1. Chapter 8: X3pure Series
Finding Godly Femininity
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2. Queen Esther & Queen Vashti
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3. Queen Esther & Queen Vashti
• Queen Vashti’s attitude was foul
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4. Queen Esther & Queen Vashti
• Queen Vashti’s attitude was foul
• Beauty is not everything
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5. Character
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6. Character
• He who finds a wife finds a good
things and obtains favor from the
Lord (Proverbs 18:22)
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7. Character
• He who finds a wife finds a good
things and obtains favor from the
Lord (Proverbs 18:22)
• Focus on your character
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8. Character
• He who finds a wife finds a good
things and obtains favor from the
Lord (Proverbs 18:22)
• Focus on your character
• Esther did not go into the king
unless she was called by name
(Esther 2:14)
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9. Character
• He who finds a wife finds a good
things and obtains favor from the
Lord (Proverbs 18:22)
• Focus on your character
• Esther did not go into the king
unless she was called by name
(Esther 2:14)
• A man who is a visionary
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10. Feminine
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11. Feminine
• God didn’t just make you female, he
made you feminine
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12. Feminine
• God didn’t just make you female, he
made you feminine
• Femininity is a gift
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13. Feminine
• God didn’t just make you female, he
made you feminine
• Femininity is a gift
• We communicate with men in a
different way than they communicate
with other men
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14. Feminine
• God didn’t just make you female, he
made you feminine
• Femininity is a gift
• We communicate with men in a
different way than they communicate
with other men
• Holds men’s attention
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15. Bitterness
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16. Bitterness
• Can cause us to make immoral
decisions
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17. Bitterness
• Can cause us to make immoral
decisions
• Forgiveness is pivotal
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18. Bitterness
• Can cause us to make immoral
decisions
• Forgiveness is pivotal
• Bitterness can cause trouble
(Hebrews 12:1-6)
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19. God’s Design
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20. God’s Design
• Feminine women are sensitive and
gentle
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21. God’s Design
• Feminine women are sensitive and
gentle
• Natural nurturing spirit
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22. God’s Design
• Feminine women are sensitive and
gentle
• Natural nurturing spirit
• We’re not an afterthought
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23. God’s Design
• Feminine women are sensitive and
gentle
• Natural nurturing spirit
• We’re not an afterthought
• Male and female he made them
(Gen 1:26-27)
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24. God’s Design
• Feminine women are sensitive and
gentle
• Natural nurturing spirit
• We’re not an afterthought
• Male and female he made them
(Gen 1:26-27)
• We represent the more gentle side of
God
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25. Praiseworthy
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26. Praiseworthy
•Older women are to teach the
younger women to love their husband
and children, to be wise and pure, to
be good workers at home and to
yield to their husbands (Titus 2:3-5)
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27. Praiseworthy
•Older women are to teach the
younger women to love their husband
and children, to be wise and pure, to
be good workers at home and to
yield to their husbands (Titus 2:3-5)
• Submission is not a lack of power,
it’s to control your power
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28. Praiseworthy
•Older women are to teach the
younger women to love their husband
and children, to be wise and pure, to
be good workers at home and to
yield to their husbands (Titus 2:3-5)
• Submission is not a lack of power,
it’s to control your power
• Charm is deceitful and beauty is
fleeting, but a woman who fears the
Lord shall be praised (Proverbs 31:10)
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29. Sexy
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30. Sexy
• Confusing godly femininity with
being sexy
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31. Sexy
• Confusing godly femininity with
being sexy
• Sexy: to arouse sexually
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32. Sexy
• Confusing godly femininity with
being sexy
• Sexy: to arouse sexually
• “Too many women dress for rent
when they are occupied”
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33. Masculine Roles
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34. Masculine Roles
• “Some of us are becoming the men
that we wanted to marry” - Gloria
Steinem
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35. Masculine Roles
• “Some of us are becoming the men
that we wanted to marry” - Gloria
Steinem
• Taking on masculine roles
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36. Masculine Roles
• “Some of us are becoming the men
that we wanted to marry” - Gloria
Steinem
• Taking on masculine roles
• We can never take the role of what a
man is to be in our life
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37. Masculine Roles
• “Some of us are becoming the men
that we wanted to marry” - Gloria
Steinem
• Taking on masculine roles
• We can never take the role of what a
man is to be in our life
• A man just adds to our life
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38. Masculine Roles
• “Some of us are becoming the men
that we wanted to marry” - Gloria
Steinem
• Taking on masculine roles
• We can never take the role of what a
man is to be in our life
• A man just adds to our life
• Delight yourselves in the Lord and he
will give you the desires of your heart
(Psalm 37:4)
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39. Kind & Gentle Spirit
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40. Kind & Gentle Spirit
• A woman has a lot of power in her
home, however she wins her
husband over with a kind and gentle
spirit (1 Peter 3:3-6)
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41. Kind & Gentle Spirit
• A woman has a lot of power in her
home, however she wins her
husband over with a kind and gentle
spirit (1 Peter 3:3-6)
• God made us feminine for a reason
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42. Kind & Gentle Spirit
• A woman has a lot of power in her
home, however she wins her
husband over with a kind and gentle
spirit (1 Peter 3:3-6)
• God made us feminine for a reason
• Sacred Influence, Gary Thomas
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43. Kind & Gentle Spirit
• A woman has a lot of power in her
home, however she wins her
husband over with a kind and gentle
spirit (1 Peter 3:3-6)
• God made us feminine for a reason
• Sacred Influence, Gary Thomas
• “We’re not called to change anyone,
we’re called to influence”
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44. Kind & Gentle Spirit
• A woman has a lot of power in her
home, however she wins her
husband over with a kind and gentle
spirit (1 Peter 3:3-6)
• God made us feminine for a reason
• Sacred Influence, Gary Thomas
• “We’re not called to change anyone,
we’re called to influence”
• The Holy Spirit
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45. Sanctuary
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46. Sanctuary
• Sanctuary: a sacred and holy place
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47. Sanctuary
• Sanctuary: a sacred and holy place
• The temple of the Holy Spirit
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48. Covenant Relationship
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49. Covenant Relationship
• Covered & protected
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50. Covenant Relationship
• Covered & protected
• Understands purpose of femininity
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51. Covenant Relationship
• Covered & protected
• Understands purpose of femininity
• We as women provide something for
men that they wouldn’t have without
us
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52. Biblical Examples
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53. Biblical Examples
• Spend some time in Esther and Ruth
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54. Biblical Examples
• Spend some time in Esther and Ruth
• Submission
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55. Biblical Examples
• Spend some time in Esther and Ruth
• Submission
• Receiving wise council
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56. Biblical Examples
• Spend some time in Esther and Ruth
• Submission
• Receiving wise council
• Waiting on God
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57. Next Time: Chapter 9
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58. Next Time: Chapter 9
• Parallels between being a helper and
the Holy Spirit
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59. Next Time: Chapter 9
• Parallels between being a helper and
the Holy Spirit
• Being patient with the process
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