First of all I want to say sorry for the pain that you’re feeling right now. I know when I was in your position…telling a friend my wife says she loves me but is not in love with me…it truly hurt, and was devastating. And when I say that it hurts it’s because I personally KNOW that it hurts, because I’ve been there before. The funny thing was...

1. My Wife Says She Loves Me But Is Not In Love With
Me – 3 Things NOT to Do When That Happens!
First of all I want to say sorry for the pain that you’re feeling right
now. I know when I was in your position…telling a friend my wife
says she loves me but is not in love with me…it truly hurt, and
was devastating. And when I say that it hurts it’s because I
personally KNOW that it hurts, because I’ve been there before.
The funny thing was that I wasn’t shocked to hear this, but it still
hurt. My marriage was suffering at the time already, and I had a
pretty good feeling that she wasn’t feeling too many happy
thoughts or feelings about me… but it still knocked the wind out of
me a bit.
So what do you do when you hear something like this? What do
you do when you get basically socked in the stomach by the person
that you thought was closest to you in the world?
Well, frankly not much. There’s not much that you can do actually.
But many men will make the mistake and do a lot of things that
they shouldn’t do which makes the situation worse. Since you
don’t want to make that mistake here are…
3 Things I Shouldn’t Do When My Wife Says She Loves Me
But Is Not In Love With Me!
First… Don’t panic!
What? Yes you read that right, don’t go getting all panicky and
screw things up worse for yourself. First of all, who knows if she
even meant it? People say things that they don’t mean all the time
when they’re angry, or hurt, or sad.

2. I mean think about it, if she said “I hate you” would you really
believe her? Maybe, but probably not!
What if she does mean it? Well then you have to take a step back
and see it for what it is. She loves you – that’s still something.
She’s not in love with you. Maybe it’s not great, but the thing is
people fall in and out of love all of the time with each other.
Are you always “In Love” with your wife? And what does that
even mean? If you really think about it, you probably will realize
that you’re truly not!
I once was watching a show where they interviewed an older
couple, and asked them the secret of their successfully long
marriage. And the interviewer asked how did you two never fall
out of love after 50 years (it may have been more actually).
The wife just laughed and responded with “Oh we did fall out of
love with each other, we just never happened to both do it at the
same time”. So it happens in the best and longest of marriages, but
you just have to consider the fact that you’re still “in love” with
your wife because you went searching for an article like the one
you’re reading now.
Second… Don’t get angry about this and start fighting. Very
often when we get our feelings hurt (I know at least I do) we get
angry, and want to hurt back. This may have happened already, but
don’t carry that on. If it hasn’t happened then don’t let it, because
it WILL NOT do anything but make the matter worse. Trust me on
that.
There’s no quicker way to make someone fall even more out of
love with you than to try to hurt them and be mean to them. It’s not
going to solve anything, even though you probably very much feel

3. like retaliating in this way. It’s natural, it’s human, but fight it as
much as you can. But that being said, pay very close attention…
Third… Don’t Become a Blubbering Idiot and Start Kissing
Her Butt… A lot of men have gone their entire lives kissing the
butt of the women that they wanted positive attention from.
It seems logical but that’s the last thing that you should do.
Looking needy and like a big whiney sissy isn’t going to do
anything but push her away more.
You sort of have to man up here, and well...ignore her. Give her
some space.
I know that you’re thinking “When my wife says she loves me but
is not in love with me anymore, the last thing that I want to be
doing is playing games”. And you’re completely right, but it’s
actually not a game, it’s just the best way to handle the situation.
To be honest, your marriage may have simply lost a bit of the
intrigue that it once had. The sense of uncertainty (a natural human
NEED) may not be there anymore. Sometimes you have to give a
person the chance to see what they’re missing.
This doesn’t mean to be mean to her, give her a cold shoulder,
nothing like that. Just don’t slobber all over her, and give her
space. I can’t guarantee it, but there’s a good chance that when she
sees that you’re not begging on your knees for her to love you, that
she’ll come back around very quickly.
Now here’s the important part. Your marriage is in this position for
a reason. It didn’t just happen to get to this point. But right now,
going after traditional marriage counseling is likely not going to
work, and frankly your wife probably wouldn’t respond well to it
anyways.

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