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Chapter 6

Purity in an
Impure World
Clay Crosse Award Winner
CCM Recording Artist, Dove
Co-Founder, Holy Homes

                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
I. Overview
• How can we live a pure life in an impure
  world?
• How can we manage our “external
  triggers”




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers - Definition
• Definition – something that turns you on
  that is external – outside yourself




                            © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers - Characteristics
• Environmental




                          © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers - Characteristics
• Environmental
• Unavoidable




                          © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers - Characteristics
• Environmental
• Unavoidable
• Billboards, watching sports,
  commercials, etc.




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers – Why?




                     © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers – Why?
• We live in a fallen world




                              © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers – Why?
• We live in a fallen world
• The goals of the world are not aligned
  with God’s goals




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers – Why?
• We live in a fallen world
• The goals of the world are not aligned
  with God’s goals
• I John 2:16 “For the world offers only the
  lust for physical pleasure….”




                              © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
II. External Triggers – Why?
• We live in a fallen world
• The goals of the world are not aligned
  with God’s goals
• I John 2:16 “For the world offers only the
  lust for physical pleasure….”
• It stinks being the alcoholic living in a
  liquor store


                              © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?




                       © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
1. Control your area of authority:
     •   Change the part of the world you can control—
         your space




                                     © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
1. Control your area of authority:
     •   Change the part of the world you can control—
         your space
     •   Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc.




                                     © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
1. Control your area of authority:
     •   Change the part of the world you can control—
         your space
     •   Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc.
     •   There are things that draw you in—get rid of
         those




                                     © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
1. Control your area of authority:
     •   Change the part of the world you can control—
         your space
     •   Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc.
     •   There are things that draw you in—get rid of
         those
2. Proverbs 22:3
     •   “The prudent man first sees evil….”
     •   The foolish enters without seeing the traps


                                      © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
3. Don’t stress-out about what you can’t
   change




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
III. What can we do?
3. Don’t stress-out about what you can’t
   change

4. Not about legalism – about being
   successful in recovery

5. Do your entertainment choices match
   what you believe?

                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
IV. What can’t you do?
• You can’t get rid of all the triggers




                               © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
IV. What can’t you do?
• You can’t get rid of all the triggers

   So…




                               © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
IV. What can’t you do?
• You can’t get rid of all the triggers

  So…
• Don’t go to extremes:




                               © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
IV. What can’t you do?
• You can’t get rid of all the triggers

  So…
• Don’t go to extremes:
    – Don’t get give up or get frustrated
    – Don’t go too far and become legalistic.



                                © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
V. My Story




              © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
V. My Story
•   1998 – Got honest with my wife




                                © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
V. My Story
•   1998 – Got honest with my wife
•   Did the temptation go away? NO.




                               © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
V. My Story
•   1998 – Got honest with my wife
•   Did the temptation go away? NO.

•   James 1:12 “Blessed is the man that endures
    temptation….”




                                © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
V. My Story
•   1998 – Got honest with my wife
•   Did the temptation go away? NO.

•   James 1:12 “Blessed is the man that endures
    temptation….”

    NOTE: For the temptations (external triggers)
    you can’t remove, your goal is to RESPOND
    the right way to them.
                                  © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin




                    © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin
• Sin is there
    – I John 1:8 – “If we say we have no sin, we
      are fooling ourselves….”
    – But…it doesn’t have to control us
      (Romans 6:14)




                                © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin
• Sin is there
    – I John 1:8 – “If we say we have no sin, we
      are fooling ourselves….”
    – But…it doesn’t have to control us
      (Romans 6:14)

• Yes, external triggers will be there. No,
  you don’t have to indulge them.

                                © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VII. Our Goals:




                  © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VII. Our Goals:
1. Remove as many external triggers as
   possible.




                            © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
VII. Our Goals:
1. Remove as many external triggers as
   possible.

2. Respond appropriately to the triggers you
   can’t remove.




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
Closing Questions:




                     © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
Closing Questions:
• Do my entertainment choices match
  what I believe?




                          © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
Closing Questions:
• Do my entertainment choices match
  what I believe?
• What steps do I need to take to align
  them with what I believe?




                             © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries

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Chapter06 slides-cropped

  • 1. Chapter 6 Purity in an Impure World Clay Crosse Award Winner CCM Recording Artist, Dove Co-Founder, Holy Homes © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 2. I. Overview • How can we live a pure life in an impure world? • How can we manage our “external triggers” © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 3. II. External Triggers - Definition • Definition – something that turns you on that is external – outside yourself © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 4. II. External Triggers - Characteristics • Environmental © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 5. II. External Triggers - Characteristics • Environmental • Unavoidable © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 6. II. External Triggers - Characteristics • Environmental • Unavoidable • Billboards, watching sports, commercials, etc. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 7. II. External Triggers – Why? © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 8. II. External Triggers – Why? • We live in a fallen world © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 9. II. External Triggers – Why? • We live in a fallen world • The goals of the world are not aligned with God’s goals © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 10. II. External Triggers – Why? • We live in a fallen world • The goals of the world are not aligned with God’s goals • I John 2:16 “For the world offers only the lust for physical pleasure….” © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 11. II. External Triggers – Why? • We live in a fallen world • The goals of the world are not aligned with God’s goals • I John 2:16 “For the world offers only the lust for physical pleasure….” • It stinks being the alcoholic living in a liquor store © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 12. III. What can we do? © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 13. III. What can we do? 1. Control your area of authority: • Change the part of the world you can control— your space © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 14. III. What can we do? 1. Control your area of authority: • Change the part of the world you can control— your space • Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 15. III. What can we do? 1. Control your area of authority: • Change the part of the world you can control— your space • Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc. • There are things that draw you in—get rid of those © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 16. III. What can we do? 1. Control your area of authority: • Change the part of the world you can control— your space • Your TV, movies, Internet actions, etc. • There are things that draw you in—get rid of those 2. Proverbs 22:3 • “The prudent man first sees evil….” • The foolish enters without seeing the traps © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 17. III. What can we do? 3. Don’t stress-out about what you can’t change © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 18. III. What can we do? 3. Don’t stress-out about what you can’t change 4. Not about legalism – about being successful in recovery 5. Do your entertainment choices match what you believe? © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 19. IV. What can’t you do? • You can’t get rid of all the triggers © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 20. IV. What can’t you do? • You can’t get rid of all the triggers So… © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 21. IV. What can’t you do? • You can’t get rid of all the triggers So… • Don’t go to extremes: © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 22. IV. What can’t you do? • You can’t get rid of all the triggers So… • Don’t go to extremes: – Don’t get give up or get frustrated – Don’t go too far and become legalistic. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 23. V. My Story © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 24. V. My Story • 1998 – Got honest with my wife © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 25. V. My Story • 1998 – Got honest with my wife • Did the temptation go away? NO. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 26. V. My Story • 1998 – Got honest with my wife • Did the temptation go away? NO. • James 1:12 “Blessed is the man that endures temptation….” © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 27. V. My Story • 1998 – Got honest with my wife • Did the temptation go away? NO. • James 1:12 “Blessed is the man that endures temptation….” NOTE: For the temptations (external triggers) you can’t remove, your goal is to RESPOND the right way to them. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 28. VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 29. VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin • Sin is there – I John 1:8 – “If we say we have no sin, we are fooling ourselves….” – But…it doesn’t have to control us (Romans 6:14) © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 30. VI. Presence vs. Power of Sin • Sin is there – I John 1:8 – “If we say we have no sin, we are fooling ourselves….” – But…it doesn’t have to control us (Romans 6:14) • Yes, external triggers will be there. No, you don’t have to indulge them. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 31. VII. Our Goals: © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 32. VII. Our Goals: 1. Remove as many external triggers as possible. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 33. VII. Our Goals: 1. Remove as many external triggers as possible. 2. Respond appropriately to the triggers you can’t remove. © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 34. Closing Questions: © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 35. Closing Questions: • Do my entertainment choices match what I believe? © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries
  • 36. Closing Questions: • Do my entertainment choices match what I believe? • What steps do I need to take to align them with what I believe? © Copyright 2010 Fireproof Ministries