1. When two humans show up, they see the world differently. Fundamentally, we disagree.. My view. Your view. All relationship stuff starts here. Just two people, coming together. At some level of detail, we always see the world differently. We even have different definitions for every word. Hello people who like Peaceful relationships. Click Space Bar to go forward. You can also click Forward key. To go back, click Backup key.
2. This is a big problem! My view. Your view. And I’ve found we have, and display, three choices Most of us seemed trained in early childhood to fear hearing or displaying disagreement.
3. My view. Your view. It’s your call! Extinguish the Differences MasterTalk And I’ve found we have, and display, three choices 1
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8. My view. Your view. It’s your call! Extinguish the Differences MasterTalk Arguing Interrupting Domestic Violence Social Brawling A second choice that that people display. Hide the Differences One person cooperatively is silent. No sharing. Conflict Avoidant Political Correctness Avoids “offending, insulting, upsetting.” Building resentment. A pause before the explosion. Silence gives way to slow emergence of passive aggression, talking back and arguing. “ Out of the blue,” violence erupts. Victim defendant. Divorce Suicide Murder Looks like PEACE. But… 1 2 WAR