight to be fought I would assume that your energies would be best spent not
messaging everyone who posts on her page. Honestly, it takes credibility away
from you, as a professional.
Waxman to me December 23, 2011 @ 1109a………… I am glad that you are a
caring mother. Please simply read the document I attached. I promise that you will
feel very differently about this case. If you are a fair minded person you must
understand that there are two sides to every issue. Is reading an 8 page doucment
too much to ask of someone who wants to help a child?
Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1118a………….I read it, it is no more real
than anything else anyone has posted. You could easily draft something like that to
say what you want it to say. This whole situation stinks from both sides
Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 1124a……………That kind of statement is
completely unfair. THAT is an official document from an agency in Maine which
is charged with reviewing DHHS investigations. Are you suggesting I forged that
document? Are you serious? Handrahan has been diagnosed as suffering from a
severe narcissistic personality disorder and that entire site is NOT about helping
her child, but rather exploiting her in order to feed Handrahan's insatiable need for
attention. This notioin that the entire state of Maine is conspiring against her and
that I have bought all the judges and DHHS workers is too ludicrous for anyone
with a brain to believe.
Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1138a………..I didn't say that I believed
ALL of anything. All I DID say is that you (or I, or anyone) could easily draft a
document and slap DHHS's address on it and email it around FB. I just DO have a
hard time believing you because you are so adamantly messaging me on FB. I am
no one. I am no one of any authority, I am no one of any importance. I have
nothing to do with this situation at all. You are supposedly an attorney for someone
involved in this mess and you are messaging me. I assume because I posted on her
wall, which you are obviously trolling. Every attorney I know would never do this.
My sister is an attorney, and I have some friends who practice law. I get that you

3. say she is defaming you and you feel that she is spreading lies about you. I posted
nothing about you on her wall. I said nothing about you. I DO know that things
that she claims happen, do happen ALL THE time. Pedophiles are real. Men work
together to coerce and keep children ALL THE TIME. Our government is corrupt
and for profit. Do I think every court, DHHS branch and judge is working
together? No. I don't know you, I don't know Mila's mother, I don't know Mila's
father, I don't know little Mila. I DO know that she is only a few months older than
my oldest son and that pulls a cord for me. I do know that if there is a little girl to
be saved I would help any way I could. I do not believe that every person is good
and honest. While you continue to message me it just further discredits you. Mila's
mother hasn't contacted me further than her wall to thank me for my concern and
just to spread the word, which is exactly what I would do in her position. You and
another person messaged me almost as soon as I posted, making different claims.
Honestly, my first thought was that you were a desperate man trying to 'contain'
this. I don't know what is going on but it smells bad in every way.
Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 106p………I messaged you because you
asked WHERE the child lived and you mentioned where you live, and it only takes
ONE lunatic to take Handrahan's message to heart and try and do something crazy,
like take her child. That's why I messaged you. If you don't want me reaching out
to you then don't make it sound like you are willing to help a woman you don't
know take a child you have never met from a man you would not know if you
bumped into him.
Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 114p……………Rest assured that I would
never take a child or help anyone else take a child. I have my own family to care
for. I can see what she is talking about with you twisting shit up. You are a lunatic,
grasping at straws
Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 334p…………..Look, you care about kids,
and I applaud that and respect you for that. I have four of my own. There have
been several of Handrahan's "followers' who have said scary, threatening things on
her sites, and Igor is justifiably concerned. Your comment sounded threatening too,
but now I am relieved to learn that you have no intention of doing anything to
harm Igor or Mila, and that is all I care about. Merry Christmas and happy New
Year.
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