Waxman on state of maine facebook page december 2011

From: Gry Tina Tinde [mailto:grytinatinde@aol.com]
Sent: Sunday, December 25, 2011 11:52 AM
To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
Subject: Facebook discussion Dec 18

Hi, Lori,

This is what I copied. There were perhaps a couple of posts after this but I blocked Waxman as he was so out of
line.

Tina

liveliliGry Tina Tinde
Everyone in Maine please join musicians who rally for little Mila in Portland, Maine so she can be free from sex
abuse, drugging with meth and violence, all committed by her father and documented on this
blog: http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/27/mariqueen-marla-mase-juan-lentino-def-jam-thank-you-for-a-big-and-
beautiful-noise-for-a-little-girl-named-mila/
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Sarah Tyrrell Oh my god! People can just read the actual court documents and see the lies themselves
that Milas mother has told. Oh and it might be worth mentioning that Lori has not answerd her phone to
her daughter or called her back since May 10th.so that is how worried she is..and she does NOT have
shared custody at all. Can't believe how many people have bought into the lies! The woman is mentally ill.
You only have to look at her site to see this. She think's everyone is conspiring against her and there is a
peadophile ring amongst officials in Maine..Cuckoo.
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Dawn Henderson Gry - Before banding people together to attack a man further, please take the time to
research this case carefully. Read the documents from the court, the hospitals, DHHS, the deposition of
the psychologist that examined both parties, the Guardian Ad Litem, the Ombusman. Anyone can write
whatever they wish on the web...this does NOT make it true. The truth is out there. It is up to you to
actually want to KNOW it and make an informed decision.
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Gry Tina Tinde Sarah: A 5-year-old girl is being sexually abused, drugged with meth and hit by her dad,
DHHS refuses to accept evidence, the family court judge believes the lawyer's lies and every public
official and reporter in Maine seems to be terrified of the truth. How can this be? See Lori Handrahan's
blog with 43,500 views that documents all the abuse, and Lori's attempt to pick up her daughter for court-
ordered vacation in June. She was stopped by the dad, who was helped by the police to keep the little girl
away from her loving mom. How can this happen? How can anyone distrust a little girl? Get real, help
Mila be safe

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Gry Tina Tinde Dawn or whoever you are, you are also living i fantasyland. Please help save a little girl
from the abuse she has herself described, and which is substantiated by America's foremost experts on
sex abuse, and which is on the mom's blog

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Sarah Tyrrell Hi Gry, I do not wish to argue with you or offend you. No doubt you are acting from your
heart in what you think is a noble cause. I admire your beliefs. However,"which is on the mom's blog" ?
Therefore it must be true?? The meth thing,? There is a difference between what is known as "street"
meth and the meth that was found in Mila...What was found in Mila could come from an over the counter
prescription such as cough bottle.But Lori does not want to make that clear as she wants her claims to be
assensational as possible. There are many discrepancies in Lori's claims, none of which any of you
followers seem to be interested in reading. Mila said to an official (without her mother present) that her
daddy did not hit her, her mammy told her to say that. It is a very sad but very true fact, in custody battles,
that a partner will be accused of physical/sexual abuse. Do you REALLY believe that every Doctor and
official are conspiring against Lori to enable her ex to abuse Mila??? Come on! You need to read ALL the
court testimonys and depositions and reports before you reach your conclusion. I am an anti child-abuse
activist myself and was originally touched by Lori's blog and what seemed to be hard evidence..Until I did
my own research as i wanted to have FULL knowledge of what I was getting involved in. It then became
VERY clear to me that my belief in Loris plight was completely misplaced. 90 percent of her blog is lies.
Mila was NOT abused, except by her mother, mentally. Lori is now saying that she wont see or speak to
Mila on the phone as she does not want to make it look like she accepts Igors conditions regards
visitation. If this was your daughter and you felt she was being abused would you care what anything
looked like in the courts eyes??? Hell no! You would see and talk to your daughter as much as you
possibly could! I know you do not want to hear it. believe me, I was very dissapointed when I realised I
had been duped by Lori's manipulation, but it's the truth. If you would like to PM me your email address , I
would be prepared to forward you the court documents that Lori doesn't want you to see. Mila's safety
and wellbeing asre paramount in my thoughts and trust me, she is safe,happy and healthy where she is
now.

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Gry Tina Tinde Sarah Tyrrell you sound delusional, no point for me to comment on your nonsense
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, for a woman who works for the Inter-American Development Bank in
Washington, D.C., and who has also worked with the UN High Commissioner for Refugees, and who is
on the Advisory Board for Women International Networking, I am astonished that you would simply accept
your friend Lori's story without doing your own investigation. Furthermore, how can a professional who
seems to have devoted a large part of her life to improving the human condition type away and accuse
someone who holds a very different view of Handrahan's claims of being "delusional?" That is not in
keeping with your body of work. People like you are Handrahan's most prized manipulation targets.
Maureen Flatley was another, who has since left Handrahan's employ. Please, just THINK before you
continue to parrot the Handrahan story.
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Gry Tina Tinde Keep smoking that black rock Waxman, it could explain why you find sex abuse normal
and why you don't understand about legal professional responsibilities or the need for children to be safe.
Mila is unfortunately a victim of documented abuse and she needs to be safe asap and everyone
protecting her abuser must be held accountable

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Gry Tina Tinde http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/18/george-washington-universitys-law-schools-
domestic-violence-legal-appellate-program-dvleap-org-supports-mila/

George Washington University’s Law School’s Domestic Violence Legal Appellate Program (DVLEAP.ORG) S
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, I was sexually abused by a camp counselor named Conrad Mainwaring at
Greylock Camp in Becket Massachusetts from the age of 13-16, and I have the emotional scars to prove
it. I know about child abuse. And I assure you that Igor is a remarkably loving, nurturing, gentle and
patient man. Of course, you have never met him, so you are merely taking Handrahan's word.

Jean Woodhouse
PLEASE READ THIS! There is a little girl, only 5, named Mila who has a right to a HAPPY CHRISTMAS. When you
tuck your little ones into bed and kiss them goodnight, please spare a thought for Mila and her mom, Lori, then DO
something! Gry has posted details below. Have a heart, a Christmas heart. Thank you and have yourselves a very
Happy Christmas.
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Willow Tree One wish ....... Please send Mila home for Christmas.
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Sarah Tyrrell Would you like to see the court order that shows Lori does NOT have joint custody? Would
you like to see the report regards Igors polygraph examination? (that he suggested and paid for
himself?)what can I show you that will make you open your mind to the truth and to stop being blinded by
Loris sensationalist claims and videos designed to shock and appall? are you even willing to hear it from
the other side? Or are you steadfast in your decision to support Lori based on her blog and
documentation alone?
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Dawn Henderson Sarah - I wonder about this question. It is exploitation of a child, thus abuse, to post
pictures of a nude 3 year old, spread eagle on the web? WHO would DO this?
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Sarah Tyrrell Indeed... As a mother with a little girl I would NEVER do it.if some one abused my child ,
the LAST thing I would do is try tape them saying it,to hear something like that and immediately think "I
must record this" No. And then wait ,(how long exactly was it Dawn?as I don't want to misinform people)
to bring them into a clinic FULLY NAKED. Oh and by the way, the report if anyone wishes to read it,
states that there was NO physical evidence of sexual abuse. And the timing of this sudden accusation
was very suspect, not that any of her followers can be bothered to read the facts. Lori never let's a little
thing like facts get in the way of her stories.
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Dawn Henderson I believe the records say she carried her naked into the hospital claiming the abuse
had occurred a couple of weeks earlier. This is while Mila was still in her primary care, btw. Similar to the
frying pan incident. Lori picked up Mila from daycare on a Friday. Waited until a Sunday to carry her to the
hospital. Now, it apparently does not matter that the daycare Mila was picked up from said she had no
injuries that afternoon, and the hospital found a small abrasion, but as a mandatory reporter did not feel
any behavior was suspect, other than the mother waiting three days to make the claim.

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Dawn Henderson BTW Willow - Your prayers have been answered. Mila IS home for Christmas. In
Maine, thousands of miles from her mother. Have a beautiful Christmas Mila, unmarred by manipulation :)

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Michael Waxman I live in Maine. I have four kids who live in Maine. I have been a member of this site for
some time now. These people who are posting about this little girl allegedly being abused are absolutely
and positively WRONG. I know this because I am the attorney for this little girl's father, because I have
been on this case for 3 1/2 years, because I see this delightful child every few weeks and she is doing
wonderfully. She has never been abused by her father, ever. But her mother is using her disgusting site to
exploit her child in order to gain the adulation and attention of thousands of people. Her mother previously
posted pictures on her site of her little girl, spread eagled on a hospital examination table with her vagina
and anus exposed for the world, and lots of online predators and pedophiles to enjoy. WHAT KIND OF
PARENT DOES THIS???
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Juan Lentino Shut up you drug addict... Mila will be with her mom as it should be...
My friends in 4chan are willing to help... I hope you're prepared... :)
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Michael Waxman Is that some kind of threat, Mr. Lentino? What do you mean?

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Michael Waxman If you would like to debate the facts of this case, we can do that. Calling people names
and making threats is not a very good way to have an intellectual discussion. Shall we begin again? I am
happy to have a civil discussion.

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Gry Tina Tinde How civil is it Waxman to writehttp://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/25/extremly-disturbing-
email-from-waxman-take-a-coke-bottle-ram-it-up-milas-vagina-in-order-to-break-her-hymen-seriously-i-
think-she-is-capable-of-that/

“…take a coke bottle, ram it up Mila’s vagina in order to break her hymen… Seriously. I think she is
lorihandrahan.com
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Juan Lentino We already have a "civil" discussion, Waxman. There's nothing to discuss with you.
I think the drugs are affecting your memory... You'd leave them... :)
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Michael Waxman Mr. Lentino, I don't do drugs. On what basis do you contend I am a "drug addict?" Is it
because Handrahan claims this? Because she claims her child said something about "smoking a black
rock?" I missed the law school class in which the alleged nonsensical statements of a 3 year old trying to
please her mother constitute admissible and probative evidence of drug addiction.

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Gry Tina Tinde When did you last have a paying client Waxman? Are you a popular, respected lawyer in
Maine? Seems even the sexually abusive Igor is in a tough spot with YOU as his lawyer

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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, why don't you Google the Maine Bar Review, summer edition. You will find
an article by me in this -- Maine's most respected legal publication. What's that you say? How can that
be? I am sure Handrahan has claimed that I am not a good lawyer. But that is not true, I assure you. Why
would she and you be so quick to attack me if I had not done a good job in this case? I AM a good

attorney. I am an even better father. Did you want to contact my children to try and get them to say nasty
things about me? That's what Handrahan does with my former clients.
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Juan Lentino Life basis, Waxman, life basis... Meth or coke are very powerful drugs... There's a point
you can't control yourself, watch out!
Apparently pro-bono lawyer means "black rock" sniffer
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Michael Waxman Mr. Lentino, is it a common practice for lawyers in your part of the world to maintain
full-time practices, give seminars in their areas of expertise, write scholarly articles, represent a full
spectrum of clients, raise four children, and maintain a home to be addicted to methamphetamines and/or
cocaine? That is one heck of a juggling act. Does not sound likely does it? Perhaps that is because it is
not true.

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Gry Tina Tinde Yes Waxman you are a shiny example of your profession --- but it seems these lawyers
don't agree with you:http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/18/george-washington-universitys-law-schools-
domestic-violence-legal-appellate-program-dvleap-org-supports-mila/

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Michael Waxman Oh, I am quite aware that Joan Meier of Justice for Children is not a fan of mine. She
practices in Washington, D.C., and has never had a single case with me. Indeed, she filed a grievance
against me, on Handrahan's behalf which was summarily dismissed. Oh, and that silly appellate brief she
wrote was also summarily rejected by Maine's highest court. I don't expect everyone to like me, Ms.
Tinde, but I generally find that those who have worked with me develop at least a grudging respect.

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Willow Tree Exactly the reason for a federal investigation!
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tree, you think because Handrahan posts on the internet that she wants a Federal
Investigation, it miraculously just happens? That is not how such things work. There will not be any such
investigation because there is absolutely no evidence of criminal wrongdoing. Handrahan's posts are all
for show, to persuade people to believe her. But they make no sense.


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Willow Tree So you keep saying, But when there is so much corruption going on over one little girl, This
needs to go further, Waxman as i see it, you have made Mila personaly your deal. Using your familys
fortune to take Mila from her mother? Your emails and words, are so unproffesional, name calling,and the
lies, You sociolise with igor, Oh the list could go on. There is a little girl who need her mumma and yet this
is where you step in ... why? because you have a "relationship" with Mila, a 5 year old girl....... ? ?

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Michael Waxman Ms. Tree, I have explained myself in these long threads. I suggest you read them. I am
going to bed soon.

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Gry Tina Tinde A disadvantage with money, Waxman, is that it doesn't provide intelligence, compassion,
ethical standards and other qualities one would hope to find in a lawyer handling the sex abuse case of a
child. But money can arrange many other things that are at odds with these qualities

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Michael Waxman Right. I'm a fool. How do you explain graduating from Harvard with high honors and
Boston College Law School with honors? Did my parents buy those degrees? This is just silly. I am going
to bed. Have a good night.

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Willow Tree Waxman i have read every post of yours, You have not once made scence while "explaining
yourself". You have certinaly not given an explaination for this.

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Willow Tree Some things money cant buy ....

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Willow Tree Easey waxman..... your uncle :)
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It is incredible that in the US a mother who holds joint custody of her 5-year-old child has been
prevented by a family court in Maine to see her or have any contact with her since May this year, and

that the dad has not been held in contempt of court for refusing the little girl to be with her
mom https://www.facebook.com/SavingMila

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Juan Lentino Kristine... Thanks for your interest but I'll do what my ass wants... ;)
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Juan Lentino Oh! You can't publish them because it's illegal if you're not involved in the case, right??
Well.. Too bad, get a permission to do it then.. :)
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Juan Lentino It's a shame that a case of child abuse in the States goes to the latitudes in the world because it's a bogus
case and there's corruption everywhere.
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Dawn Henderson Juan whay r u talking about?
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Juan Lentino Dawn... I commented another post earlier with this...
"Please... Put yourself in Lori's position if you're a mother, it'll be easier... What'd you do??
Think pretty well, alright? Take my advice... Leave your computer, get comfortable, close your eyes, meditate and try what
I told you... Thanks.
You'll probably be in the same situation that Lori is."
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Juan Lentino I thought it was common for a third world country, if you believe in those labels, have many levels of
corruption in the government but apparently I'm wrong.
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Juan Lentino A diploma can't do shit here on the internet... I know Waxman is around here posting lies... Bring him on!
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Gry Tina Tinde Little Mila has to live with drugs, sex abuse and violence and the abuser's lawyer dares to defend all of
this!http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/12/17/mila-explaining-her-drawing-of-the-black-rock-poppa-michael-sniff-a-black-rock-
that-makes-them-bad/

Mila Explaining Her Drawing of the Black Rock Poppa & Michael Sniff a Black Rock that Makes them Bad
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman doesn't seem very professional writing an e-mail like
this http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/25/extremly-disturbing-email-from-waxman-take-a-coke-bottle-ram-it-up-milas-
vagina-in-order-to-break-her-hymen-seriously-i-think-she-is-capable-of-that/

“…take a coke bottle, ram it up Mila’s vagina in order to break her hymen… Seriously. I think she is
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, I have been at the epi-center of this case and Handrhan's attacks for years now. I have seen
the evidence that she is using her daughter as a pawn in order to destroy Igor. I know that she has dragged her in to
hospitals for over 18 pelvic examinations hoping to find evidence of abuse. I truly believe, based on the FACTS of this case,
that Handrahan will stop at NOTHING to try and persuade people that her daughter is being abused. Look at the web site
for corroboration of that belief. Yes, I believe she would harm her child physically and/or sexually and then blame it on Igor.
Absolutely.
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Gry Tina Tinde Dream on Waxman
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Michael Waxman Didn't she post pictures on her web site of her child's vagina and anus??? Do you need need more proof
of her malice, her selfish, harmful behavior???
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Gry Tina Tinde Better with such a photo of evidence than that of a child's funeral...sexually abused kids are too often
killed by their abusers to destroy the evidence. Mila must be saved and she must live and be with her loving mom!
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Juan Lentino Why don't you shut up, Waxman?
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Juan Lentino You've been the epicenter of nothing... Don't victimize your self, low excuse for a man!
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Juan Lentino Sooner or later... You'll pay for everything you've done... Either burning and rotting in hell... :)
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Michael Waxman No, Ms. Tinde, putting pictures of a child's genitals on the internet for pedophiles to ogle, putting a
target on this little girl's face so perverts can try and find her is NOT "saving" her. Why are you such a passionate poster
about this case? Have you attended any of the hearings? Have you spoken to any of the DHHS caseworkers? Spoken to the
psychologist Kabacoff, or the guardian, Stout? Where does your information come from?
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Gry Tina Tinde You're a poor excuse for a lawyer Waxman. Your license has been in trouble many, many times and I hope
it will be removed very soon
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Juan Lentino The information that Tina has is the same I have and the more than 1400 people that are supporting Lori on
this.
Waxman, STFU, PLEASE!!! Thank you! :)
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Juan Lentino As I said... People in this page should try to google your email address and see how many times your license
has been in trouble... Want to facilitate your mail address, Waxman?
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Michael Waxman Mr. Lentino, THIS is not YOUR site. I know that on Handrahan's site, when you don't like someone
questioning your position, you simply delete them and block them from further posting, and then accuse them of trafficking
in children, or being a drug user. However, this is a site generally used by Maine people which you are trying to infiltrate
and manipulate. If you can't have a civil discussion on this site, please leave the site and find another which endorses
personal attacks and threats.
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Juan Lentino No? You don't want to post it here? OK! I'll do you the favor: mjwaxy@aol.com :)

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Juan Lentino Internet is public, Waxman. I can do whatever I want here. If no one's moderating this page, I can do
whatever I want.
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman it is super that you post here! For everybody to see. Keep lying, keep accusing others, keep
having Mila on overnight stays, keep smoking black rock with her dad and enjoy the impunity that obviously exists in Maine
for all of this. By sharing the truth there is hope that Mila will be returned where she belongs, to her mom
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Michael Waxman I saw you do that before, and I am still scratching my head. I Googled that and saw that Handrahan is
posting my emails. So? Believe me, they were all picked through with a fine toothed comb when Handrahan's grievances
against me went all the way to a two day trial. And you know what happened? NOTHING. The case was dismissed because
I had done nothing unethical. Are you also going to contact my former clients and try and manipulate them as Handrahan
has? These are acts of desperation. Why not just debate me if you think I am wrong? I will answer ALL your questions and
provide you with the documents which prove Handrahan's story is false.
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Michael Waxman Attacking me and others who disagree with you only proves that you cannot support your claims. Bullies
react as you are.
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Juan Lentino Mr. Waxman, I'll start to treat you like you treat me. Good. OK.
First, I'm not deleting anyone or blocking anyone. Policies on FB pages are done by the same people created it.
Second, you're lying in so many layers that's funny to read your comments. You amuse me.
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Gry Tina Tinde It is you who are manipulative Waxman, and hence you think everybody acts and thinks like you? When
did you last have a paying client, Waxman? Do people trust you enough to pay for your legal services?
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Juan Lentino I'm not bullying you or anyone here... You know what's that called "A tail of straw"...
Truth hurts, right?
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, why are you so interested in whether my clients pay me? I have no interest in your
professional career or how you are paid. I work for many clients, as my web site indicates, in the areas of family law, civil
rights, personal injury and legal malpractice. I am well-known in these parts as a hard-working, smart, aggressive attorney.
When I work on an hourly basis, I generally bill at the rate of $250 per hour. And, yes, clients pay me. Now, wasn't there a

case you wanted to discuss, or was there more about my professional or personal life you wanted to get into. Is this a
dating site?
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Gry Tina Tinde I always found Waxman hilarious. But the topic is too serious, it is hard to find anything to be happy about
as long as Mila is forced to live with the man who sexually abuses her, poor little thing
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman it is amazing if people pay you, thanks for the info (as you are a pathological lier I don't believe a
word of anything you say though) My interest in you is ONLY related to Mila who has fallen into a trap of sex abuse, drugs
and violence, and it is tragic that someone with some kind of legal background (you) is not ready to stand up for her rights
to be safe and her right to be with her mom
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Michael Waxman Have we met? You "always found' me to be "hilarious?" I shall give you the benefit of the doubt and
presume that your passion springs from the laudable goal of protecting children. Accordingly, please know that this child is
safe and loved, that she is NOT abused by her father. NEVER. Everyone who has seen my client and the child together has
only had glowing things to say . . . because he is an exceptional father. Thank goodness she has one parent who is
exceptional. If she did not, I think she would be a basket case already.
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Gry Tina Tinde Luckily I haven't run into you Waxman. But I have read all the remarks you have made and all the
doctoring of court judgments and I gotta give it to you, you have a pretty cool vocabulary for being such a lousy lawyer!
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Gry Tina Tinde Compunction, that is a word I learned from you. Waxman, when you wrote you had no compunction using
your family's substantial resources to take down Lori and her only child along with it. Very, very sick, but great language use
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman I was thinking about sending some of your sickest, yet eloquent statements to Harper's
Magazine's section of absolutely crazy texts. You would fit right in
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Juan Lentino I call that bullshit, Mr. Waxman. You have the face of a pathological liar, Mr.
Your diplomas and credentials aren't valid here, you know?
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Michael Waxman Again with the personal attacks? Really? Don't you hold some positions of authority? Is this how you
behave in those positions? By the way, do you have any children of your own? Being a parent helps a great deal in these
cases. It helps to give perspective.
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Willow Tree Wow, what a busy day had by all. I see the same rounds as yesterday. Good day to all. Sending Mila loving
light, Bless .
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Michael Waxman Mr. Lentino, have I been boasting of my diplomas? No, I have not. I generally don't because I am
confident in my ability to express myself clearly without using some exterior badge of competence. And you don't like my
face? Were you also hoping to date me? What is the deal on this site?
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Gry Tina Tinde This discussion is of little importance compared to what little Mila is going trough, as told by herself on
multiple occasions, taped and re-confirmed by specialists. My arguments are purely professional. A lawyer who is not honest
like you is a disgrace, and obviously puts Mila at great risk, still
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Willow Tree I can assure you Waxman NOBody wants to date you! This is about Mila, Not a dating service for you!
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Juan Lentino Mr. Waxman, yeah... You've been doing that with all the flamboyant quote that's next: "I work for many
clients, as my web site indicates, in the areas of family law, civil rights, personal injury and legal malpractice. I am well-
known in these parts as a hard-working, smart, aggressive attorney."
I think you don't remember that...
I'd not date even if you were the last person on earth but THANKS for the offering... :)
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Michael Waxman That's not true. I have dated many women in my life. I can be quite charming. I can walk on my hands.
I play pretty good tennis and golf, and I am a very good snowboarder. I like long walks on the beach at sunset, and I can
even cook chicken cordon bleu. I am definitely datable. I disagree.
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman believes everyone is a narcissist, because he is a mega narcissist himself. He forgets all about
Mila's rights in his rants about himself http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism

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Juan Lentino Oh! By the way, I'm not homosexual... Either way, I'd rather be dead than date you.
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Gry Tina Tinde Wonder how Mila is doing tonight. How hard it must be for her not to have been in her mom's arms since
May
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Michael Waxman I have no doubt you are correct that it hurts this little girl's heart to have NO contact of any kind with
her mother for over 7 months. Why doesn't your friend want to have any contact with her? I read her silly excuse on her
web site, but it makes no sense. I would walk across glass and hot coals to see my child. Wild horses could not drag me
away.
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Juan Lentino Definitely, you amuse me, Mr Waxman.
I believe that you and your client decided unilaterally that Lori can't see her daughter 7 months ago... If that's not true,
please do me a favor publish a document that belies it.
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Willow Tree So again the right thing must be done by Mila... to see her mumma. Yes Waxman i know your come back, but
come on! you know the truth, yet, you/igor let a little girls heart break.
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It is good that a radio station such as NPR allows the truth to be told about public failure in Maine to
protect a child against sex abuse, drugging and violence by a criminal
dad http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/12/14/diane-rehm-show-on-child-sex-abuse-takes-call-from-
milas-mama/

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Everyone in Maine please join musicians who rally for little Mila in Portland, Maine so she can be free
from sex abuse, drugging with meth and violence, all committed by her father and documented on this
blog: http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/27/mariqueen-marla-mase-juan-lentino-def-jam-thank-
you-for-a-big-and-beautiful-noise-for-a-little-girl-named-mila/

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Sarah Tyrrell Oh my god! People can just read the actual court documents and see the lies themselves that Milas mother
has told. Oh and it might be worth mentioning that Lori has not answerd her phone to her daughter or called her back since
May 10th.so that is how worried she is..and she does NOT have shared custody at all. Can't believe how many people have
bought into the lies! The woman is mentally ill. You only have to look at her site to see this. She think's everyone is
conspiring against her and there is a peadophile ring amongst officials in Maine..Cuckoo.
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Dawn Henderson Gry - Before banding people together to attack a man further, please take the time to research this case
carefully. Read the documents from the court, the hospitals, DHHS, the deposition of the psychologist that examined both
parties, the Guardian Ad Litem, the Ombusman. Anyone can write whatever they wish on the web...this does NOT make it
true. The truth is out there. It is up to you to actually want to KNOW it and make an informed decision.
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Gry Tina Tinde Sarah: A 5-year-old girl is being sexually abused, drugged with meth and hit by her dad, DHHS refuses to
accept evidence, the family court judge believes the lawyer's lies and every public official and reporter in Maine seems to be
terrified of the truth. How can this be? See Lori Handrahan's blog with 43,500 views that documents all the abuse, and
Lori's attempt to pick up her daughter for court-ordered vacation in June. She was stopped by the dad, who was helped by
the police to keep the little girl away from her loving mom. How can this happen? How can anyone distrust a little girl? Get
real, help Mila be safe
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Gry Tina Tinde Dawn or whoever you are, you are also living i fantasyland. Please help save a little girl from the abuse she
has herself described, and which is substantiated by America's foremost experts on sex abuse, and which is on the mom's
blog
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Sarah Tyrrell Hi Gry, I do not wish to argue with you or offend you. No doubt you are acting from your heart in what you
think is a noble cause. I admire your beliefs. However,"which is on the mom's blog" ?Therefore it must be true?? The meth
thing,? There is a difference between what is known as "street" meth and the meth that was found in Mila...What was
found in Mila could come from an over the counter prescription such as cough bottle.But Lori does not want to make that
clear as she wants her claims to be assensational as possible. There are many discrepancies in Lori's claims, none of which
any of you followers seem to be interested in reading. Mila said to an official (without her mother present) that her daddy
did not hit her, her mammy told her to say that. It is a very sad but very true fact, in custody battles, that a partner will be
accused of physical/sexual abuse. Do you REALLY believe that every Doctor and official are conspiring against Lori to enable
her ex to abuse Mila??? Come on! You need to read ALL the court testimonys and depositions and reports before you reach
your conclusion. I am an anti child-abuse activist myself and was originally touched by Lori's blog and what seemed to be

hard evidence..Until I did my own research as i wanted to have FULL knowledge of what I was getting involved in. It then
became VERY clear to me that my belief in Loris plight was completely misplaced. 90 percent of her blog is lies. Mila was
NOT abused, except by her mother, mentally. Lori is now saying that she wont see or speak to Mila on the phone as she
does not want to make it look like she accepts Igors conditions regards visitation. If this was your daughter and you felt she
was being abused would you care what anything looked like in the courts eyes??? Hell no! You would see and talk to your
daughter as much as you possibly could! I know you do not want to hear it. believe me, I was very dissapointed when I
realised I had been duped by Lori's manipulation, but it's the truth. If you would like to PM me your email address , I would
be prepared to forward you the court documents that Lori doesn't want you to see. Mila's safety and wellbeing asre
paramount in my thoughts and trust me, she is safe,happy and healthy where she is now.
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Gry Tina Tinde Sarah Tyrrell you sound delusional, no point for me to comment on your nonsense
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, for a woman who works for the Inter-American Development Bank in Washington, D.C., and
who has also worked with the UN High Commissioner for Refugees, and who is on the Advisory Board for Women
International Networking, I am astonished that you would simply accept your friend Lori's story without doing your own
investigation. Furthermore, how can a professional who seems to have devoted a large part of her life to improving the
human condition type away and accuse someone who holds a very different view of Handrahan's claims of being
"delusional?" That is not in keeping with your body of work. People like you are Handrahan's most prized manipulation
targets. Maureen Flatley was another, who has since left Handrahan's employ. Please, just THINK before you continue to
parrot the Handrahan story.
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Gry Tina Tinde Keep smoking that black rock Waxman, it could explain why you find sex abuse normal and why you don't
understand about legal professional responsibilities or the need for children to be safe. Mila is unfortunately a victim of
documented abuse and she needs to be safe asap and everyone protecting her abuser must be held accountable
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Gry Tina Tinde http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/18/george-washington-universitys-law-schools-domestic-violence-legal-
appellate-program-dvleap-org-supports-mila/

lorihandrahan.com
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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, I was sexually abused by a camp counselor named Conrad Mainwaring at Greylock Camp in
Becket Massachusetts from the age of 13-16, and I have the emotional scars to prove it. I know about child abuse. And I
assure you that Igor is a remarkably loving, nurturing, gentle and patient man. Of course, you have never met him, so you
are merely taking Handrahan's word.
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It is good that a radio station such as NPR allows the truth to be told about public failure in Maine to protect a child
against sex abuse, drugging and violence by a criminal dad http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/12/14/diane-rehm-show-
on-child-sex-abuse-takes-call-from-milas-mama/
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Dawn Henderson What violence? What drugging? Can you please provide me the legal documentation
of this? The medical records of this? I can provide you BOTH, from right here on the web, where it is
clearly shown that NEITHER happened!
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Gry Tina Tinde It is sad that some people commenting here do not believe affidavits of sex abuse
experts who state that Mila has been sexually abused by her dad. They don't believe any truths in this
case, it seems. Mila was also drugged with meth, as documented by a trustworthy lab and posted on
Saving Mila's website. Never mind, people protecting Mila's criminal dad have always been lying and
have absolutely nothing to substantiate their claims with. A little girl suffers because of these lies
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Kristine O'Brien McDonald This is from the courtdocument: The testimony from the parties at the most
recent hearing was very similar in tenor to their
testimony at trial in December of 2008. The court finds the testimony of the Plaintiff to be
credible. He was forthright, his testimony made sense, and his testimony was corroborated by
I Attorney Hoffman filed a Motion for Leave to Withdraw as Counsel for Defendant on
December 21, 2010. The court granted this motion after the conclusion of the hearing on
Plaintiff's Motion to Modify and Objection to Defendant's Intended Relocation.
2 Information presented in the form of a Child Support Affidavit established that Defendant
earned $45,000.00 in 2010.
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other evidence. The court does not find the testimony of the Defendant to be credible. The
Defendant was very evasive in her answers to questions, and she made a strange and
unsubstantiated claim. She testified that, "pedophiles use decongestants to sedate children.,,3 No
credible evidence was presented at all to indicate that Mila was provided any drugs or was
influenced by drugs. Nevertheless, the Defendant suspected that the Plaintiff had drugged Mila.
Consequently, the Defendant had a test done on Mila's urine in February of 2010. She claimed
that there "was "meth" in Mila's urine that was documented at a national lab." She offered no
credible evidence to corroborate this claim. The Defendant indicated that the Department of
Health and Human Services refused to intervene regarding her claim, so she contacted the Drug
Enforcement Agency (it was unclear whether the Defendant contacted the Maine Drug
Enforcement Agency, or the Federal Drug Enforcement Agency). Apparently, the DEA refused
to intervene as well. Based upon the evidence presented, the court does not find the Defendant's
claim to be at all credible.
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Kristine O'Brien McDonald It clearly states she was not credible and he was credible.

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Kristine O'Brien McDonald http://www.waxmanlaw.us/media/malenkoPRDecision.pdf
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Gry Tina Tinde These court documents have been dictated by Igor's lawyer$ this is the crux of the
problem, and of course DHHS failure to respect substantiated sex abuse documents + meth drugging
proof and evidence of Mila's dad hitting her with a pan and much more, is also reason to investigate
DHHS and hold it accountable
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Michael Waxman Gry, I don't know where you live or whether you are an attorney (I do not believe you
are), but what you suggest is simply not possible, and if you think about it just for a moment, it makes no
sense at all. You think I can bribe judges in Maine? I can't. No one can. There are no "substantiated sex
abuse documents." There is merely the Spurwink report which was based on a myriad of heresay and
ONE, coached statement from a child who could tell a lie from the truth. The judge found that Handrahan
had presented "extremely precarious evidence of an extremely serious charge" and dismissed the case.
As for the pan incident? Mila told TWO different DHHS investigators that her father NEVER hit her, that
her momma told her he did, and that she knew her momma was not telling the truth. A DHHS letter says
that nearly verbatim. I kid you not. DHHS HAS investigated this case, many times. And the Ombudsman's
Office reviewed ALL DHHS investigations because Handrahan complained. And the Ombudsman's
review was reviewed by another professional because Handrahan complained.
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Michael Waxman Oh, and the radio station did not "allow the truth to be told." Handrahan called in to the
show, which was about Jerry Sandusky and child abuse. Handrahan called in and launched into a 2-3
minute monologue in which she spat out lie after lie after lie, and the host got her off the air as soon as
she possibly could. I do not think that Diane Rehm is going to actually have her on her show.
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Gry Tina Tinde Waxman how's it going using your family's resources to take down Lori, as you promised
in a mail to her in 2009 that is on Slideshare? Seems you are enjoying taking a little girl from her loving
mom, and you certainly are keeping your 2009 promise, which of course was a threat and totally
unprofessional behavior by a LAWYER!

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Gry Tina Tinde How does it feel, Waxman, when you and poppa (Igor Malenko) smoke black rock that
Mila says makes you bad and hit her? I don¨t take drugs so I can't put myself in your place

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Gry Tina Tinde It's a sad and sordid life Mila finds herself in. I hope she will be saved soon. She
deserves to be with her loving, caring, wonderful, truth-speaking and drug-free mother

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Juan Lentino Drug addict again... Hi! Please stop trolling our posts, thank you! :)

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Michael Waxman Do you people not THINK at all independently? "Smoking a black rock?" What does
that even mean? And Ms. Tinde, I NEVER claimed that I would take the child from Handrahan. I promised
that I would always support Igor to ensure that justice was done and that the child was in a loving and
safe environment. If Handrahan would simply get help, she could be part of that loving and safe
environment.

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Gry Tina Tinde You also wrote that for you the Mila case was personal. What a wonderful statement by a
lawyer, revealing your true personal interest in a little girl who should be safe with her mom and not go on
overnight visits with you!

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Gry Tina Tinde And I apologize for Mila who didnøt have the correct vocabulary for explaining how her
dad and his lawyer smoke something that makes them bad. But when she uses the word 'gina' you think
that this is wrong, too. So whether Mila uses a child's explanation or the 'advanced' word gina for her
private parts, Mila is discredited by you!

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Juan Lentino Oh! You move like a rat, Waxy. :)

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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, do you have any adult friends who happen to have children? And when you
see your friend and his/her child, do you speak with the child? Do you end up liking the child? That's the
level of bond I have with this child. Why must you and Handrahan try so hard to characterize such a
relationship as disgusting? Yes, the child is delightful and silly and fun. I like hangin out with kids because
I am a big kid myself. So, I have developed a friendship with Igor, as well as her child. But you assume it
must be something ugly. Why? Are all your relationships with children ugly?

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Gry Tina Tinde Keep it coming Waxman, nobody expects you to save Mila from sex abuse, drugging or
violence. That has been made very clear by you for three years. Keep making a fool of yourself publicly,
nobody expects anything else. But it kind of is a waste of everybody's time to have anything to do with
you. When did you last have a paying client, by the way? Or do you pay all you clients for you to
represent them so that you can go berserk against loving, protective parents and other law-abiding people
who are fighting for a good cause?

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Michael Waxman Ms. Tinde, I would like you to leave the personal attacks aside. That is not how I
expect you conduct disagreements in your professional life, and it is not appropriate to do so in this public
forum. I think you are misinformed by Handrahan. I have the documentation to disprove ALL of the claims
Handrahan is making. I don't forge documents. I don't buy judges. It has been me up against about 10-12
different attorneys your friend has employed. Believe me, the courts have noticed that the resources
Handrahan has devoted to this case dwarf what we have spent. You have this backwards.

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Gry Tina Tinde Seems you don't have paying clients, Waxman. Of course you don't need any income as
your family is very wealthy, but I would be embarrassed if I were you, downright ashamed to keep a little
girl trapped in sex abuse, violence and drugging with meth. Mila's dad has a criminal record, he is not at
all trustworthy, while Lori is clean as a whistle. Why discredit a law-abiding US citizen and praise a
criminal alien who is abusing his daughter and who was caught shop lifting in Maine? And who lies on his
immigration papers? He needed someone like you, obviously

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Michael Waxman 1. Igor has NO criminal record. Check. Your statement is false. Yes, Igor was charged
with shoplifting cough syrup. And the charge was dismissed after he completed a program and paid a
fine. It is called "deferred disposition." Ask around. And he was NOT convicted of assaulting Lori. That
charge was "filed" and dismissed. 2. every judge and every DHHS official who has interacted with Igor
and Lori has found that LORI is not credible and IGOR is. 3. Igor has not lied on his immigration papers.
Think for just a moment -- where does your info come from? A source who has been found by multiple
judges and authorities to lack credibility.

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Gry Tina Tinde Igor's criminal record from Macedonia where he owes all compensation he was ordered
to pay to a 16-year-old boy he kicked so hard in the head he remains 80% disabled today, 20 years later.
Not able to work, and no comensation from the criminal,
Igor http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/10/macedonian-criminal-record-of-igor/

Macedonian Criminal Record of Igor
lorihandrahan.com
Macedonian Criminal Record of Igor View more documents from Lori Handrahan

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Michael Waxman See, Ms. Tinde, again, you really ought NOT to simply parrot what Handrahan says.
Rather, you should use your own eyes and your own intellect. Igor was NOT convicted of a crime. The
official documents indicate that Igor was not found to have harmed the child intentionally. Also, there is
NO evidence anywhere that he KICKED the child. This is a recent creation by Handrahan. And you are
also incorrect about his situation. He works, he has a family. Just because Handrahan says something,
you are not obligated to believe it.

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Gry Tina Tinde Lies, lies from Waxman. Please document everything you say, including Lori's mental
state that you keep writing about in very derogatory terms. Nothing about this has been posted anywhere,
as thre is no evidence for any of your nonsense in this case. Set up a web site with all the great evidence
that you haven't produced already. Openness needs to be the rule, you do your part, instead of hiding
behind court judgments that seem very doctored and bear your lingustic mark

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Michael Waxman I have ALL the documents, Ms. Tinde, and I believe there will be a web site up shortly
which will make them easy to view. I'd be happy to send them to you by email if you like. But the short
version is that Handrahan was absolutely diagnosed by a doctorate level forensic psychologist named
Carol Lynn Kabacoff as being a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She testified that not only did
Handrahan meet EVERY SINGLE CRITERIA but also that she was the "most severe narcissist" she had
"ever met or evaluated." So, that is pretty good evidence. Oh, and the judge found her testimony "very
credible." Your turn.

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Gry Tina Tinde There is interesting info about Kabacoff on the Saving Mila blog. She is not at all credible

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Gry Tina Tinde No diagnosis of Lori here:http://lorihandrahan.com/2011/11/12/who-is-carol-kabacoff/

Who is Carol Kabacoff?
lorihandrahan.com
Who is Carol Kabacoff? Waxman just wrote in a comment on Saving Mila website ...See More

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Michael Waxman Yes, every single person who disagrees with your good friend can expect to be
attacked. That is how she rolls. Tell you what, test my theory. Tell her yoiu question or disagree with
something she has told you. See what happens.

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Gry Tina Tinde Unlike you Lori Handrahan is an intelligent, caring and open-minded person who is totally
trustworthy and law-abiding, and doesn't do drugs!

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Michael Waxman And Ms. Tinde, what is the basis of your belief that I do drugs?

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Michael Waxman Oh, that's right . . . Lori told you so. Ok, then I must be doing drugs. My mistake.

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Gry Tina Tinde Not Lori, it was Mila who talked about you and her dad smoking something that makes
you bad. She's on tape, uncoached by anyone, speaking as truthfully as only a child can do

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Michael Waxman Hahahahahahaha!! THAT is the basis of your claim that I am drug addict? Are you
serious? Wow. I am speechless and tired. Later.

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