This document provides a 7-step process for finding peace with difficult relationships. The steps include: 1) finding the gift in the relationship, 2) releasing energetic ties by visualizing cutting cords, 3) sending unconditional love, 4) forgiving both yourself and the other person, 5) letting go of expectations, 6) protecting yourself with a white light field, and 7) loving yourself enough to go through the process as needed. The overall message is that inner peace is always possible, even with challenging relationships, by focusing on personal growth opportunities rather than changing others.
2. Peace Is Possible Perhaps you are estranged from your Father OR Your marriage is over after 20 years. OR Friends frequently disappoint you. OR You experience frustration with colleagues.
3. Will They Change? Relationship stress can cause anxiety, depression, sadness, hopelessness, etc… How can we heal these emotions? By expecting the person to change? To stop hurting us?
7. Sacred Contracts We have a Sacred Contract with each person that touches our life. They are all here to teach us something. Sometimes it is easy and joyous…and sometimes it is challenging and difficult.
8. 7 Steps To Peace Peace is always possible and the most loving thing you can do for your soul. There is a way…
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10. More Positive Possibilities What would you not have in your life if it weren’t for this relationship? Embarked on a journey of self-discovery? Advanced on your career? How did the relationship shape your personality? Made you a better parent? Friend? Lover? Can You See The Blessings?
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12. 3) Send Love Once you cut the cord, there is a void between you and the person. Fill that void with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE Send the love to them and to yourself. You can ask the Angels for help with this…
13. 4) Forgive Them and Yourself Forgiveness is not excusing one’s behavior, it is about letting go of the need for them to change, express remorse, or be who you would like them to be.
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15. The Choice Is Yours No other person can make you feel something that you do not ant to feel You always have a choice!
16. 5) Let It Go Let go of wanting to: Be right Have the last word Get validation Change the person Expect different Gain approval Release the ties that bind you and set yourself free!
17. And Sometimes… The relationship is too toxic and keeps you from living an authentic life. Some relationships may cause you more harm than good, become unhealthy, or prevent you from being in truth. In these situations, you might have to walk away…even from someone significant.
18. 6) Protect Yourself Surround yourself with a white light field of protection. Universal or God’s Love will keep you safe. This will allow to interact with the individual without reattaching any cords.
19. 7) Love Yourself Enough To go through this process…maybe even several times. You must put your worth, your health, and your own life first. When you show yourself love…then others will to! PEACE
20. Thank You For Flying With Us! The Angels Guide To: Finding Peace With Difficult Relationships By Alison Kelly Angel Communicator Spiritual Medium Intuitive Counselor Visit www.KnowingAngels.com for more information on connecting with your Angels If you would like a personal Angel reading from Alison, call 404.386.6130 or email alisonk@bellsouth.net