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How Jiu Jitsu
made me a better
Coach
- Martin Kearns – Chief Digital Officer –
Innodev
A little bit of my past
For a long time I felt stupid !
The impact Dementia has had on my life
Getting a Big Head
What makes a black-belt agilist
is not someone who can
regurgitate what other people
have written about, but
someone who can invent new
ideas in the same family, and
then work through to success.
And that is why I introduce
Martin as a black-belt agilist.
Dr. Alistair Cockburn.
Karate and Kids
I was hot back then
You simply MUST get better at the boring
logistics side of things. Start looking at a
watch again!!!
That former athlete who can't bear to see
a watch nonsense is the biggest load of
crap I've ever heard.
If, during a retro, someone fed a similar
excuse to you as a reason not to respond
to repeated feedback, you'd be all over
them like a rash!!!
(and you know who wrote this...with love).
Try Something Different
Self Awareness
Is my responsibility
and I need to manage
keeping it.
Have a more open mind
on how to look.
Past mistakes are poor indicators for
what the future holds and what we
need to look out for.
Build some
Good Habits
Habit grow fast
when repeated in a
predictable way.
I need to
monitor
Build the picture on
how I present myself
Stop looking
for a finish
line
Understand the
complexity of the
problem and
environmental
shifts.
Exec Summary Report
Don’t allow coaching to become a habit
Shape a new habit mindfully to build
the behaviours required for coaching.
This is the face of failure
I need to
monitor
Build the picture on
how I present myself
Once a habit is in
place it is
effortless to
maintain.
Habits Conserve our Self Control
Effortless
No DecisionRecurrent
Build self-awareness into a Mental Model
What is
essential to me
to remember ?
Have an
Intent
What’s the
point
Keep to
core
values
How is what I
am
introducing
going to help
me see
differently ?
How does this
reflect who I
want to be ?
Customer Perceptions
I want to focus on the Customer opportunities that are presenting
themselves to me in my role and how agile methods and my mindset
being aligned to turn opportunity into value.
Coach’s Observation
As a relationship matures, coaches will gain greater insight into the
coachee’s learning cycle and how to monitor progress against ambition.
Sometimes different approaches can be the next best step.
Other Perspectives
There is a vast number of reference points for transformation work.
At times there is a need for a coachee to anchor the conversation in
data or surface new perspective by answering tailored open questions.
Other
Perspectives
Coach’s
Observation
Customer
Perception
Challenging
the System
Challenging the System
Ultimately the goal of transformation is to provide value to the
customer, relating change to performance and address the
fundamental constraints / impediments / velocity requires focus and
active measurement.
Build a Coaching Compass
Build some
Good Habits
Habit grow fast
when repeated in a
predictable way.
Rolling with a Brown Belt
My Bad Habit : Procrastinating
When to start
Unfixed HabitFixed Habit
Waiting for the
”right” time is
usually just
justifying a delay
Is this really a problem ?
Am I Conscious ?
Yes No
Requires more focus
and energy in
decision making and
adjustment
By continuously doing with consistency
and repetition I will reach a point where
no decision is needed. This has become
natural and is comforting to who I am.
It still feels like this
Self Awareness
Is my responsibility
and I need to manage
keeping it.
I think to often as coaches / leaders we
sweep past mistakes under the carpet,
deflecting to things we didn’t know at the
time.
Convinced we will get it right this time,
without ever learning what we are doing
wrong. Re-creating the problems of our past.
6
3
2
1
5
4
Look at the big picture
through the lens of small
steps will give me the
motivation to keep going
Many tools are
required to
maintain a
growth mindset.
Don’t become
prescriptive in
how to change.
Tell people about
what you have
learned and are
willing to try.
Knowledge helps
us understand
what works for us
Self-Encouragement
is better that Self-
Blame
Direct Feedback
needs to be heard
no followed
blindly
Create your own space
Build your
awareness
Stop looking for that finish line
Stop looking
for a finish
line
Understand the
complexity of the
problem and
environmental
shifts.
When we Coach
Each time we must navigate
unchartered paths filled with social
rules we don’t understand.
Common Sense
Cause us to put to much faith in
how to solve a problem and we
reframe to suit our dominant logic
Emergence
Collective understanding creeps up
on you over time by retaining a
holistic picture to the problem.
There is no common sense to Coaching
Problem
Commitment
Competence
Contradictory
Beliefs
System
Conditions
Under an illusion of understanding we will
develop a lacking in the motivation
required to address the problem.
Maintain a Coaching Performance Log
http://ipcco.co/employee-coaching-log-template/
Our mindset when dealing with complexity we have a tendency to
ignore certain type of factors that turn out be important.
Have a more open
mind on how to look.
Past mistakes are poor
indicators for what the future
holds and what we need to look
out for.
No method will ever be replicated as told. However attention to
detail in learning is helpful if you want to implement effectively.
Rolling to the holistic flow of learning
Macro: Chaining, traps, strategy
MICRO: METHOD, DETAIL, TECHNIQUE
Learning technique is nothing like practice
Implementing under the stress of a situation is the key to building resilience
The micro / macro roll to coaching
Macro: Organisation Problem
MICRO: INDIVIDUAL PROBLEM
Learning the methods and/or reasoning of the person
Does not mean that the understanding of Culture, Social Dynamics,
Meme of groups can be inferred.
Whatever liberates our spirit whilst on the path to mastery
over ourselves is constructive and must be embraced.
References for my Keynote
 How BJJ made me a better coach

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How BJJ made me a better coach

  • 1.
  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. How Jiu Jitsu made me a better Coach - Martin Kearns – Chief Digital Officer – Innodev
  • 5. A little bit of my past
  • 6. For a long time I felt stupid !
  • 7. The impact Dementia has had on my life
  • 8. Getting a Big Head What makes a black-belt agilist is not someone who can regurgitate what other people have written about, but someone who can invent new ideas in the same family, and then work through to success. And that is why I introduce Martin as a black-belt agilist. Dr. Alistair Cockburn.
  • 10. I was hot back then You simply MUST get better at the boring logistics side of things. Start looking at a watch again!!! That former athlete who can't bear to see a watch nonsense is the biggest load of crap I've ever heard. If, during a retro, someone fed a similar excuse to you as a reason not to respond to repeated feedback, you'd be all over them like a rash!!! (and you know who wrote this...with love).
  • 12.
  • 13. Self Awareness Is my responsibility and I need to manage keeping it. Have a more open mind on how to look. Past mistakes are poor indicators for what the future holds and what we need to look out for. Build some Good Habits Habit grow fast when repeated in a predictable way. I need to monitor Build the picture on how I present myself Stop looking for a finish line Understand the complexity of the problem and environmental shifts. Exec Summary Report
  • 14. Don’t allow coaching to become a habit Shape a new habit mindfully to build the behaviours required for coaching.
  • 15. This is the face of failure
  • 16. I need to monitor Build the picture on how I present myself
  • 17. Once a habit is in place it is effortless to maintain. Habits Conserve our Self Control Effortless No DecisionRecurrent
  • 18. Build self-awareness into a Mental Model What is essential to me to remember ? Have an Intent What’s the point Keep to core values How is what I am introducing going to help me see differently ? How does this reflect who I want to be ?
  • 19. Customer Perceptions I want to focus on the Customer opportunities that are presenting themselves to me in my role and how agile methods and my mindset being aligned to turn opportunity into value. Coach’s Observation As a relationship matures, coaches will gain greater insight into the coachee’s learning cycle and how to monitor progress against ambition. Sometimes different approaches can be the next best step. Other Perspectives There is a vast number of reference points for transformation work. At times there is a need for a coachee to anchor the conversation in data or surface new perspective by answering tailored open questions. Other Perspectives Coach’s Observation Customer Perception Challenging the System Challenging the System Ultimately the goal of transformation is to provide value to the customer, relating change to performance and address the fundamental constraints / impediments / velocity requires focus and active measurement. Build a Coaching Compass
  • 20. Build some Good Habits Habit grow fast when repeated in a predictable way.
  • 21. Rolling with a Brown Belt
  • 22. My Bad Habit : Procrastinating When to start Unfixed HabitFixed Habit Waiting for the ”right” time is usually just justifying a delay Is this really a problem ? Am I Conscious ? Yes No Requires more focus and energy in decision making and adjustment By continuously doing with consistency and repetition I will reach a point where no decision is needed. This has become natural and is comforting to who I am.
  • 23. It still feels like this
  • 24. Self Awareness Is my responsibility and I need to manage keeping it.
  • 25. I think to often as coaches / leaders we sweep past mistakes under the carpet, deflecting to things we didn’t know at the time. Convinced we will get it right this time, without ever learning what we are doing wrong. Re-creating the problems of our past.
  • 26. 6 3 2 1 5 4 Look at the big picture through the lens of small steps will give me the motivation to keep going Many tools are required to maintain a growth mindset. Don’t become prescriptive in how to change. Tell people about what you have learned and are willing to try. Knowledge helps us understand what works for us Self-Encouragement is better that Self- Blame Direct Feedback needs to be heard no followed blindly Create your own space Build your awareness
  • 27.
  • 28. Stop looking for that finish line
  • 29. Stop looking for a finish line Understand the complexity of the problem and environmental shifts.
  • 30.
  • 31. When we Coach Each time we must navigate unchartered paths filled with social rules we don’t understand. Common Sense Cause us to put to much faith in how to solve a problem and we reframe to suit our dominant logic Emergence Collective understanding creeps up on you over time by retaining a holistic picture to the problem. There is no common sense to Coaching Problem Commitment Competence Contradictory Beliefs System Conditions
  • 32. Under an illusion of understanding we will develop a lacking in the motivation required to address the problem.
  • 33. Maintain a Coaching Performance Log http://ipcco.co/employee-coaching-log-template/ Our mindset when dealing with complexity we have a tendency to ignore certain type of factors that turn out be important.
  • 34.
  • 35. Have a more open mind on how to look. Past mistakes are poor indicators for what the future holds and what we need to look out for.
  • 36.
  • 37. No method will ever be replicated as told. However attention to detail in learning is helpful if you want to implement effectively.
  • 38. Rolling to the holistic flow of learning Macro: Chaining, traps, strategy MICRO: METHOD, DETAIL, TECHNIQUE Learning technique is nothing like practice Implementing under the stress of a situation is the key to building resilience
  • 39. The micro / macro roll to coaching Macro: Organisation Problem MICRO: INDIVIDUAL PROBLEM Learning the methods and/or reasoning of the person Does not mean that the understanding of Culture, Social Dynamics, Meme of groups can be inferred.
  • 40. Whatever liberates our spirit whilst on the path to mastery over ourselves is constructive and must be embraced.
  • 41. References for my Keynote