Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What
about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking? REA Group 02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne @realestate_au Victoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel Monday, 2 September 13

“You don’t have to be
sick to become better!” (Michael Josephson) http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar) Monday, 2 September 13

“The devil you know is
better than the devil you don't know!” “But is there a devil at all on the new road?” Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar) Support
Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx) forward move Monday,
2 September 13

goals “Setting a negative goal
is like going shopping with a list of things that you do not want to buy.” Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC) The only person
you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown) You! Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003) It’s You! about
Monday, 2 September 13

Filter http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh) Monday, 2
September 13

1st Exercise “Perspectives” See next
slide Monday, 2 September 13

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:My_Wife_and_My_Mother-in-Law.jpg
Monday, 2 September 13

Beliefs http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver) “What the
thinker thinks, the prover proves!”(Robert Anton Wilson) Monday, 2 September 13

“Life is 10% How You
Make It and 90% How you Take It“ (Irving Berlin) http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617 (Manuel Bahamondez H) Choice AttitudeMonday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming) Pull,
not push Monday, 2 September 13

‘But’ is the great eraser.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill) Empowering Limiting
Monday, 2 September 13

Pressure Words Abstract Words shouldmust
have to need to ought to failure relationship stress want to don’t want to Choice frustration success Unconsidered Opinions better obviously clearly worse Overgeneralizations never nobody always can’t can everybody Beliefs Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann) “Life begins
at the end of your comfort zone.” (Neale Donald Walsch, Autor) Monday, 2 September 13

There is a solution to
every problem. (NLP Presupposition) http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst) Monday, 2 September 13

Anything can be accomplished when
the task is taken in small enough chunks. (NLP Presupposition) Monday, 2 September 13

You cannot not communicate (NLP
Presupposition) http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL) Monday, 2 September 13

The Meaning of Your Communication
is the response you get (NLP Presupposition) http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen) Monday, 2 September 13

“I didn't fail the test,
I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.“ (Benjamin Franklin) Failure Feedback is only http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)
Every behaviour has a positive intention. (NLP Presupposition) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot) “You have not
yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.” Ability Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages Monday, 2 September 13

2nd (Group) Exercise “Listening” See
next slide Monday, 2 September 13

Groups of 3 1 observing
controversial issue Talk about 2 chatting Monday, 2 September 13

Get your out of the
way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato) “Most people do
not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People) Monday, 2 September 13

silence! courage for http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul
Holloway) Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod) “Question everything.
Learn something. Answer nothing.” (Euripides) Monday, 2 September 13

Powerful Questions http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska
Cellulosa Aktiebolaget) What...? How...? When...? Why...? Monday, 2 September 13

Fresh Perspective http://www.flickr.com/photos/mathias-erhart/280056079 (mathias-erhart) What
If...? Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jakecaptive/3205277810(@boetter) http://www.flickr.com/photos/-followthemusic-/7185470025(LaurenFinkelPhotography) http://www.flickr.com/photos/popculturegeek/4878889504 (Pop Culture
Geek) challenge free take Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch) Monday, 2 September
13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley) Meetings Monday,
2 September 13

Decision http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy) making Monday,
2 September 13

Performance Reviews http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor
- Food Fetishist) Monday, 2 September 13

Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons) Monday, 2
September 13

Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee) Monday, 2
September 13

Different people, great variety http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307
(Nagarjun) Monday, 2 September 13

Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe) Monday, 2
September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd) Success Monday, 2
September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell
University Happy Team Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell) What are
you going to do as a first step? Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/lennox_mcdough/4057851723(lennox_mcdough) Experiments Monday, 2 September
13

“Triumph is just a little
umph added to try.” (Tim Owens) http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate) Monday, 2 September 13

disclosed http://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)
“Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach” by Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP TED Talk: “Your body language shapes who you are” by Amy Cuddy www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html Manifesto for Agile Software Development www.agilemanifesto.org What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013 www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI “Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not You’ll Succeed” http://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1 “Strengthsfinder 2.0” by Tom Rath http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0 Secrets Monday, 2 September 13

Thank you :) Iteration Manager
& Life Coaching Student @Erdbeervogel linkedin.com/in/victoriaschiffer German for “Strawberry-Bird”, hence the avatar Victoria Schiffer 02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne Monday, 2 September 13