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The Uninvited Guests
Mental Health
ADDICTION
Chronic Pain
Trauma
Stanger 2019
About Dr. Louise Stanger
• Clinician-Educator
• Interventionist of the Year -2019
DB Resources and McLean
Hospital-An Affiliate of Harvard
• Author-Falling Up A Memoir of
Renewal- Amazon
• The Clinicians Guide to Addiction
Interventions-In press
Routhledge
• Widow, Wife, Mother,
Grandmother
• Adventurer
How did you arrive ?
Mindful: or Mindfull
Objectives
Identify, Describe How Clients and Families Come to
your Practice
Identify , Describe and DiscussAddiction, Mental
Heath , Trauma , Chronic Pain and Process Disorders
Identify how Trauma, Shame ,Guilt, Humiliation,
Embarrassment , Grief and Loss Effect Ones Story about
Themselves
Objectives
• Articulate your philosophy of
practice
• Identify, Describe and
Demonstrate CIS and Family
Mapping as a way into story
• Share invitational vocabulary
To Articulate Your Philosophy
What Is your Philosophy of
Treatment?
Take a few minutes and
write down 3 or 4 words
that describes your
philosophy of treatment.
My Philosophy Of Treatment
Sheldon Kopp.
Existential
Strength Based
Gift of the Buddah
Philosophy
Strength based-it begins by looking for what is good and healthy
and assumes the expression of goodness will always be laced with
imperfections.
Collaborative qualitative inquiry- The researcher becomes part
of the conversation -Become witness to the conversation
The Context -where the interview takes place becomes part of
the portrait -Human experience is framed shaped by the setting.
Discovering the tension between life, loss and liberation.
Who Am I ?
“I am the mirror who reflects back their pain, their fears their
voices. I am the inquirer who asks difficult questions, who searches
for evidence and patterns. I am the companion on the journey
bringing my own story to the encounter, making possible an
interpretive collaboration, I am the audience who listens , laughs ,
weeps an applauds. I am the spider women spinning their tales.. I
am the therapist who offers cathaersis support and challenge… I am
also the stage manager coordinating the intersection of three plays-
the story teller, the narrator and the readers inviting your voice to
the drama”
Create Possibility
SubstanceAbuse-
Mental Health-Depression/
Anxiety
Chronic Pain-Physical Maladies
Digital and other Process
Disorders
Relationship failures -Legal
But-how do our clients arrive?
ASAM March, 2011
A Primary Chronic Disease of
the brain reward, motivation,
memory and related circusy
Dysfunction leads to Biological,
psychological, social and
spiritual manifestations
Individual pathologically
pursing reward or relief thru
substances
Chronic Pain
133 million People Experience Chronic
Pain
1 in 5 globally
153 Billion was spent on adolescent chronic
pain
65% of all people experience chronic pain
once in their life
75 % of all heron users started with a
prescription
155 people die daily
Mental Health Issues
Anxiety
Depression
Narcissism
PTSD
Bi-Polar
Personality
Psychosis
Phobias
Trauma
Definitions of Trauma
Overwhelming experiencing that
cannot be integrated and elicit
animal defensive mechanisms and
dysregulated arousal
“A stress that causes physical or
emotional harm that you cannot
remove yourself from”
Larke Huang , Director of Health
Care Equity at SAMSHA
Trauma is objective
What happened ( My
father killed himself, My
baby dies of SIDS, I was
date raped , humiliated etc
Trauma is subjective :
How do I perceive the situation ?
Relationship to early child-
hood experiences -and
Alcoholism
Adverse Childhood
Experience- 17,000 patients -
Kaiser- effects of trauma are
cumulative and one of most
destructive forms is recurrent
calling and humiliation
Trauma
What do your Clients Say about
Trauma ????
Verbal abuse
Physical abuse
Witnessing a tragedy
Not being told about something
Accidents
Divorce
Death
The Brain & Memory
Amygdala -Alarm circuit
Prefrontal cortex
(Conscious thinking)
Walking down the Street
and think you see a snake
Trauma and Memory
Memories
Explicit- Thought
Containing Memories in an
18 year old (my dog is good
Procedural Or Impicit
Memory ( instinctual or
conditioned responses
associated with Doggy
Getting Emotionally Hooked
When I Experience X
I Feel- Body Sensation
I Think -Whats my go-to
thought process
Behavior-What do I do?
Folks Are More Then Their Trauma
Questions about life role
Your place in life
Coupled with a sense of loss
Perhaps we have lost a core
part of ourselves
Sometimes we become still
and quiet
Shame
Shame is that intensely painful
feeling of believing we are
flawed and therefore
unworthy of love and
belonging.
I am not good enough
Brene Brown
Guilt
Have you ever stolen
anything ?
Had guilty thoughts ?
Have you ever lied?
Made up a confabulation?
Humiliation
The Act of Making
Someone Inferior or
Foolish
Loss and Grieving
Loss -Something of Value is
gone
Grief = Total response to an
emotional experience related to
loss
Breavement- Subjective
response by loved one
Mourning -behavioral response
Addiction -Attachment Disorder
Values are lost as we attach to substances and other unhealthy behaviors
Brene Brown
Invitation is to
Wholehearted living
Strength based
Cultivates Curiosity
Owning Your Story
( Falling down and Rising
UP)
To look at our SFD and
Confabulations
Family Mapping Is the Way In
Story is our way home
“We are the authors of our own
lives
We write our own daring endings
We craft love from heartbreak
Compassion from shame
Grace from disappointment
Courage from failure
Showing Up is our Power
Take Aways
Strength based
Collaborative
Realistic
Inclusive
Looking for Goodness
Listening to Strangers
Client Centered
Qualitative Inquiry- Open Ended Questions
Invitations to Change
–LouiseA. Stanger
An Intervention is an invitation to seek
and accept care
Collective Intervention Strategies
Louise Stanger Ed.D, LCSW, CDWF, CIP
Why CIS?
• Collective - In that to be successful there must be a
team of Families, Friend, Collegues, Associates,
business partners , managers or co-workers
assembled to bring about change
• Intervention- In that we seek to move (i.e/ motivate a
person to a place of change)
• Strategy, in that nothing is set in stone ; we may adapt
the process as needed
• Strength Based
• Solution Focused
• People are Teachable
• Change is Possible
• The Present is Important
• We can rise to our best
possible self
Philosophical Underpinnings
Theoretical Underpinnings
Salvador Minuchin
Virginia Satir. TFT
Bowen , Family Systems
Bowlby,Attachment
Monica McGoldrick-
Family Systems Therapy
Theoretical Strategies
• Motivational Interviewing
• Cognitive Behavioral
• Acceptance & Commitment
• Values Clarification
• Solution Focused
• 12 Step or other Self help
• Mindfulness
• Breathing
Counseling Skills Used
•Listening- Empathy
•Genuine
•Unconditional Positive Regard
•Concreteness
•Reflecting- Echoing Key words
•Body Language
•Open Ended Questions
•Paraphrasing- Summarizing
•Counselor Self Disclosure
•To Do Not Harm
Interventions Include a Village of
Potential Change Agents
Participants are experts
Value Driven
Solution Focused
Evidenced Based
Interventionists job is to bring
people together for the common
good and to identify SA, MH
and other issues
Accountability Teams
Sad-Disgusted
Boundary less
Loving -Worried
Frustrated-Shocked
Embarrassed- Shamed
Terrified-Controlling
At Wits End
Families are taught
• The nature of substance
abuse process and mental
health disorders. If
appropriate about chronic
pain syndrome or other
medical legal problems
• The way an intervention is
conducted
• The active and instrumental
part they have in moving
someone to change
Dr. Louise Stanger
“An Intervention requires Crucial
Conversations”
War of The Roses
Case Study
Clinical & Reverse
Interventions
Demonstrate CIS -Case Studies
Clinical & Reverse Interventions
Clinical Intervention
Reverse Intervention
Interventions Include a Village of
Potential Change Agents
Participants are experts
Value Driven
Solution Focused
Evidenced Based
Interventionists job is to bring
people together for the common
good and to identify SA, MH
and other issues
Clinician Interventionsist
Must Be able to :
• Develop a Team
• Do a Family Map that engages everyone
• Do a Retrospective -bio-psycho-social
• Develop case strategy
• Create Treatment Plan & Placement
• Case Management
• Follow with Aftercare
• Facilitate Family Engagement in the
healing process
• Have Concierge Capabilities
• ETHICS are Paramount
Beliefs an individual or
group makes about
what constitutes proper
behavior
Standard of Conduct
Make sure you know
Collective
Perspectives
Bringing Folks
Together
For The
Common Good
Basic Anatomy
• Intervention Agreement &
Initiative
• Education, Information
Gathering & Assessment
• Implement , Review, Followup
Start where your Client is !
Family Mapping
A Way into Story
Folks have unconsciously
colluded with the problem
Dr. Louise Stanger
“A Successful Intervention has the Potential To
Transform not just the Identified Client but the
Entire Family”
The Conversation will take you many places
Open ended
Conversations will be non-linear
Always Start
With
Identified Love One
Qualitative Questions
Tell Me about ………..
Tell me about your Family..
Tell me about your
children, family,
Grandparents etc
20
The Wounded Hearts
Secrets & Lies
I LO
Substance Abuse
Legal
Jack
Learning disability
SallySusie
Laura John
MikeJim Sr Mary
Jack Susan
Jena
Jim
Anxiety & depression
Medical
Bullying
Work
RAGE
Religiosity
Perfectionism -
everythinglooks good
Secrets
T
T T
TT
T
T
T
T= Trauma
= Money Issues
Sample Family Map
18
= Affair
Sally
T
died age 38
1614
Meet Christine
32 yo music executive
Opioids and disorder eating
Mother and Father
Brother Cooper
Meet Sally
Mental Health- Sucicidality- Disordered Eating -Substance Abuse
About Sally
• Mother -Father South American, Jewish
descent
• Father Hx of Depression
• Family has 4 children- Sally is the
Subsequent child of an infant death -
Brother died of brain tumor at 9 months,
older brother age 5 dx with autism- PTS
• Bullying, Isolation , No Friends
• Trauma Riding , at School Sexual
Assault
• 4 Suicide Attempts-Disorded Eating-
• Pills & Marijuana
• No Formal Inpatient Treatment
Family Mapping Started
after first placement
Meet Jack and his family
54 yo old retired executive lives
with 29 yo son
Two previous treatment episodes
3 children 19, 22, 29
Wife in process of divorce
Being asked to leave treatment
center as wrong placement
Had to get him fromA -B
Families Readiness to Change
In 2 months 3 out of 5 family members were ready to
change
In 7 months 3 out of 5 family members had engaged in
treatment which lasted more then 60 days. 1 family
member went for a 2 week intensive,
2 Private therapists
1 family member refused treatment
Meet Maddi
10 operations - 6 treatment centers
First major accident age 14
Family History of SA , MH and Molestation
Pain Body, SexualAssault Trainer
For past 9 years has been in and out of treatment
centers
Walking on crutches or not walking at all
Maddi gains trust with primary clinician
Maddi gains trust with exercises
Maddi Starts to talk to therapist
Family is confronted with their substance abuse and
their need to detach
Maddi experiences a difference in family
Maddi experiences a Community IntegrationApproach
Maddi could be your next client
Accepted to premed
Meet Erik
20 years old
Only son of high wealth
family 92 sisters)
Legal issues
SubstanceAbuse
Anxiety & Depression
ADHD
Eriks Family
Sisters-Bullying and
Depression
Mom -Family History of SA
Mom in Recovery
Dad Family History of SA
and then Mom said I have
something to share …………..
Erik’s mom
My brother died at age 38 he had HIV
Be Curious
We can all 

Fall Up!
Contact Dr.Louise
DrStanger@allaboutInterventions.co
m
www.allaboutinterventions.com
619-507-1699
Learn To Thrive
Falling Up-Amazon
The Definitive GuideAddiction
Interventions-Collective Strategies-
Stanger & Weber .2018 Routhledge
Resources
https://acestoohigh.com/got-your-ace-
score/ Test
Resources
Brown, Brene- Rising Strong . Speiegel & Grau International 2015 NYC NY
Brown, Brene, DaringGreatly. Gothom Books 2012
Lawrence Lightfoot,Sarah & Hoffman Jessica .TheArt and Science of
Portraiture. Joey Bass. 1997
LawrenceLightfoot, S. Respect , 1998. Press Books, Mass.
Lawrence, Lightfoot,S. I’ve Known Rivers , Penguin Publishing. Ny 1995
Lawrence, Lightfoot, S Growing Each Other Up, University of Chicago Press.
2016
Resources
Kopp, Sheldon- If You Meet The Buddah on the Road , Kill Him,
1982. Penguin House Random House, NY, NY
Stanger, Louise. Falling Up-A Memoir of Renewal 2015, WZY Press
Stanger,http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tricksters-addiction-
you_us_592f0f7ee4b0d80e3a8a329e
Stanger http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-are-the-
differences-between-trauma-addiction_us_58f4e7aee4b048372700da27
www.allaboutinterventions.com
Resources
Stanger www.allaboutinterventions.com
Systemic Model www.systemicintervention.com
Arise www.linkingsystems.com
Jays www.lovefirst.net
Lamm www.bradlamm.com
Seeley www.intervention911.com
Resources
storti-www.stortimodel.com
Mintz www.reallifeis
Tap 35
www.motivational interviewing.org

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Virginia 2019 - The Uninvited Guests

  • 1. The Uninvited Guests Mental Health ADDICTION Chronic Pain Trauma Stanger 2019
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  • 3. About Dr. Louise Stanger • Clinician-Educator • Interventionist of the Year -2019 DB Resources and McLean Hospital-An Affiliate of Harvard • Author-Falling Up A Memoir of Renewal- Amazon • The Clinicians Guide to Addiction Interventions-In press Routhledge • Widow, Wife, Mother, Grandmother • Adventurer
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  • 5. How did you arrive ? Mindful: or Mindfull
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  • 7. Objectives Identify, Describe How Clients and Families Come to your Practice Identify , Describe and DiscussAddiction, Mental Heath , Trauma , Chronic Pain and Process Disorders Identify how Trauma, Shame ,Guilt, Humiliation, Embarrassment , Grief and Loss Effect Ones Story about Themselves
  • 8. Objectives • Articulate your philosophy of practice • Identify, Describe and Demonstrate CIS and Family Mapping as a way into story • Share invitational vocabulary
  • 9. To Articulate Your Philosophy
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  • 11. What Is your Philosophy of Treatment? Take a few minutes and write down 3 or 4 words that describes your philosophy of treatment.
  • 12. My Philosophy Of Treatment Sheldon Kopp. Existential Strength Based Gift of the Buddah
  • 13. Philosophy Strength based-it begins by looking for what is good and healthy and assumes the expression of goodness will always be laced with imperfections. Collaborative qualitative inquiry- The researcher becomes part of the conversation -Become witness to the conversation The Context -where the interview takes place becomes part of the portrait -Human experience is framed shaped by the setting. Discovering the tension between life, loss and liberation.
  • 14. Who Am I ? “I am the mirror who reflects back their pain, their fears their voices. I am the inquirer who asks difficult questions, who searches for evidence and patterns. I am the companion on the journey bringing my own story to the encounter, making possible an interpretive collaboration, I am the audience who listens , laughs , weeps an applauds. I am the spider women spinning their tales.. I am the therapist who offers cathaersis support and challenge… I am also the stage manager coordinating the intersection of three plays- the story teller, the narrator and the readers inviting your voice to the drama”
  • 16. SubstanceAbuse- Mental Health-Depression/ Anxiety Chronic Pain-Physical Maladies Digital and other Process Disorders Relationship failures -Legal But-how do our clients arrive?
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  • 19. ASAM March, 2011 A Primary Chronic Disease of the brain reward, motivation, memory and related circusy Dysfunction leads to Biological, psychological, social and spiritual manifestations Individual pathologically pursing reward or relief thru substances
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  • 21. Chronic Pain 133 million People Experience Chronic Pain 1 in 5 globally 153 Billion was spent on adolescent chronic pain 65% of all people experience chronic pain once in their life 75 % of all heron users started with a prescription 155 people die daily
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  • 25. Definitions of Trauma Overwhelming experiencing that cannot be integrated and elicit animal defensive mechanisms and dysregulated arousal “A stress that causes physical or emotional harm that you cannot remove yourself from” Larke Huang , Director of Health Care Equity at SAMSHA
  • 26. Trauma is objective What happened ( My father killed himself, My baby dies of SIDS, I was date raped , humiliated etc
  • 27. Trauma is subjective : How do I perceive the situation ? Relationship to early child- hood experiences -and Alcoholism Adverse Childhood Experience- 17,000 patients - Kaiser- effects of trauma are cumulative and one of most destructive forms is recurrent calling and humiliation
  • 29. What do your Clients Say about Trauma ???? Verbal abuse Physical abuse Witnessing a tragedy Not being told about something Accidents Divorce Death
  • 30. The Brain & Memory Amygdala -Alarm circuit Prefrontal cortex (Conscious thinking) Walking down the Street and think you see a snake
  • 32. Memories Explicit- Thought Containing Memories in an 18 year old (my dog is good Procedural Or Impicit Memory ( instinctual or conditioned responses associated with Doggy
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  • 35. Getting Emotionally Hooked When I Experience X I Feel- Body Sensation I Think -Whats my go-to thought process Behavior-What do I do?
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  • 39. Folks Are More Then Their Trauma Questions about life role Your place in life Coupled with a sense of loss Perhaps we have lost a core part of ourselves Sometimes we become still and quiet
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  • 41. Shame Shame is that intensely painful feeling of believing we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging. I am not good enough Brene Brown
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  • 43. Guilt Have you ever stolen anything ? Had guilty thoughts ? Have you ever lied? Made up a confabulation?
  • 44. Humiliation The Act of Making Someone Inferior or Foolish
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  • 48. Loss and Grieving Loss -Something of Value is gone Grief = Total response to an emotional experience related to loss Breavement- Subjective response by loved one Mourning -behavioral response
  • 49. Addiction -Attachment Disorder Values are lost as we attach to substances and other unhealthy behaviors
  • 51. Invitation is to Wholehearted living Strength based Cultivates Curiosity Owning Your Story ( Falling down and Rising UP) To look at our SFD and Confabulations
  • 52. Family Mapping Is the Way In Story is our way home “We are the authors of our own lives We write our own daring endings We craft love from heartbreak Compassion from shame Grace from disappointment Courage from failure Showing Up is our Power
  • 54. Strength based Collaborative Realistic Inclusive Looking for Goodness Listening to Strangers Client Centered Qualitative Inquiry- Open Ended Questions
  • 56. –LouiseA. Stanger An Intervention is an invitation to seek and accept care
  • 57. Collective Intervention Strategies Louise Stanger Ed.D, LCSW, CDWF, CIP
  • 58. Why CIS? • Collective - In that to be successful there must be a team of Families, Friend, Collegues, Associates, business partners , managers or co-workers assembled to bring about change • Intervention- In that we seek to move (i.e/ motivate a person to a place of change) • Strategy, in that nothing is set in stone ; we may adapt the process as needed
  • 59. • Strength Based • Solution Focused • People are Teachable • Change is Possible • The Present is Important • We can rise to our best possible self Philosophical Underpinnings
  • 60. Theoretical Underpinnings Salvador Minuchin Virginia Satir. TFT Bowen , Family Systems Bowlby,Attachment Monica McGoldrick- Family Systems Therapy
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  • 62. Theoretical Strategies • Motivational Interviewing • Cognitive Behavioral • Acceptance & Commitment • Values Clarification • Solution Focused • 12 Step or other Self help • Mindfulness • Breathing
  • 63. Counseling Skills Used •Listening- Empathy •Genuine •Unconditional Positive Regard •Concreteness •Reflecting- Echoing Key words •Body Language •Open Ended Questions •Paraphrasing- Summarizing •Counselor Self Disclosure •To Do Not Harm
  • 64. Interventions Include a Village of Potential Change Agents Participants are experts Value Driven Solution Focused Evidenced Based Interventionists job is to bring people together for the common good and to identify SA, MH and other issues
  • 65. Accountability Teams Sad-Disgusted Boundary less Loving -Worried Frustrated-Shocked Embarrassed- Shamed Terrified-Controlling At Wits End
  • 66. Families are taught • The nature of substance abuse process and mental health disorders. If appropriate about chronic pain syndrome or other medical legal problems • The way an intervention is conducted • The active and instrumental part they have in moving someone to change
  • 67. Dr. Louise Stanger “An Intervention requires Crucial Conversations”
  • 68. War of The Roses Case Study
  • 70. Demonstrate CIS -Case Studies Clinical & Reverse Interventions
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  • 74. Interventions Include a Village of Potential Change Agents Participants are experts Value Driven Solution Focused Evidenced Based Interventionists job is to bring people together for the common good and to identify SA, MH and other issues
  • 75. Clinician Interventionsist Must Be able to : • Develop a Team • Do a Family Map that engages everyone • Do a Retrospective -bio-psycho-social • Develop case strategy • Create Treatment Plan & Placement • Case Management • Follow with Aftercare • Facilitate Family Engagement in the healing process • Have Concierge Capabilities • ETHICS are Paramount
  • 76. Beliefs an individual or group makes about what constitutes proper behavior Standard of Conduct Make sure you know
  • 78. Basic Anatomy • Intervention Agreement & Initiative • Education, Information Gathering & Assessment • Implement , Review, Followup
  • 79. Start where your Client is !
  • 80. Family Mapping A Way into Story
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  • 83. Dr. Louise Stanger “A Successful Intervention has the Potential To Transform not just the Identified Client but the Entire Family”
  • 84. The Conversation will take you many places Open ended
  • 85. Conversations will be non-linear
  • 87. Qualitative Questions Tell Me about ……….. Tell me about your Family.. Tell me about your children, family, Grandparents etc
  • 88. 20 The Wounded Hearts Secrets & Lies I LO Substance Abuse Legal Jack Learning disability SallySusie Laura John MikeJim Sr Mary Jack Susan Jena Jim Anxiety & depression Medical Bullying Work RAGE Religiosity Perfectionism - everythinglooks good Secrets T T T TT T T T T= Trauma = Money Issues Sample Family Map 18 = Affair Sally T died age 38 1614
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  • 90. Meet Christine 32 yo music executive Opioids and disorder eating Mother and Father Brother Cooper
  • 91. Meet Sally Mental Health- Sucicidality- Disordered Eating -Substance Abuse
  • 92. About Sally • Mother -Father South American, Jewish descent • Father Hx of Depression • Family has 4 children- Sally is the Subsequent child of an infant death - Brother died of brain tumor at 9 months, older brother age 5 dx with autism- PTS • Bullying, Isolation , No Friends • Trauma Riding , at School Sexual Assault • 4 Suicide Attempts-Disorded Eating- • Pills & Marijuana • No Formal Inpatient Treatment
  • 93. Family Mapping Started after first placement
  • 94. Meet Jack and his family 54 yo old retired executive lives with 29 yo son Two previous treatment episodes 3 children 19, 22, 29 Wife in process of divorce Being asked to leave treatment center as wrong placement Had to get him fromA -B
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  • 97. Families Readiness to Change In 2 months 3 out of 5 family members were ready to change In 7 months 3 out of 5 family members had engaged in treatment which lasted more then 60 days. 1 family member went for a 2 week intensive, 2 Private therapists 1 family member refused treatment
  • 98. Meet Maddi 10 operations - 6 treatment centers
  • 99. First major accident age 14 Family History of SA , MH and Molestation Pain Body, SexualAssault Trainer For past 9 years has been in and out of treatment centers Walking on crutches or not walking at all
  • 100. Maddi gains trust with primary clinician Maddi gains trust with exercises Maddi Starts to talk to therapist Family is confronted with their substance abuse and their need to detach Maddi experiences a difference in family Maddi experiences a Community IntegrationApproach Maddi could be your next client
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  • 103. Meet Erik 20 years old Only son of high wealth family 92 sisters) Legal issues SubstanceAbuse Anxiety & Depression ADHD
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  • 105. Eriks Family Sisters-Bullying and Depression Mom -Family History of SA Mom in Recovery Dad Family History of SA and then Mom said I have something to share …………..
  • 106. Erik’s mom My brother died at age 38 he had HIV
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  • 110. We can all 
 Fall Up!
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  • 112. Contact Dr.Louise DrStanger@allaboutInterventions.co m www.allaboutinterventions.com 619-507-1699 Learn To Thrive Falling Up-Amazon The Definitive GuideAddiction Interventions-Collective Strategies- Stanger & Weber .2018 Routhledge
  • 114. Resources Brown, Brene- Rising Strong . Speiegel & Grau International 2015 NYC NY Brown, Brene, DaringGreatly. Gothom Books 2012 Lawrence Lightfoot,Sarah & Hoffman Jessica .TheArt and Science of Portraiture. Joey Bass. 1997 LawrenceLightfoot, S. Respect , 1998. Press Books, Mass. Lawrence, Lightfoot,S. I’ve Known Rivers , Penguin Publishing. Ny 1995 Lawrence, Lightfoot, S Growing Each Other Up, University of Chicago Press. 2016
  • 115. Resources Kopp, Sheldon- If You Meet The Buddah on the Road , Kill Him, 1982. Penguin House Random House, NY, NY Stanger, Louise. Falling Up-A Memoir of Renewal 2015, WZY Press Stanger,http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tricksters-addiction- you_us_592f0f7ee4b0d80e3a8a329e Stanger http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-are-the- differences-between-trauma-addiction_us_58f4e7aee4b048372700da27 www.allaboutinterventions.com
  • 116. Resources Stanger www.allaboutinterventions.com Systemic Model www.systemicintervention.com Arise www.linkingsystems.com Jays www.lovefirst.net Lamm www.bradlamm.com Seeley www.intervention911.com