6. Seven Stages of Marriage Based on the book:The 7 Stages of Marriage Laughter, Intimacy and Passion: Today, Tomorrow, Forever. By Sarí Harrar and Rita DeMaria, Ph.D. Reader’s Digest. 2007. and http://www.rd.com/channel/7-stages-of-marriage
8. STAGE 2: REALIZATION “ Facing Everyday Reality of What it Means to be Living Together”*
9. STAGE 3: REBELLION “ The Couple Begins to Ask Themselves; How much conflict are we having? How is the conflict resolving? Is my general mood toward my partner one of feeling good or one of frustration?”*
18. The Emotional Cycle of Deployment: A Military Family Perspective Adapted from Article Published in the Apr-Jun 2001 edition of U.S. Army Medical Department Journal. Time Adjusted from Six Month Model to 15 Month Model
29. Not a good time... We can bring up issues at any time, but the “listener” can say “this is not a good time.” If the listener does not want to talk at that time, he or she takes responsibility for setting up a time to talk in the near future.
32. Speaking the Same Language excerpts from The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
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37. If your spouse’s love language is Words of Affirmation: 1. Remind yourself with 3x5 card by phone or computer that says “Words are Important! Words are Important! Words are Important!” 2. Set a goal to give your spouse a different compliment each day for a month. 3. Write a love letter, a love paragraph, or a love sentence to your spouse. 4. Look for your spouse’s strengths and tell her how much you appreciate those strengths.