This was the final event in the Population Patterns Seminar Series which explored the “silver separators”- divorce later in life.
Figures from the Office for National Statistics published in 2012 showed a huge rise in the divorce rate amongst those in their 60s, with an increase of 58% on the 2011 figure. The last 10 years have seen more and more older people part ways, despite divorce amongst the general population becoming less common. This has happened to such an extent that the over 60’s are now the fastest growing divorce group in the UK.
A variety of reasons have been suggested, including a reduction in the stigma surrounding divorce and couples no longer feeling obliged to stay together if their attitudes and needs change.
However, figures released by the ONS in June 2012 revealed that marriages involving older people were also rising faster than for other age groups – up by 21% for women and by 25% for men in their late sixties. Re-partnership is likely to be even higher than these figures suggest, as older people in a new relationship may not choose to remarry.
During the event the discussion explored a number of themes, including:
What factors have contributed to the rising rate of divorce amongst the over 60s?
How can older people’s relationships be better supported?
What challenges does ageing present to relationships?
How do care responsibilities effect relationships?
What are the potential ramifications of older couples separating?
1. Silver Separators
Tuesday 18th November 2014
An ILC-UK Population Patterns Seminar Series event
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2. Welcome
Baroness Sally Greengross
Chief Executive
ILC-UK
An ILC-UK Population Patterns Seminar Series event
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3. Richard Willets
Director of Longevity
Partnership
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4. Trends in divorce and marriage
at older ages
Richard Willets
• ILC-UK Population Patterns Series 18-11-2014
5. How divorce and marriage affects an annuity provider
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Individual annuities
Annuities in payment
can be split/transferred
under a Pension
Sharing Order
Not common. So far
Partnership have
processed just three
such cases in 2014
Defined benefit bulk buyouts
Pensions in final salary
schemes are usually paid to
the surviving spouse/partner
on death of the scheme
member
Best practice is to price using a multi-state model
Alive (&
single)
Alive (&
married)
Deceased
6. Divorce rates for the over 60’s are increasing…
Divorce rate per 1,000 married population, ages 60+, England & Wales, 1990-2012, by gender
2.5
2.0
1.5
1.0
0.5
0.0
1990 1992 1994 1996 1998 2000 2002 2004 2006 2008 2010 2012
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• Source: ONS (2014)
Male
Female
7. Increase in divorce numbers (from 2002 to 2012)…
Number of divorces in 2012 (vs 2002), ages 60+, England & Wales, by gender
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10,000
9,000
8,000
7,000
6,000
5,000
4,000
3,000
2,000
1,000
0
• Own calculations using data from ONS (2014)
Male Female
Increase due to rise in
divorce rate
Increase due to rising
number of people aged
60+
8. Increase in divorce numbers (from 2002 to 2012)…
Number of divorces in 2012 (vs 2002), ages 60+, England & Wales, by gender
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10,000
9,000
8,000
7,000
6,000
5,000
4,000
3,000
2,000
1,000
0
• Own calculations using data from ONS (2014)
Male Female
Increase due to rise in
divorce rate
Increase due to rising
number of people aged
60+
40%
54%
9. How the divorce rate varies by age…
Divorce rate per 1,000 married population in 2012, England & Wales, by age and gender
25
20
15
10
5
0
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20-24 25-29 30-34 35-39 40-44 45-49 50-54 55-59 60 and
• Own calculations using data from ONS (2014)
over
Male
Femal
e
10. Increase in marriages (from 2002 to 2012)…
Number of marriages in 2012 (vs 2002), ages 60+, England & Wales, by gender
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12,000
10,000
8,000
6,000
4,000
2,000
0
• Own calculations using data from ONS (2014)
Increase due to rise in
marriage rate
Increase due to rising number
of people aged 60+
Number of marriages in 2002
Male Female
57%
43%
11. Marriages with either husband or wife aged 65+
Number of marriages in 2011, with husband or wife aged 65+, England & Wales
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• Own calculations using data from ONS (2014)
36%
53%
11%
Both aged 65+
Husband 65+
Wife 65+
3.5% of women who
marry at age 65 or
above have a husband
aged under 55
23% of men who marry
at age 65 or above have
a wife aged under 55
12. Thank you
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13. Rt Hon Paul Burstow MP
Member of Parliament for Sutton and Cheam
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14. Ben Franklin
Senior Research Fellow
ILC-UK
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15. The rise and rise of the silver separator
Ben Franklin, Senior Research Fellow, International Longevity Centre
@ilcuk @bjafranklin
The International Longevity Centre-UK is an independent, non-partisan think-tank
dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
16. What am I going to cover?
What is the trend?
What is driving the trend?
What are some of the implications?
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dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
17. Rising numbers amongst the over 60s
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18. But it’s not just about population change…
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19. What if current trends continue?
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20. Marrying later means greater risk of divorce at older
ages
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dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
21. ….marrying later means greater risk of divorce at older ages
Source: ONS
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dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
22. Rising financial independence amongst women
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23. Rising life expectancy means fewer marriages end
in death of a partner…
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dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
24. What are some of the implications
Financial difficulties
Lack of informal care and support
Older men more likely to rely on institutional care
than older women who are more likely to rely on
children
Possible negative effect on mental health in short
term
Possible negative effect on physical health in long
term.
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dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
25. Many thanks
Ben Franklin
Senior Research Fellow
International Longevity Centre - UK
benfranklin@ilcuk.org.uk
02073400440
Twitter: @ilcuk
The International Longevity Centre-UK is an independent, non-partisan think-tank
dedicated to addressing issues of longevity, ageing and population change.
26. Chris Sherwood
Director or Policy and External Affairs
Relate
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27. Who will love me when I’m
64?
Relationships in later life
Chris Sherwood, Director of External
Affairs
@ChrisSherwood80
28. What do we mean by
relationships?
Couple
Family
Social
Loving relationship between two people
Includes: spouse, partner, civil partnership,
cohabiting couples
Relationships between those that are ‘related’
and/or considered to be in a family
Includes: parents, children, siblings, family-in-
law, stepfamily
Wider social relationships
Includes: friends, colleagues, organisational
relationships
The quality of relationships is key
29. Relationships are good for us
Emotional
Happiness:
There is a correlation
between happiness and
relationships
Loneliness:
The absence of
intimacy fosters
loneliness
Stress:
Those with strong
relationships are less
likely to suffer from
stress
Health
Physical health:
There is a link between
strong relationships
and good health
Mental health:
Those who active in
their communities are
in better mental health
than those who are
more isolated
Practical
Care:
Relationships are a
source of care in old age
Finance:
Those who are married
are less likely to be in
poverty in older age
than single people
Relationships are part of the solution for dealing with our ageing population. Good
quality, strong relationships allow people and communities to operate better and
can help save the state money.
30. People’s relationships face
many pressures in later life
Self
Identit
y
Relationships Physical
Health
Sex and
intimac
y
31. People’s relationships face
many pressures in later life
Self
Identit
y
Relationships
Sex and
intimac
y
Physical Health
•Deteriorates as people
age
•Immobility can cause
isolation and frustration
if cant leave home
•Reliance on others
increases (GPs, family,
friends, etc.)
32. People’s relationships face
many pressures in later life
Self
Identit
y
Relationships Physical
Health
Sex and
intimac
y
Care
•Baby boomers care for
their grandchildren and
elderly parents
•Financial and emotional
pressure
•Older people require
care in their later life too
33. Trends show the
composition of relationships
in later life is changing
37. Baby boomers have been at the
vanguard of social change
'Born absolutely in the centre of the Baby Boom….I remember above all the great sense of change
running with great, and persistent, temporal certainty…. Teenagers had been invented; youth culture
was heading for triumph; we….inhabited the glorious window between the Pill and the emergence of
Aids'.
(Michael Bywater, 'Baby Boomers and the illusion of perpetual youth', New Statesman, 30 October
2006)
• Baby boomers are distinguished by changes in attitudes,
behaviours and expectations including
• Family formation, unions and relationships
• Gender roles and equality
• New challenges moving into older age also:
• Experiencing many of the challenges faced by younger people – e.g. Debt
• But they show same reticence around help seeking behaviour of older
people also
38. Existing responses to
relationships overlook baby
boomers
45.0%
40.0%
35.0%
30.0%
25.0%
20.0%
15.0%
10.0%
5.0%
0.0%
Proportion frequently lonely by age group
50-54 55-59 60-64 65-69 70-74 75-79 80-84 85-89 90+
39. Policy needs to better reflect
these changes
70%
60%
50%
40%
30%
20%
10%
0%
The most important things
for people as they get
Source: IpsosMORI
older
Relationships
There are three pillars to a good later life:
1. Health
2. Financial security
3. Relationships
Government is focused on health and
finances; relationships remain largely
ignored
Relate’s report makes the case that
relationships should be a central
component of central and local
government policy
41. Barbara Bloomfield
Co-author of the Mature Times book ‘The Mature
Times Guide to Love and Relationships in Later Life’
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42. Discussion and Q&A
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43. Silver Separators
Tuesday 18th November 2014
An ILC-UK Population Patterns Seminar Series event
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Notes de l'éditeur
Thanks
I’m from Relate
Please to introduce report ‘who will love me when I’m 64’
Everyone has relationships and can relate to this
But in an ageing society we need to understand their significance
Government cant force people to be in relationships, but this is a concern for public policy
Relationships have huge implications on the health, wealth and happiness of older people
Today I’m going to talk about the findings of the report – specifically -
the trends we’re seeing in people’s relationships
the significance of relationships
the strains they come under as people age
Introduce our relationships in later life campaign – a year long campaign looking at this issue.
Focus:
Baby boomer generation, their ageing and their relationships
Research:
Literature and policy review
Analysis of publically available data - ELSA
An IpsosMORI survey of 1390 adults aged over 50 about their attitudes towards ageing
Interviews with figures in government, charities, service providers and academics
A roundtable of experts to review findings and develop recommendations
The word relationship are often taken to mean a couple relationships
But we are looking more widely at the plethora of relationships that exist in people’s everyday lives
Couple
Family
Social
Quality is key – it is not the presence of relationships themselves that matters, rather the quality of the relationships that people have. Good relationships are beneficial and bad relationships have negative impacts.
Divorce rates are rising – but they are starting from a low base. Over the past 20 years, the divorce rate among men increased from 1.6 divorces per 1000 married men to 2.3 in 2011. However, the average rate for men remains almost 5 times higher in 2011 (at 10.8 divorces per 1000 married men).
Why are divorce rates rising? Increased life expectancy, financial independence, social change including reduced stigma and people don’t feel old.
Older people told us that the three top ingredients for a good later life are good health, good relationships and financial security in that order but our evidence found that one in five people aged 50+ lacked the confidence to form new relationships
There is a lot of evidence that relationships are good for people and for society
Happiness – Repeatedly couple relationship and family life are best indicators of overall life satisfaction. Findings replicated more across different geographies
Loneliness – intimate relationships protect against loneliness, as do wider social network. Quality matters more than quality.
Care – relationships are a source of care – Oxford Institute of Ageing estimates that the over 60s in UK provide £50bn in unpaid family care, approx 3% GDP
Finance – strong families and couple relationships also provide financial benefits. Some baby boomers have been in the fortunate position to help their children with housing deposits, and DWP stats show that those in couple relationships are less likely to live in poverty in later life.
Physical health – strong relationships protect against cardio-vascular diseases. The largest cause of death for the over 65s. UK economy spends over £29bn per year. Preventative social engagement also encourages good diet and health activities
Good quality relationships are associated with happiness and have practical and health benefits. They are part of the solution to our ageing population, where older people will have to work longer and need to be empowered to remain active contributors to society. Relationships can also help the state save money, all important in this time of austerity.
Many benefits to relationships, but relationships in response to changing life circumstances
Entering older age is associated with key life transitions
Transitions place pressures on relationships
Ageing is a series of transitions
I’m going to go into detail into a few of them
Ageing is associated with a decline in physical health and this can put pressure on people’s relationships.
More than a quarter of 50-64 year olds have a long term health condition or disability, and this will increase as people get older
Poor physical health is a cause of immobility
Being stuck at home increases the risk of loneliness and isolation
Reliance on partners and close family, and loose touch with their friends.
Couple and family relationships must be renegotiated
Care can also be an enormous strain on people’s relationships.
Strain between the carer and the cared for, a between carers and their wider social network
Many baby boomers are carers –Over a quarter of grandparents in the UK provide care for their grandchildren on a weekly basis
There is little specific support available
42% of carers report that their personal relationships had suffered as a result of caring responsibilities.
Women are more likely to be carers than men –women marry older men, and living longer, caring for their husbands in later life.
So I’ve talked about the benefits that good quality relationships can convey, both to individuals and to society
I’m now going to go into more detail about the trends we are seeing in people’s relationships
The picture is mixed
Couple
Family
Social
What is clear is that the baby boomers ageing is going to be different from their mothers and fathers. This is a generation who have changed everything. They’ve had different expectations and have changed every life stage they have been through so far and will not stop with later life.
Series of transitions.
But access can vary. Need to look further at quality of these relationships.
Evidence – less inclination to provide care for our step parents, rather than biological parents
They are also increasingly likely to have experienced separation and report having had more sexual partners
We know that baby boomers have been the vanguard of social trends.
Inventive and innovative generation.
Rise in divorce rates, remarriages and unions began is substantial numbers after the 60/70s; rise of unmarried parenthood, lone parenthood, postponed parenthood and voluntary childlessness (within and outside unions) – began as baby boomers were coming of age.
This cohort has also spearheaded changes in gender roles – the first to see substantial rises in female post-compulsory education, expansion of the labour market for women into skilled occupations. Equality on other fronts including LGBT.
This is the first generation to be getting older with substantial numbers who have not followed the traditional family formation of first-time married couple with children (by choice).
However, this generation is also experiencing problems of youth that haven’t been seen to the same degree among older people before – for example:
Problems with sexual health – among people aged 45-60 the number of gonorrhoea infections doubled for women and rose by 50% for men between 1998-2008
Problems with alcohol – older people aged 65+ are much more likely to drink on a daily basis (or 5 times a week or more) than younger – around 25% of men aged 65+ in 2011 compared to 5% of men aged 18-24.
-Debt problems – for example among those aged 50-59, 12% are defined as being in problem debt (excessive payment, excessive amount, or negative effect) – in contrast 6% of those aged 60-69 are and 0.5% of those aged 80+. We don’t know the long-term impacts of retiring with debt. We do know that those moving into problem debt between 2002-2010 raised the risk of partnership dissolution two fold (OR: 2.264).
-Relate’s client data – around 18% aged 50+; around 4% aged 60+
Although levels of loneliness and isolation are relatively stable from 50-79, climbing afterwards.
Not preventative in approach on two levels:
Firstly simply by overlooking baby boomers
Secondly by not being targeted around transitions.
The transitions point is applicable to all groups, but retirement often sets in place many other transitions in terms of health, roles, housing etc – all of which make the absence of services around transitions pertinent
Loneliness and social isolation strategies often tend towards looking at older widows. This is the group that is most prone to loneliness – but often geared towards treatment rather than prevention. Living alone is often identified as a risk factor – but living in an unhappy relationship is not. In doing so, risk overlooking relationship quality among older couples. Also re-partnering? Also, might overlook the changing composition of families and the impact that this will have on relationship dynamics among the couple and more broadly within families.
Finally, there is a need to recognise the diversity of the upcoming baby boomer cohort in terms of income inequality, ethnicity, LGBT relationships etc – there is no precedent in terms of older people.
So, I’ve made the case that relationships are important for both individuals and society
Yet relationships are something that is missing from government policy
Our research shows that there are three pillars to a good old age – health, financial security and relationships
The government has whole departments dedicated to the health and finances of people, but there is very little on relationships
Although relationships are a personal concern, their stability or instability has wide ranging implications for the success of our society
We make lots of assumptions about them – but will they hold true in the future?
Half of the adult population will be aged over 50 by 2025, and to ensure older people have an active older age where they continue to contribute to society, the government must support relationships in later life
So what can you do:
Make referrals
Support people to access our services
Help to challenge stigma and change culture