2. Why do you do what you do?
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3. You love what you do.
You’re good at what you do.
You enjoy the process.
You enjoy making money.
You want to help stylists like you.
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It’s insulting to call a
professional talented. She’s
skilled…Skill is rarer than
talent. Skill is earned. Skill
is available to anyone who
cares enough.”
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Seth Godin
17. Belief in “talent” is limited and
linear.
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If you believe only talent matters, you
may not work as hard to develop skill.
You also may be threatened by others
who do.
18. Also…if talent is “fixed,” why would I pay
you more for it?
We don’t pay for talent. We pay for
what someone’s skill yields us.
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The linchpins among us are
not the ones born with a
magical talent…they…have
decided that a new kind of
work is important, and
trained themselves to do it.
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Seth Godin, Linchpin
23. How have you…
…improved or evolved as a professional
…upleveled your skill beyond just the basics?
…demonstrated demand through reach/
influence?
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52. • Reported notably and significantly
higher life and job satisfaction
• Ranked work satisfaction
significantly higher
• Missed fewer days of work
Those who see their work as a “Calling”
Jobs, Careers, and Callings: People’s Relations to Their Work, A. Wrzesniewski et al.
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53. Is it just about money or rank?
Nope.
Jobs, Careers, and Callings: People’s Relations to Their Work, A. Wrzesniewski et al.
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54. Satisfaction with life and with
work may be more dependent on
how an employee
sees her work.
Jobs, Careers, and Callings: People’s Relations to Their Work, A. Wrzesniewski et al.
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62. I’ve used this particular workshop approach
for…
at L’Oreal, Google, Wells Fargo, and more
entrepreneurs
writers financial advisors
admin staff
Plus, top executives and teams
Creatives
consultants
authors
therapists
Speakers
66. How to write
to a prompt.
Listen to what comes up,
write it down.
Think small, detailed,
something we can see or
feel.
Write about any scene,
moment, from any time in
your life.
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What’s your favorite way to
give a gift?
• Pick out something unique to that person
• Find or make one amazing thing and give
it to all your friends/family
• Go in on a big gift for someone with a
group
• Plan an excursion, trip, or experience
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Which feels like the closest metaphor for
how you like to share your work:
• A solo performance
• A series of albums
• A broadway show
• An improv show
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What’s your favorite part of
planning, crafting, making?
• Doing it in on my own
• Collaborating with others to plan a thing
• Fanfare around the presentation
• Creating on the fly, in real time, and often
with others, somewhat informally
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I shine most when I am…
• On stage and in the spotlight
• Shining the spotlight on someone else
• In a 1:1 conversation
• Playing the role of host and connector
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What’s your favorite way
to communicate?
• Writing cards and letters
• Sending emails
• Texting
• DM thru Instagram, FB, etc
• Video apps (like Marco Polo)
109. When you see yourself as a business,
you…
• Lead with service, instead of need
• Become more objective about your work
• Think bigger
• Grow your earnings
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110. This is my friend Ilise Benun.
Ilise treats her business like a lab
for her own personal development.
111. This is my friend Ilise Benun.
She sees business as a form of self-
care—because it can take care of
you.
112. What if you used your work to…
• Try things out
• Take risks
• Explore connection
• Fuel the passion you already have
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115. There is no absolute
dollar amount for
what you’re worth as
a person.
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116. My mother thinks I’m
worth 100 million
trillion dollars.
(But that’s not what I
charge.)
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117. Hair styling is a commodity.
You are not.
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118. You can’t force a client to
value your work the way
you do. You can only seek,
and hopefully find, the
clients who do value what
you do.”
Ilise Benun
“
119. Value itself is both
subjective and
subject to change.”
Ilise Benun
“
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Artists are people with a
genius of finding a new
answer, a new connection,
or a new way of getting
things done. That would be
you.
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Seth Godin, Linchpin
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The only way to get what
you’re worth is to stand
out, to exert emotional
labor, to be seen as
indispensable, and to
produce interactions that
organizations and people
care deeply about.”
“
Seth Godin, Linchpin