6. What is stress?
Feeling of being under too much
mental or emotional pressure
The adverse reaction people have
to excessive pressure or other types
of demands placed on them
7. Signs and Symptoms of
Stress
Signs: What you can see in yourself
and others
Symptoms: subjective experience-
what you feel
9. Performance Changes
Difficulty in
concentrating
Failure to prioritize
Putting things off
Loss of confidence
Antagonism towards
senior colleagues
Isolation
Reduced quality or
quantity of work
Absenteeism
Time keeping issues
Poor performance
10. Cause of stress at work?
Limiting beliefs
Not leaving the Comfort zone
Poor Time Management
Competition and change
Uncertainty
Being in the wrong job
11. Cause of stress at work?
Unreasonable Deadlines
Change in working practices
Personality Clashes
Office politics
Not able to meet the target
Downsizing
14. Limiting Beliefs
Belief: A thought not necessarily a
fact
Related to person’s values
can be learnt, accepted, experienced
or changed
Influence your perception, judgment
against any situation
15. Limiting Beliefs
Core Beliefs
Established from childhood
learnt from parents or
Other significant people around us
Influence our behavior
16. Limiting Beliefs
Can cause a tremendous
amount of stress and hold us
back from being who and what
we would like to be.
17. Common Limiting Beliefs
I can’t do that ….
I have to eat everything on my plate
Taking time for myself is selfish
I’m too fat/not fir enough to go to the gym
I can’t do it as well as others can
I must be the perfect BDE
I don’t like to say NO, its not nice
I need
cigarettes/chocolates/caffeine/alcohol/drugs
to get me through it/help me to relax
18. Belief- I don’t have a chance of
Becoming a Trader (self talk-negative)
No point of making calls
I know what will happen
It is very difficult
My health is affecting
because I am worried
Zero result
I prove my belief to myself
19. Belief: I have the potential to become
a trader (self talk-Positive)
I work and enjoy because
there is purpose to it
I can see my dream coming
true
I am more confident
I put my full attention
I meet the target
I prove my belief to myself
20. Personal Stressors
Unrealistic Expectations we
have of ourselves- Life scripts :
fixed beliefs of how are lives
should be
Comes from direct instructions,
by modeling behaviors to us, by
rewarding certain behaviors
21. 5 Main Personal Stressors
Need to be perfect
Have to be strong
Always be helpful
Should be stubborn
Must be busy
22. Religious Quotes
"Verily Allah does not change men's
condition unless they change their
inner selves" (Quran 13:11)
TIE YOUR CAMEL
23. Religious Quotes
“Cast your burden upon the Lord:
and he will sustain you; He will
never allow the righteous to be
shaken.”(psalm 55:22)
“Cast your all anxiety on Him
because He cares for You.”
(1Peter5:7)
25. Fight, Flight or Freeze?
Survival Mechanism –When your body goes
into these states, changes happen automatically
in your body
26. Fight, Flight or Freeze?
Fight or flight response
– Stimuli from senses are sent to the
brain
– Brain deciphers it as a threat or not
– If threat, body systems are activated
for defense or escape, and stay
activated until threat is over
– Body returns to homeostasis
Same response
– Whether threat is real or imagined
– Whether physical threat, or threat to
the ego
27.
28. Signs of Adrenal Stress and
fatigue
You might find it hard to get up in
the morning
Takes longer to complete every day
tasks
Forgetful and unable to concentrate
Need stimulants to get you through
the day
29. Signs of Adrenal Stress and fatigue
Feeling tired and lack of energy
even after lots of sleep
Poor immune system
Impatient
Craving salty foods
30. Types of stress
Eustress or Good Stress
– Good stress from motivating or
inspiring situations
Neustress or neutral stress
– Stimuli that have no consequential
effect
Distress or Bad Stress
– Nick name “stress,” includes acute and
chronic stress
31. Why do we care
if we’re stressed?
Stress can help, or hinder our
performance
Between 70 and 80% of all disease
and illness is stress-related
33. Stress vs Performance
Excess stress › Poor performance
› Dysfunctional
behaviour
› Health problems
› High performance
› Job satisfaction
› Involvement
› Optimum
performance
› Poor performance
› Dysfunctional
behaviour
› Health problems
Too little stress
Moderate stress
34.
35. You may not be able to smooth out the
surf,
but you can learn to ride
the waves!
36. Manage your Stress Through…
Recognition: Understand reactions
to stress
Thinking Strategies: Managing
your mental state
Health, Exercise and Relaxation
Integration of Strategies
37. Thinking Strategies
“Begin challenging your own
assumptions. Your assumptions are
your windows on the world. Scrub
them off every once in a while, or
the light wont come in.”
Alan Alda
38. Thinking Strategies
Selective Perception
The compounding Process
Filtering process
Manage your emotions
Positive Beliefs/Affirmations
41. Health Facts & Benefits
60% of all world deaths are related to poor diets,
with people consuming high amounts of salt and
sugar.
It is estimated that 30% to 40% of cancers could
be prevented with better diet.
Eating healthy strengthened immune system
Increased concentration and mental clarity
Stabilizing hormones and mood swings
42. Hydrate your body through drinking
water at least 12-16 glass of water
daily.
Eat more fruits and vegetables
Eat essential fats: Unsalted Nuts,
oily fish- tuna, trout salmamon
Eat less meat approx 4% of daily
consumption
48. Time management
Roadblocks
– Workaholics
– Multitasking
– Procrastination
– Perfectionism
– Can’t-say-no
Myths about time
management
– Time is adjustable,
not fixed
– Time-management
techniques do not
work
– Being organized is
boring – longing for
the rush of crisis
49. Skills of time management
Prioritizing
Scheduling
Execution
Managing
interruptions
Allowing for personal
time each day
Organization
Decision-making
Delegation
50. Summary and Tips to Beat Stress
Recognition
Beliefs & Attitudes
Positive self Talk
Embrace Change
Analyze your current
position and desired
position
Healthy eating and
hydration
Exercise
Breathe
Seek help
Manage your time
Take good Sleep
Make a Plan, take
action
Notes de l'éditeur
Perceived (Hawaii example, page 5)
Bioecological triggers (seasonal affective disorder)
Psychointrapersonal influences (most of our stressors – the thoughts, values, beliefs, attitudes, and perceptions that we hold and use)
Social influences (overcrowding, socioeconomics)
Think of a dill pickle
Think of chewing on aluminum foil
Think of nails on a chalkboard
Eustress
Good stress from motivating or inspiring situations (falling in love)
Stress can help, or hinder our performance (Yerkes-Dodson Curve, page 7)
Understand the mental and physical reactions to perceived stress
Using several coping techniques to resolve the causes of stress
Regular practice of relaxation techniques
Regular evaluation of the effectiveness of coping and relaxation
Social engineering (following a path of least resistance without avoidance; reorganize and manipulate factors and elements in the environment to your best advantage)
Primary purpose is to intercept the stress response and return the body and the mind to physiological homeostasis
Mental imagery and visualization (examples from page 365)
Music therapy (play Fanfare for the Common man)
Time management
Defined as the ability to prioritize, schedule, and execute responsibilities to personal satisfaction