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How to Win At Work
Louise Stanger Ed.D, LCSW, CDWF, CIP
2019
Welcome
How did you arrive
today?
Meet Dr. Louise
Clinician
Author
Educator
Daring Way Facillator
Women- Wife- Mother-
Grandmother
Adventurer
Objectives
Identify and describe resilience in general and resilience
in the workplace
Demonstrate 7 way bosses can boost resilience in the
workplace
Identify 5 Practices from Time Boxing-To Time Tracking
Objectives
Show How to Look & Feel like a
Winner at Work
How To Quit a Job
How to Break Up With a Bad Job
and Get Over It
Provide clinicians with cutting
edge interventions for clients
Every year an estimated 17 million
work days are loss to stress and
anxiety
Lost productivity due to staff
absence
Increased workloads for to
cover colleagues work
Higher staff turnover
1/4 of all workers report stress
Challenges in the workplace
Excessive workload
Lack of autonomy
Bullying
Organizational restructuring
Lack of managerial support or
teamwork
Job Loss
Globalism
Scope-Scale-Speed
Fixed working hours are a thing
of the past
‘Job for life’ people change jobs
frequently
New technologies demand
updated skills and expertise
24 hour availablity
Stress and burnout on the rise
82% of of all emotional health cases in EAP across
locally were found to be depression, anxiety and strep
Longitude study of 1.5 million employees in 4500
companies across 185 countries as part of the Global
Corporate Challenge found 75% of employees had
moderate to high stress problems
“THERE IS A DIRECT AND ADVERSE RELATIONSHIP
BETWEEN NEGATIVE STRESS, WELLNESS AND
PRODUCTIVITY”
Global Workplace Stress
Good Stress and Bad Stress
Not all Stress is created equally
EUDAMONIA STRESS
CAUSES of
STRESS
Resilence
The process of adapting well in the face of adversity , trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of
stress , such as family and relationship, serious health problems or workplace and financial stressors
Resilence
Make Connections
Avoid Catastrophizing
Accept Change is part of living
Move Towards your goals
Take Decisive Actions
Look for opportunities
Nurture positive viewpoint
Keep All in Perspective
Take Care of Yourself
5 Ways to Boost Your
Resilience at Work
Mindfulness at work
Multimodal Learning
Mobile learning, onsite training,
webinars o, peer to peer
Integrating mindfulness into
core talent processes such as
on boarding, manager training
Aps
Headspace
Spire
Calm
Whil
Simple Habit
Compartmentalize your
Cognitive Load
We receive 11 million bits of
information every second but
the executive center can only
effectively process 40 bits.
Serial Mono-tasking-Create
specific time periods to do
specific work related activities
Time Boxing
Take Detachment Breaks
We have ultradian (hourly)
peaks as opposed to Cicadian
daily rhythms
Mental focus, clarity, energy
&creativity cycles are usually
90-120 minutes long so step
away to reset energy
Preserve energy
Develop Mental Agility
Decenter Stressors
Decenter Stressors-Cognitively
step back -do not react-
Response Flexibility
Step Back, Reflect, Shift
Perspectives, Create Options,
Choose wisely
Linda Graham Psyd.
5 Things to do When Feel Overwhelmed
At Work
If You are Overwhelmed at work
Here are 5 Things you can do
Practice Healthy Self-Talk
Look at all you are doing right
Confidence
Be Good At What you do
Own The Confidence
Be Humble
Have integrity and Standards
Engage well with Others
Dress Appropriately - wear
Things that Fit You
Track your Time
(Single Week)
People often Over or
Underestimate
These is something many
people do
Actually tracking helps reduce
Stress
Linda Vanderkam, 168 Hours
Limit work -related activities
during non-work times
These can feel very time
consuming.objectively it may
not take long but feels like you
are scattered
Looking at my grandchild for a
few minutes gives me a sense
of quality relationships
Five minutes of uninterrupted
conversation feels more
meaningful then 10 minutes
scattered attention
Check your assumptions about
Other Peoples Expectations
Are your rules self generated?
Practice not responding to
emails after hours
Clarify Expectations with others
Let people know when you get
back with them
What is realistic for you?
Start Taking Time off instead
of waiting for the right time
Ask Yourself -“If I were more relaxed about
my workload, how would I act”
When I am less busy I create more meaningful work!
Cultivate Compassion
Stanford Universitys Center For Compassion and Care
Cultivating Compassion
at work
Research has shown that
initiatives that foster reliant and
healthy workplaces returned
$2.30 for every dollar spent -
Lower health care costs, Higher
Productivity, lower absenteeism
and decreased turnover
How Can Employers help
Employess
Encourage Physical Well being- Gyms, Lunch rooms, Smoking Cession,
Sensible Drinking
Encourage Healthy Psychological environment- Trsuting management-
trainings, provide job security, train staff in new skills, offer coaching
dealing with stress, allow autonomy for doing job, fair treatment,
reward good work, flexible hours
Provide specialist support-Occupational health, HR, Counselingf,
Physiotherapy
Promote open communication , Encourage teamwork, empathetic
managers, team days and social events, reward just for being you.
How a Boss Can Help You
Push you Beyond Your Comfort
Zone an ally during a life
change
Look after Your Well being
Demonstrate How not to Lead
Reframe Your Mistakes
How a Boss Can Help You
Fire You forcing you to find a
better role
Leading by Compassion
Giving You Undivided Attention
Championing You when its time
to Grow
How your Boss can Help You
Be Happy for others Success
Brutal Honesty
Treat you Like you have
Potential to Be a Boss
Support You Through Difficult
Times
Postscripts
How to Break Up with a Bad Job ( US News and World Report)
Breaking Up with a Job
Updating your Linked in Account is not as Troublesome
as having a Tattoo removed!
Signs of a Bad Job-You can’t Make mistakes, Boss is a
narcissist , you are walking on eggshells
Can’t concentrate, excessive drama, gossip, bullying,
sexual harassment etc
Signs of a Bad Boss
Kissing Up & Kicking Down
Publicly Belittling Others
Lashing Out in Anger
Behaving Erratically
Using Employees as Pawns
Document
Document Your Problems
Try HR
Emotionally disengage from the
office
Seek Self-Validation Elsewhere
How to Quit Your Job With
Dignity
Assess Your reasons
Finances of Company are unstable
You are ready to retire
You seek a new position, Changing
careers
Company asks you to do something
unethical
You need more time for child or elder care
You are miserable
Do Not Bad mouth anyone to HR
Decide When to Quit
Most People have
another job before
they quit
Give Advance Notice
Tell Your Boss In Person
Know the Timing
Anticipate a Counter Offer
Exit Interviews
Always Find Positives
Tie Up Loose Ends
401 K -Unused vac -sick days -Save files and contacts
Say Good Bye to Co-Workers
Finish Strong
Louise Stanger ED.d, LCSW,
CDWF
For Workplace Coaching
Call 619-507-1699
DrStanger@me.com
www.allaboutinterventions.com
Resources
https://money.usnews.com/careers/company-culture/
articles/how-to-break-up-with-a-bad-job-and-get-over-
it
https://money.usnews.com/money/careers/applying-
for-a-job/slideshows/how-to-quit-your-job
https://thriveglobal.com/stories/losing-job-layoffs-
unemployment-expert-tips-overcoming/
Resources
Resilience - Fit For Work , Friday June 17, 2017
Bosses how they can help You- Thrive Global, 2017
5 Ways to Boost Resilience at Work- Rich Fernadez-June
2016
5 Things to do when Overwhelmed by Your Workload-
Alice Boyes August 6, 2018
Appendix
What Happens if you Lose Your Job ?
FEAR
Am I able to take care of my
family?
Am I going to a keep a roof over
my head?
Will I ever get another job ?
Grief
Grief is your internal private
response to loss
Mourning is your shared
response to the world around
you
Stillness
Take a moment to acknowledge and feel your loss
Express Gratitude
The Gift of Job Loss
Urge what you have
Start a Gratitude List
What did you learn, what can
you take away
Let Go Of Resentment
Let go of something that you no
longer need
Listen to your inner wisdom
You are more Then Your Job
Meditate
Just be Silent
13 minutes a day for 8 weeks
enhances memory, creativity
and innovation
Vision
Identify
What you are good at
Core Strengths
Be Open To Learn New Things
Linked in-Coursera _General Assembly
Discover a
Mentor
Network
Success
Success is how
high you
bounce when
you hit bottom
Dr. George Patton

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How to Win and Boost Resilience at Work

  • 1. How to Win At Work Louise Stanger Ed.D, LCSW, CDWF, CIP 2019
  • 2. Welcome How did you arrive today?
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  • 5. Meet Dr. Louise Clinician Author Educator Daring Way Facillator Women- Wife- Mother- Grandmother Adventurer
  • 6. Objectives Identify and describe resilience in general and resilience in the workplace Demonstrate 7 way bosses can boost resilience in the workplace Identify 5 Practices from Time Boxing-To Time Tracking
  • 7. Objectives Show How to Look & Feel like a Winner at Work How To Quit a Job How to Break Up With a Bad Job and Get Over It Provide clinicians with cutting edge interventions for clients
  • 8. Every year an estimated 17 million work days are loss to stress and anxiety Lost productivity due to staff absence Increased workloads for to cover colleagues work Higher staff turnover 1/4 of all workers report stress
  • 9. Challenges in the workplace Excessive workload Lack of autonomy Bullying Organizational restructuring Lack of managerial support or teamwork Job Loss
  • 10. Globalism Scope-Scale-Speed Fixed working hours are a thing of the past ‘Job for life’ people change jobs frequently New technologies demand updated skills and expertise 24 hour availablity Stress and burnout on the rise
  • 11. 82% of of all emotional health cases in EAP across locally were found to be depression, anxiety and strep Longitude study of 1.5 million employees in 4500 companies across 185 countries as part of the Global Corporate Challenge found 75% of employees had moderate to high stress problems “THERE IS A DIRECT AND ADVERSE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN NEGATIVE STRESS, WELLNESS AND PRODUCTIVITY” Global Workplace Stress
  • 12. Good Stress and Bad Stress Not all Stress is created equally
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  • 16. Resilence The process of adapting well in the face of adversity , trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress , such as family and relationship, serious health problems or workplace and financial stressors
  • 17. Resilence Make Connections Avoid Catastrophizing Accept Change is part of living Move Towards your goals Take Decisive Actions Look for opportunities Nurture positive viewpoint Keep All in Perspective Take Care of Yourself
  • 18. 5 Ways to Boost Your Resilience at Work
  • 19. Mindfulness at work Multimodal Learning Mobile learning, onsite training, webinars o, peer to peer Integrating mindfulness into core talent processes such as on boarding, manager training
  • 21. Compartmentalize your Cognitive Load We receive 11 million bits of information every second but the executive center can only effectively process 40 bits. Serial Mono-tasking-Create specific time periods to do specific work related activities Time Boxing
  • 22. Take Detachment Breaks We have ultradian (hourly) peaks as opposed to Cicadian daily rhythms Mental focus, clarity, energy &creativity cycles are usually 90-120 minutes long so step away to reset energy Preserve energy
  • 23. Develop Mental Agility Decenter Stressors Decenter Stressors-Cognitively step back -do not react- Response Flexibility Step Back, Reflect, Shift Perspectives, Create Options, Choose wisely Linda Graham Psyd.
  • 24. 5 Things to do When Feel Overwhelmed At Work
  • 25. If You are Overwhelmed at work Here are 5 Things you can do
  • 26. Practice Healthy Self-Talk Look at all you are doing right
  • 27. Confidence Be Good At What you do Own The Confidence Be Humble Have integrity and Standards Engage well with Others Dress Appropriately - wear Things that Fit You
  • 28. Track your Time (Single Week) People often Over or Underestimate These is something many people do Actually tracking helps reduce Stress Linda Vanderkam, 168 Hours
  • 29. Limit work -related activities during non-work times These can feel very time consuming.objectively it may not take long but feels like you are scattered Looking at my grandchild for a few minutes gives me a sense of quality relationships Five minutes of uninterrupted conversation feels more meaningful then 10 minutes scattered attention
  • 30. Check your assumptions about Other Peoples Expectations Are your rules self generated? Practice not responding to emails after hours Clarify Expectations with others Let people know when you get back with them What is realistic for you?
  • 31. Start Taking Time off instead of waiting for the right time
  • 32. Ask Yourself -“If I were more relaxed about my workload, how would I act” When I am less busy I create more meaningful work!
  • 33. Cultivate Compassion Stanford Universitys Center For Compassion and Care
  • 34. Cultivating Compassion at work Research has shown that initiatives that foster reliant and healthy workplaces returned $2.30 for every dollar spent - Lower health care costs, Higher Productivity, lower absenteeism and decreased turnover
  • 35. How Can Employers help Employess Encourage Physical Well being- Gyms, Lunch rooms, Smoking Cession, Sensible Drinking Encourage Healthy Psychological environment- Trsuting management- trainings, provide job security, train staff in new skills, offer coaching dealing with stress, allow autonomy for doing job, fair treatment, reward good work, flexible hours Provide specialist support-Occupational health, HR, Counselingf, Physiotherapy Promote open communication , Encourage teamwork, empathetic managers, team days and social events, reward just for being you.
  • 36. How a Boss Can Help You Push you Beyond Your Comfort Zone an ally during a life change Look after Your Well being Demonstrate How not to Lead Reframe Your Mistakes
  • 37. How a Boss Can Help You Fire You forcing you to find a better role Leading by Compassion Giving You Undivided Attention Championing You when its time to Grow
  • 38. How your Boss can Help You Be Happy for others Success Brutal Honesty Treat you Like you have Potential to Be a Boss Support You Through Difficult Times
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  • 40. Postscripts How to Break Up with a Bad Job ( US News and World Report)
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  • 42. Breaking Up with a Job Updating your Linked in Account is not as Troublesome as having a Tattoo removed! Signs of a Bad Job-You can’t Make mistakes, Boss is a narcissist , you are walking on eggshells Can’t concentrate, excessive drama, gossip, bullying, sexual harassment etc
  • 43. Signs of a Bad Boss Kissing Up & Kicking Down Publicly Belittling Others Lashing Out in Anger Behaving Erratically Using Employees as Pawns
  • 44. Document Document Your Problems Try HR Emotionally disengage from the office Seek Self-Validation Elsewhere
  • 45. How to Quit Your Job With Dignity Assess Your reasons Finances of Company are unstable You are ready to retire You seek a new position, Changing careers Company asks you to do something unethical You need more time for child or elder care You are miserable Do Not Bad mouth anyone to HR
  • 46. Decide When to Quit Most People have another job before they quit
  • 48. Tell Your Boss In Person Know the Timing
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  • 52. Tie Up Loose Ends 401 K -Unused vac -sick days -Save files and contacts
  • 53. Say Good Bye to Co-Workers
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  • 56. Louise Stanger ED.d, LCSW, CDWF For Workplace Coaching Call 619-507-1699 DrStanger@me.com www.allaboutinterventions.com
  • 58. Resources Resilience - Fit For Work , Friday June 17, 2017 Bosses how they can help You- Thrive Global, 2017 5 Ways to Boost Resilience at Work- Rich Fernadez-June 2016 5 Things to do when Overwhelmed by Your Workload- Alice Boyes August 6, 2018
  • 59. Appendix What Happens if you Lose Your Job ?
  • 60. FEAR Am I able to take care of my family? Am I going to a keep a roof over my head? Will I ever get another job ?
  • 61. Grief Grief is your internal private response to loss Mourning is your shared response to the world around you
  • 62. Stillness Take a moment to acknowledge and feel your loss
  • 63. Express Gratitude The Gift of Job Loss Urge what you have Start a Gratitude List What did you learn, what can you take away
  • 64. Let Go Of Resentment Let go of something that you no longer need Listen to your inner wisdom
  • 65. You are more Then Your Job Meditate
  • 66. Just be Silent 13 minutes a day for 8 weeks enhances memory, creativity and innovation
  • 68. Identify What you are good at Core Strengths
  • 69. Be Open To Learn New Things Linked in-Coursera _General Assembly
  • 72. Success Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom Dr. George Patton