This document discusses relational aggression among teenage girls, also known as "mean girls" bullying. It defines relational aggression as behavior intended to harm someone's relationships with others. Common forms include gossip, exclusion, rumors, betrayal, intimidation, and alliance building against victims. The document contrasts bullying styles between boys and girls, with girls being more emotionally hurtful through indirect aggression rather than physical violence. It outlines common roles in girl-on-girl bullying situations, including aggressors, victims, and those in the middle who may sometimes take either role. The document suggests improving understanding of relational aggression through research slides, videos, an application component, and class activities before concluding with lessons learned.
3. personal relevance
I have experienced
bullying like most girls
have.
I witness it every day in
the cafeteria.
4. What is relational
aggression?
Behavior that is intended to hurt someone by
harming his or her relationships with others (Crick
& Grotpeter, 1995)
A form of aggression where the group is used as a
weapon to assault others and others’ relationships.
5. Common relational
aggression
gossip
exclusion
spreading rumors
exposing confidential information
lies and betrayal
6. Common relational
aggression (cont.)
Ignoring
Teasing or hurtful comments about
physical appearances
Humiliation
Attacks on sexuality
7. Common relational
aggression (cont.)
Alliance building
Claiming disloyalty or untrustworthiness
Making threats to physically harm the
other or the other’s possessions.
Intimidation
8. Girls vs. boys bullying
typical view of bully:huge football player stealing
lunch money
girl world bully: skinny, pretty and perfect
Boys tend to be more physical while girls are sneaky
and more emotionally hurtful.
10. Aggressors
Also known as the “queen bees”, the RMGs, or the
alpha girls
Typically walk into a room with a small entourage
and tell other girls where to sit.
Seem perfect, seem like they have a perfect life.
12. Girls in the middle
The pivotal group
They are the girls who might alternately be victims
or aggressors, often choosing to be bullies because
they do not want to be next.
They do not know the power that they have.
13. Role of boys in Girl-Girl
Conflict
Girls learn early on to value relationships with boys
over relationships with girls.
classic conflict- girl who goes out with her best
friend’s boyfriend, either before or after the best
friend and boyfriend have broken up.
What’s wrong with this picture?
14. Research slides
Many.. with citations on the bottom. (For
information and images.)
Aproximately 12-20 minutes
15.
16. Videos?
imbed videos into your slides as needed.
Will break up some of your information and
speaking.
17. Application Component
Describe, in detail, your application component
Multiple slides
USe pictures, videos, etc.
Approximately 8-15 minutes
Ask who is to blame? and who’s side would you take?\n
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Regina George= aggressor\nGretchen Weiners and Karen are the girls in the middle\nAaron is the boy instigator. \nThe victims are the rest of the school that felt victimized by Regina George. \nWhen Katie becomes the new lead, regina is being bullied. All roles switch around.\n