The Equally Yoked Couple - Soc Psy 222 is a presentation for Liberal Arts and Humanities college students - Key Words: Unequally yoked, Unequallyoked, Unequally-yoked, equally yoked, egalitarianistic, true equality, introduction to social psychology, sociology, violation of social mores, social science, deviancy, mating, deviancies, statistics, abnormalacies, sexual perversions, data base, psychopathology, pairing off, sociopathology, Violation of Social Mores, Engagement, biostatistics, Equally-yoked, Equallyoked Couples, Equallyoked, Equallyokedtarian, Equallyokedtarians, Equallyokedtarianism, Coupling up, Pairing-Off, Coupleships, Mate Selection, Dyadic Relationships, Premartial Pairing, Civil Identity, Intimacy and Mating, Pre-engagement, Courting, Courtship, Spouses, Dyads, Dyadic Psychology, Social Mores, Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology, Biopsychosociocultural Medicine, Clinical Sociology, Social Psychiatry, Psychotherapy, Psychosocial Health, Marriage and Family Therapy, Sociocultural Anthropology, Human Ecology.

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3. ““Soul Mates”Soul Mates”
• “A couple who encounter
their very first sex
encounter together,
mutually orgasm
simultaneously, and their
baby is born out of that
time are truly “Soul-
mates” for life.(a)
and,..
• ..if that couple bonds with
each other, falls deeply in
love,...
• ….and is the happiest they
have ever been in their
entire lives – just being with
each other are “Soul-
mates”(b)
and,…
• ..if as a couple they are
formally ‘married’ and truly
“equallyoked” i.e., of the
‘same’ or ‘very similar’
“civil-identities.”..they are
life time “Soul-mates.” (a,b,c),
(IBID)
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

4. Social Mores:Social Mores:
• …is a sociology term that has evolved -now-
referring to ‘true’ social mores, consisting of:
• values…i.e., moral values expressed out/socially.
• good social conduct – out in public –
– proper manners when out and about in society
– polite social etiquettes in meetings
– Standards/or customs within a neighborhood or public
• any social health habits that comprise behaviors that
contribute to living a healthy lifestyle and pursuing
happiness and longevity (differing
amongst different groups).(37)
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5. SocialSocial IdentityIdentity && Civil IdentityCivil Identity
“Social Identity”
• A person’s sense of belongingness to a
variety of important identified social
categories/groups such as;
• Citizenship: a Nation
• Residency: Location of home, etc
• Property: OWNERship or co-Ownership in
Real estate, e.g., homes, vacation homes,
office buildings, land, and may include motor
homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc.
• Profession: trade, vocation, skill, craft boards
or unions, etc
• Education: Credentials, degrees, diplomas,
certifications, and also documentation of
registration and licenses, etc.
• Titles: clubs, associations, organizations, etc.
• Socio-economic CLASS: Amount of money in
bank, in stocks and bonds investments, in
bank notes and certificates, tax classification,
etc.1,2,3
“Civil Identity”
A term first introduced in Social Psychology
- describing a collective of features
concerning an individual’s present
• Ethnicity: Ancestry/Language
• Political party: Membership
• Race: DNA features
• Color: Skin
• Religious: Beliefs/Membership
• Disability/ Handicap:
• Age/ Generation:
• Sex/ Gender
• Sexual (Pleasure preference)
Orientation:
• Marital Status:1
- Social Psychology: SocPsy 202

6. ““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”
• Ethnicity
• Disability
• Mental
• Physical
• Race
• Color
• Age
• Gender
• Political Party
• Familiar Status
• Marital Status
• Religion
• Beliefs
• Creed
• Sexual (Pleasure
Preference) Orientation
- Components of “CIVIL IDENTITY”
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7. An Example of “Equallyoked”An Example of “Equallyoked”
• Ethnicity
• Political Party
• Race
• Color
• Religion
• Age
• Sex (Male)
• Marital Status
Sexual (pleasure preference) orientation
Civil Identity #
1
- Sociology 101: “Civil Identity”
• Ethnicity
• Political Party
• Race
• Color
• Religion
• Age
• Sex (Female)
• Marital StatusSexual (pleasure preference) orientation
Civil Identity #
2
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8. Philosophy of EquallyokedtarianismPhilosophy of Equallyokedtarianism
Equal Rights
Separate
but
‘Equal’
‘True’ Equality
Three Components
Three Premises
Used by Permission
The Philosophies of
Equallyokedtarians, 2001
(58)

9. Beliefs: EquallyokedtarianismBeliefs: Equallyokedtarianism
Premise #
1 – ‘Equal’ Rights
– Inherently people --- everywhere --- all people are
considered ‘equal’ under and subject to the physical
laws, the social laws, and even the spiritual laws.
Premise #
2 - Separate and ‘Equal’
– Each person is equal as an unique individual with a
distinctly different personal identity and set of beliefs.
Premise #
3 - True ‘Equality’
– Each set of pairs-pairing off as a couple – truly equal –
according to each individual’s own ‘civil identity’ (20)
Three Premises:
“The Philosophies of Equallyokedtarians”- 2001

10. Online Survey:Online Survey: Social IssuesSocial Issues
• Abortion
– Medical/surgical killing of fertilized eggs/fetuses
based on unplanned for/unwanted/unloved baby.(4)
• Unequally yoked
– Violation of social mores – An indifference to the
family ethics in community – matching by civil identity.
• Bullying (public school)
– World majorities using lies and intimidation to
racketlunch money of children and young teenagers.
• Disabled US Veterans
– Mental and/or physical wounds from war trauma and
injuries unable to provide for family and support home
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(IBID)
(5,6)

11. HappinessHappiness
• In a survey of couples – both equally yoked and
unequallyoked-happiness ranked up among the
most important thing in a coupleship values.
• The equally yoked couple scored better on
periods, level, and kinds of happiness then did
other types of coupleships.
• Also, noted was that couples who were actually
successful at achieving happiness, did so,
based upon the selection and choice of their
coupleship (whether equally-yoked or
unequally-yoked).(8)
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12. ChangeChange
• A field project study of upper division students
on a liberal arts college-campus; inquired into
the degree of ‘positive’ changed measured of
equally yoked couples and those of unequally
yoked couples after one semester.
• Equally yoked couples and unequally yoked
were rated end of the semester according to the
amount of ‘positive change’ that had occurred.
• The findings were simply that the ‘positive
change’ rated significantly higher in the ‘equally
yoked’ couples as compared with those in the
unequally yoked.(17)
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13. The Equally YokedThe Equally Yoked
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14. Dx: r/t the “Unequally-yoked”
• Impulse control disorders and aggression
– examined cases: challenge to sexually conquer a mate.
• ADHD (Attention-deficit/Hyperactivity disorder)
– situational evidence: incidences of emotional sexual attraction.
• Brain injury: Major neurocognitive disorders
– school age undiagnosed: coupleships formation.
• Anxiety, depressive, and bipolar disorders
– adults: college age, & high school graduates pursuing a mate.
• Autism spectrum disorders (ASDs)
– jurispurdence/penal authorities: report of gang related activities.
• High risk and self-injury actions
– military school/military service: weekend pass/or liberty.
- SocPsy666
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15. PMAPMA
• The prevalence of a PMA (Positive Mental Attitude)
within volunteer dyads (in the home) was the focus
of research studies on one college campus.
• A mutual diary was place in the home of certain
married couples – both/either equally yoked and/or
unequally yoked and compiled after 100 days.
• The outcome was that more incidences of
negative mental attitudes and less positive mental
attitudes were recorded by those in unequally
yoked dyads. Equally yoked dyads recorded
comparatively more PMAs.(24)
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16. “…“…by a show of hands…”by a show of hands…”
• In a seminar on successful dyadic relationships
with a rather mixed audience the presenter
simply popped the question-asking, “…by a
show of hands, how many here are ‘in’ or would
like to be ‘in’ an equally yoked coupleship?”
• Almost all hands in the audience went up (…that
was more than 98% of all in attendance), i.e.,
responding positively with a raise of hands.
• Generally speaking, within the academia
community, the equally yoked coupleship has
been identified as the preferred one the of
choice.(31)
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18. ““Presence”Presence”
• In a clinical dyadic study, emotional presence of
equally yoked couples (volunteers) were
compared to those unequally yoked.
• The degree to which the different couples felt
emotionally connected with one another was
measured* by calibrated psychometric testing.
• Both, ‘online’ and ‘face-to-face’ were included in
the research. The findings were surprising to the
investigators - the equally yoked couples
measured only ‘slightly’ - not significantly - more
emotionally present than the unequally yoked.
More studies were suggested in the future. (15)
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19. Unequally-yoked Couples
• Reports of 50-70% without any insight, nor
personal experience, nor understanding of
equallyoked coupling/coupleships.
• Studies: reported individuals’ reading and math
skills at about 3rd-6th grade levels-concerning
equallyoked coupling and coupleships.
• Recorded: no unusual physical signs and yet
seemingly sslower than normal in understanding
what comprises an equallyoked coupleship.
• Observations: daily practical social skills in
relationships and identifying ‘civil identity.’(4)
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20. ““Love”Love”
• One study of upper division students on a liberal
arts college-campus; the ‘depth’ of love was
measured of equally yoked couples and those
of unequally yoked couples all in only platonic
relationships (nonsexual unions).
• Equally yoked couples and unequally yoked
were scored at the end of the semester after all
relationships had grown and developed.’
• The results were that the ‘depth of love’ rated
highest in the ‘equally yoked’ couples when
compared with the unequally yoked.(35)
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22. Is it LoveIs it Love oror Lust?Lust?
• Marriage couples: a record was kept one school
year (any year) of couple’s incidents of ‘lust’ vs
‘love’ and evaluated in order to investigate ‘lust’.
• Selected couples in study was based upon
whether they were Equally yoked or Unequally
yoked. The investigators target was ‘lust’.
• Each individual in the coupleship was asked to
rate their sexual encounters/or potential
incidents either ‘lust’ verses ‘love’ motivated.
• Investigators: Equally yoked couples scored
less ‘lust’ events at the end of the study.
Researchers plan to look into the ‘love’ more.(5,6)
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23. A Psychosocial StudyA Psychosocial Study::
Equally Yoked Unequally Yoked
Trusting (hopefulness) Mistrustful of people
Sense of will power Skeptical/doubtful
Self motivated Feelings of Inadequacy
Sense of competence* An inferiority complex
A clear self identity A sense of role confusion
Sexual intimacy achieved Sexually isolated/unhappy
A sense of busy-ness Workaholism(a)
*Also, “Coupleship satisfaction” - The Equally Yoked pair rated the highest
level of relationship satisfaction over all. Although both types of coupleships shared in
about the same level of ‘practical wisdom.’
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ScoresScores
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24. Therapy: Un/Equallyoked CouplesTherapy: Un/Equallyoked Couples
Coupleships: text assist with daily relationships.
• Education: coupleship teaching and training.
• Counseling: finding and maintaining suitable
gainful employment and career planning.
• Readings/video education: r/t interpersonal
communication and dyadic relationships.
• Group Living: an equallyoked savvy mileau.
• 12 Step group support to solve dyadic problems.
• Risk assessment: suicide ideation & pre-actions.(26)
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25. An ‘Equally Yoked’ Dyad
• An ‘equally yoked dyad may very well represent a well
balanced close relationship architecture, however,
investigators are in search of much more...
• Equally yoked couples play a major role in shaping,
attitudes, feelings, thoughts, habits and lifestyles.
Researchers describe how these close relationships
effect one another and just how important are equally
yoked coupleships anyway.
• Dyadic psychologists study how these interpersonal
relationships affect ‘equally yoked’ and ‘unequally
yoked’ people alike - looking at sexual attraction,
bonding and attachment, love, marriage, and family life.
- SocPsy220
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26. Hash tags/meta-tagsHash tags/meta-tags
Key Words: Unequally yoked, Unequallyoked, Unequally-
yoked, equally yoked, egalitarianistic, true equality, introduction
to social psychology, sociology, social mores, social
science, deviancy, mating, deviancies, abnormalacies, sexual
perversions, data base, psychopathology, pairing off,
sociopathology, Violation of Social Mores, Engagement,
biostatistics, Equally-yoked, Equallyoked Couples,
Equallyoked, Equallyokedtarian, Equallyokedtarians,
Equallyokedtarianism, Coupling up, Pairing-Off,
Coupleships, Mate Selection, Dyadic Relationships, Premartial
Pairing, Civil Identity, Intimacy and Mating, Pre-
engagement, Courting, Courtship, Spouses, Dyads, Dyadic
Psychology, Social Mores, Marriage, Family, and Child
Psychology, Biopsychosociocultural Medicine, Clinical Sociology,
Social Psychiatry, Psychotherapy, Psychosocial Health,
Marriage and Family Therapy, Sociocultural Anthropology,
Human Ecology
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