“Love” can brighten our world, but at the same time, it can also turn our lives blue. Many people are facing sleep deprivation because of lovesick or love-struck.
They cannot shut their eyes, heart, and brain. They stay up all night and think of someone; one who break their heart or one who they fell in love with.
Sleep deprivation caused by love problems harms people both mentality and physically which sometimes results in depression, fluctuations in weight, and memory loss.
If we cannot hold our heart from loving someone, how we can solve our sleep deprivation. It’s hard right? Don’t worry. We have solutions for love versus sleep!
2. “Love” can brighten our world, but at the same time, it
can also turn our lives blue. Many people are facing sleep
deprivation because of lovesick or love-struck.
They cannot shut their eyes, heart, and brain. They stay
up all night and think of someone; one who break their
heart or one who they fell in love with.
Sleep deprivation caused by love problems harms people
both mentality and physically which sometimes results in
depression, fluctuations in weight, and memory loss.
If we cannot hold our heart from loving someone, how we
can solve our sleep deprivation. It‟s hard right? Don‟t
worry. We have solutions for love versus sleep!
3. Love-struckis the act of being in love with a
person and always thinking about him/her.
Love sickness is the informal syndrome of
rejected or unrequited love or the absence
of a loved one and covers physical and
mental symptoms.
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5. Love sick contributes to several types of physical illness like headaches which in turn affects
sleep. The solution is to do some exercises like martial arts (Taichi) in order to negate the
physical illness.
Mental illness is also caused. The solution is to do some meditation like yoga; believers can do
prayers in order to achieve inner peace.
Drink water or juice before going to sleep as lovesick people tend to get dry mouth which affects
their sleep.
Love sick creates broken hearted people. In this case, it is advised to meet other people and
create new friends. Spending time with people will help reduce heartbroken pain and enables
better sleep.
Love sick creates moody people which certainly affects sleep. Moody people should try to be more
relaxed.
Anxiety is also caused by love sick. People should indulge in positive internal dialogue. They
should always think positive.
Loss of appetite is also caused. One should eat smaller meals and snacks more frequently. Eating
six or even eight times a day might be more easily tolerated than eating the same amount of food
in three meals.
Avoid non-nutritious beverages such as black coffee and tea which will help in getting more
sleep.
Try to eat more protein and fat, and less simple sugars to be more healthy and get better sleep.
Walk or participate in light activity to stimulate your body during the day and this will help feel
sleepy at night.
Use calorie boosters to add calories to your favorite foods in case one is too weak. One should
maintain a nutritious diet.
Saliva management — Drink plenty of fluids. Periodically suck on Popsicles, ice chips, lemon ice,
or lemon-flavored water to increase saliva, which will increase swallowing frequency.
6. Difficulty chewing — If chewing is difficult or tiring, minimize (or
eliminate) foods that require chewing, and eat more soft foods.
Puree your foods in a blender.
Coughing — If thin liquids cause you to cough, use a liquid
thickener. (Your speech pathologist can recommend one for you.)
You can also substitute thin liquids with thicker liquid choices
such as nectars for juices and cream soups for plain broths.
Love sick sometimes makes people feel nauseous. Medicine
against it can be taken. This might help the person get sleep.
Rejection of someone you love may badly affect sleep.
Consulting a psychologist and sharing the pain may help the
person get sleep.
Obsession in love is another causes of lack of sleep. The person
should divert his attention into another hobby in order to
alleviate the obsessive behavior he may have.
Alcohol should be avoided as this affects health.
It is recommended to read books before going to sleep in order to
get a better sleep.
Sleeping in a hygienic place in a love sick situation is primordial.
Going to bed at the same time everyday is recommended. The
body will get use to this time frame.
7. Walking 20 minutes or more is recommended. The person should forget about being love sick and
do the walking.
A change of lifestyle is recommended. The person should turn the page and adopt a new way of
lifestyle.
Love sick sometimes causes stuttering. A doctor should be consulted and adequate medicines
should be taken.
The person should meet more people if he feels alone. This might help him forget about being love
sick and thus help in the problem of sleep.
A good bedcover, a good mattress and a good pillow is essential even in love sick situation.
Love sick can cause rapid heartbeat situation (Tachycardia). A doctor should be consulted in case
of aggravation.
A good room temperature at night is essential even in love sick conditions.
Being exposed to nature and greeneries helps a person feel more relaxed which will contribute in
better sleep.
Medicines should be taken against depression.
Having friends and sharing problems with them will help a person recover from his love sick
conditions.
People should not attempt suicide in love sick conditions. Special hotlines exist where people can
listen and advise in such delicate situations.
Exhaustion and body aching are another problems which affects sleep. People should not overwork
their body and mind.
Try to meet another person and try to form a new relationship with someone else. This may help in
getting sleep.
Tearfulness is often caused in love sick situations. One should try to move on in life and start new
adventures. This will help in getting better sleep.
8. Melatonin This natural hormone, which is made by the body‟s pineal
gland, is available over the counter, and many health experts say it can
safely help you get drowsy before bed (it may even have immune-
stimulating and antioxidant benefits, too). But, as with all herbal and
natural remedies, it‟s best to get your doctor‟s OK first. “High levels of
melatonin may raise the level of another hormone, prolactin, aggravating
the risk of depression or infertility”.
Awareness breathing
Does your mind race with thoughts and worries in bed? Your play-by-play
of the day‟s activities may increase anxiety and fuel insomnia. Instead,
try simmering your mind down, focusing on each breath and how it
travels through your body. As it turns out, this type of conscious or
awareness breathing may help you get to sleep faster, say experts.
“Breathing techniques help turn off the mental chatter,” says
Teitelbaum. “Focusing on breathing is relaxing and a good way to
disconnect from the stresses of life.” How does it work? By following the
air as it moves in and out of your lungs, your mind, which generally can
only focus on one thing at a time, will be occupied with your breath —
not your anxieties. And it‟s not as intimidating as it sounds. Simply take
slow and steady — and deep — breaths, focusing your thought on the
natural inhale-exhale rhythm, and watch as your body and mind calm
down.
9. Passion flower This exotic-sounding herbal
supplement is commonly used throughout South
America for help with sleep and relaxation — it‟s
even found in some sodas. “A number of studies
support its calming effect,” says Teitelbaum,
who also points to evidence that the herb may
have pain-relieving qualities, helping to control
muscle spasms, and even menstrual pains.
Passionflower (also known as passiflora) is
available over the counter at most health food
and drug stores that carry herbal supplements.
Teitelbaum recommends taking 90 to 360
milligrams of the extract at bedtime to help with
insomnia.
10. Total darkness Of course you turn off the lights before dozing off (you do, right?).
But if there‟s still a flicker of light in your bedroom, from streetlights outside, your
husband‟s book light, the dim hue of the television, and so on, it may be time to
make some changes. Researchers have long known that too much light can affect
your sleep cycles, disrupting restful sleep. But now a new study from researchers at
Ohio State University reports that too much light can disrupt your body‟s natural
clock so much that even the dimmest light in the bedroom may lead to weight gain.
Banish excessive light in your bedroom by turning off the TV; try to avoid falling
asleep with lamps or even bright nightlights on; and consider investing in blackout
shades (purchased inexpensively at any department store), which can eliminate
outside lights better than blinds or curtains.
Valerian
You‟ve heard of Valium, a powerful sedative, but how about the herbal supplement
known as valerian? “Valerian‟s effectiveness has been compared to a Valium family
medication (oxazepam), without the „hung-over‟ feeling present with most Valium
medications,” says Teitelbaum. “It is commonly used as a remedy for insomnia, and
a number of studies show numerous benefits, including an improvement in deep
sleep, speed of falling asleep and quality of sleep without next-day sedation.” In
these studies, the benefits were most pronounced when people used valerian for
extended periods of time, as opposed to simply taking it for one night. Teitelbaum
also adds that in about 10 percent of people, valerian may have an energizing
effect. How much is safe? Teitelbaum suggests taking 200 to 800 milligrams of the
extract before bedtime. “Most studies suggest that it is more effective when used
continuously rather than as an acute sleep aid. It has a calming effect and can be
used during the day for anxiety as well.” As with any alternative
11. Aromatherapy
Could the secret to great sleep be in what you smell? “Many essentials oils not only
help you fall asleep quickly, they also induce a higher quality of sleep,” says Cher
Kore, a Boston-based professional aromatherapist and instructor. “If you wake
during the night due to noise or a full bladder, many scents may lull you back to
sleep.” Her top picks? Roman chamomile, which has a bright, apple-like scent; clary
sage, with its rich, sweet scent; and the floral notes of geranium and lavender (all
available inexpensively at most health food stores). “The best method is to put two
to three drops of essential oils on your pillow, under the pillowcase,” she says.
Refresh the drops on your pillow every few days to once a week — about as often as
you wash your sheets.
Warm bath
Don‟t forget about the power of a simple pre-bedtime bath to get you in a groggy
state. “A bath causes your muscles to relax,” says Teitelbaum. But it‟s what a bath
does for your nervous system that may really help. “There are two main parts of our
nervous system,” he explains, “the sympathetic nervous system, which is the
adrenaline part described as the „fight or flight reaction,‟ and the parasympathetic
nervous system, described as „the old man after dinner.‟ Shifting from the
adrenaline to the relaxed part of the nervous system is critical for entering into
sleep, and a hot bath shifts your brain into sleep mode.” It‟s best to take a bath
before bedtime but give yourself about a half-hour before hitting the hay for your
body‟s natural thermostat to cool. “Your body has to then cool down to go into deep
sleep,” notes Teitelbaum. Setting the thermostat in your bedroom no higher than 65
degrees can also help.
12. Progressive muscle relaxation
You‟re lying in bed wide awake, staring at the digits changing on your
alarm clock … now what? Try something called progressive muscle
relaxation, suggests Teitelbaum, a practice that involves using the mind
and body simultaneously to induce sleep. Here‟s how to do it: “Starting
with the muscles in your feet and slowly moving up to your
calves, thighs, pelvis, abdomen, chest, neck, head and face
muscles, relax the muscles in each area, one group at a time,” he says.
“People find that they can induce a very deep state of relaxation using
this approach, and often fall asleep in the middle of the process.” You
can practice this technique in any sleep position; the key is to pick one
you are most comfortable in, then relax your muscle groups from there.
Do not expose your self to bright light if you need to get up at night.
Use a small night-light instead.
Nicotine is a stimulant and should be avoided particularly near bedtime
and upon night awakenings. Having a smoke before bed, although it may
feel relaxing, is actually putting a stimulant into your bloodstream.
A light snack may be sleep-inducing, but a heavy meal too close to
bedtime interferes with sleep.
13. Stick to carbohydrates or dairy products. Milk
contains the amino acid L-tryptophan, which has
been shown in research to help people go to sleep. So
milk and cookies or crackers (without chocolate) may
be useful and taste good as well.
Do not exercise vigorously just before bed, it may be
best to exercise in the morning or afternoon
(preferably an aerobic workout, like running or
walking).
Does your pet sleep with you? This, too, may cause
arousals from either allergies or their movements in
the bed. Thus, Fido and Kitty may be better off on
the floor than on your sheets.
Avoid watching TV, eating, and discussing emotional
issues in bed. The bed should be used for sleep.
14. Minimize noise, light, and temperature extremes
during sleep with ear plugs, window blinds, or an
electric blanket or air conditioner.
Even the slightest nighttime noises can disrupt the
quality of your sleep. Try to minimize noise by opting
for laminated window glasses for your room.
Try to keep your bedroom at a comfortable
temperature -- not too hot (above 75 degrees) or too
cold (below 54 degrees).
Try not to drink fluids after 8 p.m. This may reduce
awakenings due to urination.
Avoid naps, but if you do nap, make it no more than
about 25 minutes about eight hours after you awake.
But if you have problems falling asleep, then no naps
for you.
15. Go to bed only when sleepy.
Get out of bed if you haven't fallen asleep in
20 minutes.
Curtail all non-sleep activities in bed (no
watching TV, eating, planning, or problem
solving).
Avoid daytime napping.
Don‟t get attached to unreal expectations
about getting a perfect sleep every night.
16. Acupuncture : Acupuncture is a helpful adjunct
for treating insomnia. Thousands of research
articles attest to the neurochemical effects of
acupuncture, which significantly elevates
endorphins to block pain pathways, promotes the
production of chemicals that reduce
inflammation, enhances circulation, and reduces
the activity of neuromuscular spasm.
Sleeping pills
Lose weight if you are overweight
Sleep on your side and not your back
Be physically active
Maintain a healthy lifestyle by including fruits
and vegetables in your everyday meals
17. Fightafter–dinner drowsiness. If you find
yourself getting sleepy way before your
bedtime, get off the couch and do something
mildly stimulating to avoid falling asleep,
such as washing the dishes, calling a friend,
or getting clothes ready for the next day. If
you give in to the drowsiness, you may wake
up later in the night and have trouble getting
back to sleep.
Love Struck(-) Try to forgetWork at an orphan house: There are so many people need someone to love like you. Get the answer and go to bed with peace. Hug your parents: They will fill you with love and you can be sleep like a baby again.Take a balloon trip: seeing the world from top view teaching you to see a big picture. You will overcome it and move on with your life.Play extreme sports: you will forget her while scream and learn that life is short. Love yourself.Read "Soul Mate" books; You will know that if your love one is the one, she/he will be with you no matter how hard it is. If she/he is not your soul mate, what you need to do is go on and go to bed. Watch series such as Law&Order: you will learn that there are so many couples cheating each others.Call your unhappy married friends: They will give reasons why love someone is a bad idea.Call your happy single friends: They will give reasons why love someone is a bad idea.Go to dating websites: may be you can find someone who are ready to be in love with you.Play with your friends' 3-5 years old kids: They are super active and have lots of questions. You will so exhausted and your mind will be so busy to answers their questions.(0) Keep it in your heartWrite a diary: write all your feeling. It's release your feeling.Jogging: you will have time to think of that one when you run and get exhausting.Mediation: use his/her as your focus. Mediation is one of the best cures for a sleep problem.Build a blog about "falling in love": you will have a place to express you feeling and also many people who are in the same situation with you.Fold origami cranes: it makes you calm and you can make a wish!Collect her/his picture and make Paper Mache. It entertains and give your some happiness before bed. Drink decaf herbal tea: It makes you calm and warm.Look at your picture albums and recall all good times in your life: You can install all good feeling in your heart and sleep well. Make dinner with mushrooms for yourself and imaging you have dinner with her/him: mushrooms promote sleep well, imagination can help also.Bike to her/his house everyday: We can use love struck to be an inspiration to exercise. You finish your goal and be able to sleep tight in the night.(+) Try to get her/his heartGo to bed early, try to dream about her. When you wake up, write her what you dream. Paint pictures for her/him: it's release your stress and express your feeling to her/himSing many love songs and record for him/herJoin a competition such as American Idol: announce to the world how you love her/him. It likes explosion. After that you will release and sleep.Adopt a pet she/he like: Hope she/he will impress you. Moreover, you will be tired to take care of your pet and need sleep.Bake cookies or cakes for her/him: while cooking, taste them a lot! sweet can make you happy.Knit a scarf for her/his: knitting requires concentration. It will make you sleepy and your have a gift for her/him.Work out in gym: make yourself look attractive and after exercise, your body will need to take a rest.Look at sky in the night, keep looking for new star and name by his/her name: look at star will calm you and make you so sleeeeppyy.Do gardening: grow flowers or plants for her/him: It's tried and give you fresh air.