This workshop focuses entirely on how the audience can change their attitude about anything in life.
I focus on looking at events, people, situations, in different ways to yield different results!
31. “If you continue to do what
you’ve always done…
You will continue to get
what you’ve always
got!”
Tony Robbins
Notes de l'éditeur
(new slide) Introduce Myself Homeless 7 th grade dropout Masters degree in Org Management Director at PADI for 18yrs Own two houses My own business = I KNOW what it takes to set and achieve goals We’re going to pack A LOT into this short time of 45mins so hang on!!!
If you do drugs etc., then chances are your results will show negatively If you feed your mind with bullshit and listen to the negativity in the news and all around us…then your attitude will show it
Who could REALLY use one million dollars right now? I was talking with one of my clients the other day who has been really down and out, and I said “Would a million dollars make everything alright?” He said yeah, and I said what would you be willing to trade for it? How about your eyesight? How about just $500,000 for your hearing? Legs? Morale: You wake up a millionaire every single morning and you don’t even realize it!
Self-Fulfilling prophecies Limiting beliefs What you focus on you get more of
How you react/respond to a given situation will result in your attitude You come to group and have a bad attitude People sense it and push your buttons (BTW – there will always be button pushers in your life) You react You get into trouble You get even madder Get into more trouble Do drugs to escape More trouble Addictions You feel bad Short term escape (feel good) Feel worse for having done it Do it again to escape feeling bad, but need a little more Feel even worse Do it again Repeat Seen it with food, drugs, alcohol,
Elephant story We get attention Based on the programming we let get into our belief systems
Share what has changed since the last two presentations for you?
People want to talk and get what they want whether it’s sympathy or something else. When you listen, and understand, until they are done, then, they are out of steam and will listen to you Sometimes you have to agree to disagree – people are entitled to their opinions It’s also like saying “Win the battle or lose the war”
People want to talk and get what they want whether it’s sympathy or something else. When you listen, and understand, until they are done, then, they are out of steam and will listen to you When we react, we say and do things out of frustration. We tend to attack and that puts people on the defensive. So, they attack back (Fight or flight) We only hurt ourselves
Don’t take things personally (QTIP) Don’t let other people control how you feel!!! Everything is not always about us
Self-Fulfilling prophecies Limiting beliefs What you focus on you get more of
Dreams/Nightmares you thought were real? Body doesn’t know real reality versus perceived reality
Elephant story We get attention Based on the programming we let get into our belief systems