6. • Presence and impact
doesn’t automatically
come with your
education, talent or
results. Entirely
subjective.
• The most pervasive
obstacles are:
1) Imposter Syndrome
2) Unconscious Bias
3) Double-Bind Paradox
11. IMPACT:
That tangible lasting effect on
situation or person – it is
are remembered for.
How do you make people feel?
What do they do as a result of
listening to you?
It is a future orientated
dimension.
PRESENCE:
That intangible instant
capacity to be appropriately
noticed and to gain respect
and gravitas.
How well do you connect
with people?
Are you building rapport?
It is all about the here and
now/the present.
12. The Aspire 2022 Presence and Impact Model
AUTHENTICITY
Know your Self
‘Do what you say’
ACTIVITY
Seize opportunities
‘Take action’
AGILITY
Know when to
Flex
‘Express it in a
way that works’
AUTHORITY
Know your Stuff,
‘Tell it like it is’
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Purpose
14. “We Are All Leaders: Leadership is Not a
Position, It's a Mindset” Fredrik Arnander
15. 6% Important
understanding,
helpful, aware
of others’
feelings,
intuitive,
humanitarian
values
“Think
Manager,
Think
Male”
63% Important
aggressive
dominant, self-
reliant, self-
confident,
competitive,
emotionally
stable, forceful
Women Manager Men
“THINK LEADER, THINK MALE”
REOTYPE (V.A. SCHEIN, 1973, 19
16.
17. I am a (qualities)
leader who (what I
do) for (specific
audience) so that
(intended impact).
Leadership Purpose
Statement
18.
19. The Aspire 2022 Presence and Impact Model
AUTHENTICITY
Know your Self
‘Do what you say’
ACTIVITY
Seize opportunities
‘Take action’
AGILITY
Know when to
Flex
‘Express it in a
way that works’
AUTHORITY
Know your Stuff,
‘Tell it like it is’
Leadershi
p
Purpose
21. “Authenticity…is not about
acting in ways that feel
comfortable or familiar, but
rather is about acting on
one’s core values in order
to advance the work
required to accomplish
shared goals.”
Pursuit of whose happiness? Executive leaders’
transformational behaviours and personal values
Fu et al, Administrative Science Quarterly
23. STRENTHS
Activities/tasks that you are:
Good at and enjoy and time flies
and you find them ‘common sense’
or easy.
TALENTS
Gifts, natural abilities, special and
unique areas of expertise could be
artistic, interpersonal, intellectual,
creative.
PASSIONS
Causes, people or areas of focus
that you really care about. Might
make you mad, sad, frustrated,
excited, motivated or inspired.
24.
25.
26. • Main room –
“Rebellious Lunch and
Learn”
• Networking lunch in
restaurant
27. The Aspire 2022 Presence and Impact Model
AUTHENTICITY
Know your Self
‘Do what you say’
ACTIVITY
Seize opportunities
‘Take action’
AGILITY
Know when to
Flex
‘Express it in a
way that works’
AUTHORITY
Know your Stuff
‘Tell it like it is’
Leadershi
p
Purpose
30. •What does ‘authority’
mean for you?
•How do the women in
the video demonstrate
authority?
•What could you do
more or less of to have
more authority?
31. •What does ‘authority’
mean for you?
•How do the women in
the video demonstrate
authority?
•What could you do
more or less of to have
more authority?
32. • Junior and senior school boys were given
eight times more attention by teachers.
Boys are rewarded for pushing themselves
forward and calling out, girls for being neat
and quiet.
• Women can be just as guilty of this bias
bias in favour of male authority, because
because it is ingrained from what we see
see modelled to us in our own families
families and culture.
• Men in more gender-equal societies report
higher levels of happiness and satisfaction
in work and home life, while gender-
diverse companies are more profitable.
33. Courage of your Conviction:
To behave in accordance with
one's beliefs, especially in the
face of resistance or criticism.
• Trust yourself
• Listen to others
• Don’t cave just to make others
feel better or to avoid conflict
• Consider don’t worry
• Have compassion
• Make decisions and move on
34. Top Tips
1
Challenge yourself to
speak up and take on
the harder tasks.
2
Draw out women who
are talking less than
men around.
3
Find male allies to call
out other men when
they're being sexist.
4
Ask questions and
make contributions
even if you're not
entirely sure of your
ground.
5
Do not make not make
judgments of other
women.
Be aware of your own
templates of dated
stereotypes.
35. The advice given to women about not apologising, self
promoting and up talking maybe going against them as
they are seen as more threatening and less likeable.
To be as competent and influential as women,
research suggests what women have to add ‘warmth’.
It is expected in women but not in men (positive,
smiling and nodding).
Likeability leads to influence for women more than it
does for men) a man can influence others even when
we don't particularly like him).
36.
37. The Aspire 2022 Presence and Impact Model
AUTHENTICITY
Know your Self
‘Do what you say’
ACTIVITY
Seize and maximise
opportunities
‘Take action and
deliver results’
AGILITY
Know when to
Flex
‘Express it in a
way that works’
AUTHORITY
Know your Stuff, Have
Impact
‘Tell it like it is’
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Purpose
41. 1. What words or phrases would you use to describe me at my best?
2. In which situations do I have the most confidence and positive impact?
3. What are my strengths, passions and talents that stand out?
4. What kind of leader am I? What is possible for me as a leader?
5. What else do I need to know?
42. A study published by
the Journal of
Language and Social
Psychology, found
over the course of a
three-minute
conversation, women
interrupted men an
average of once, while
men interrupted
women 2.6 times.
43. Conversation Killers!
Whether they are aware of
it or not, chronic
interrupters are asserting
their power, their
knowledge, and their ideas
at your expense.
Address it before you start
talking (you can say when
would be a good time to ask
questions or break-in.)
If they still do, remind them
that there will be a point for
them to ask questions or
make comments in a few
minutes.
Discuss when you both are
calm and objective. Explain
how it affects you instead of
making accusations.
You can ignore the
interruption and keep
talking; Or you can ask
"May I finish?" and
continue on.
Take a good, hard look at
how you communicate. Do
you share long, stories?
Could you be succinct and
to-the-point?
Be open to feedback from
the interrupter about your
communication style as
well.
People are less likely to
interrupt when you are
speaking with authority.
44.
45. The Aspire 2022 Presence and Impact Model
AUTHENTICITY
Know your Self
‘Do what you say’
ACTIVITY
Seize opportunities
‘Take action’
AGILITY
Know when to
Flex
‘Express it in a
way that works’
AUTHORITY
Know your Stuff
‘Tell it like it is’
Leadershi
p
Purpose
This is a group of CEOs at the Munich Security Conference 2022, talking about the Ukraine situation, cybersecurity and other critical issues.See much diversity here? I see a group of similar aged, white men. I’m sure they are all brilliant, and I’m certainly not anti-men, but how can discussion and decisions possibly be representative of the needs of broader society when only one demographic is in charge?
Creative equals campaign The study, of 1,000 parents of primary school age children and 1,000 UK based children aged 5-11, showed that bias is embedded at a young age. It revealed that 45% of the children polled believe that nurses are always women, while 22% said a doctor was likely to be a man. In addition, 60% of kids think that being a plumber or electrician is a man’s job – and almost half (46%) of the boys and girls surveyed said that men always make better engineers.
Leadership presence doesn’t automatically come with your education, your talent for innovation, or your business results.
Leadership presence is entirely subjective. It depends on how others perceive you.
Women face unique challenges when it comes to being perceived as leaders.
The most pervasive obstacles are Unconscious Bias, the Double-Bind Paradox, and the Imposter Syndrome.
Pursuit of whose happiness? Executive
leaders’ transformational behaviors and personal values, Fu et al,
Administrative Science
Quarterly
Women can easily mistake feeling comfortable for being authentic. Authenticity is not about acting in ways that feel comfortable or familiar, but rather is about acting on one’s core values in order to advance the work required to accomplish shared goals
ability to move quickly and easily.
ability to think and understand quickly.
other peoples agenda and where your goals fit in, bigger picture and important for company, like a jigsaw and all own piece