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Resiliency for Life
With Michael Ballard
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
1. to bounce back.
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
2. the capacity to recover from difficulties; toughness, tenacity, flexibility.
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
3. the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity.
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
My Definition
4. The ability to change the quality of our experience
to create more positive experiences and outcomes.
Lessen the pain. Increase the positives in the journey.
But…
How do we get more of it?
What does that look like?
Here is a tour into The Land of Resiliency
for your consideration.
Resiliency for Life
Here is a tour using our introductory model of the Resiliency process.
Resiliency for Life
Resiliency for Life
Bitter — Better Line
Resiliency for Life
X
X
X
Boom! Oh~Oh! BIGStuff Happens
X
Shrink Stretch
X
BIGStuff Happens
X
Shrink Stretch
X
BIGStuff Happens
X
Shrink Stretch
X
BIGStuff Happens
Shrink Stretch
X
BIGStuff Happens
Impact includes:
Rational
Physical
Emotional
What else?
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery
Defending
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not good
Live here is key
Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not good
Live here is key
HOW?
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Bitter Better
Key Factors
Awareness
Skills
Support
Understand the Process
Practice and Use Skills
Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch
X
Bitter Better
Key Factors
Awareness
Skills
Language Choices
Support
Understand the Process
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Live in past or future? Live in present
Process
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Live in past or future? Live in present
Process
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Live in past or future? Live in present
Process
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Live in past or future? Live in present
Process
ReActive Thinking/Feeling ~ Active Thinking/Feeling
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal Live here is key
Process
ReActive Thinking/Feeling ~ Active Thinking/Feeling
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not so
good in short term
Live here is key
Process
Threatened ~ Opportunity
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter
Lack of wisdom
Does not always
equal lack of
knowledge but of
application.
What blocks you?
Better
Wisdom =
Knowledge Learned
& Applied
What builds you?
Visit here normal
Live here in the long
term we can feel trapped
Life can get ugly!
Live this way is goal
Process
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus
What hurts?
(Past / Future)
Focus
What am I missing?
Next steps?
(Present)
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Normal Range
Of being human
What type of behaviour builds or tears our resiliency
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Floppy / Relation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Increased Range
of Resilience
Less F-3’s
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Increased F+3’s
Floppy / Relaxation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Resisting
Avoiding
Assuming Outward
Demanding
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
Acceptance
Yielding
Observing Inward / Outward
Cruising (Time Out)
Implementing / Innovating /
Delegating
Follow Up / Tune Up
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit -
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit -
Looking to understand includes
What are your:
- types of intelligence
- personality styles
- problem solving & creativity skills
- self
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
How did we get here?
What keeps us here?
Normal Range
How do we achieve this?
What helps keep us here?
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
How did we get here?
What keeps us here?
Normal Range
How do we achieve this?
What helps keep us here?
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
How did we get here?
What keeps us here?
Normal Range
How do we achieve this?
What helps keep us here?

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