This presentation describes the basic fundamental 6 Human Needs that we all have and need to have fulfilled on a daily basis for ultimate happiness.

1. THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS
by
Dale Genetti
Strategic Intervention Relationship Life Coach
“RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH”
Information supplied by Robbins Madanes Research
with
Anthony Robbins and Cloe Madanes

2. The following needs are universal and are given
attention by each of us on a daily basis.
Do you know what your needs are?
How do you meet your needs
and the needs of your partner?
Needs can be met in positive and negative ways.
Let’s explore.
6 HUMAN NEEDS

3. CERTAINTY
• Feel safe
• Avoid Pain
• Feel comfortable in your environment
• Feeling of security
• What words would you use to describe certainty?
• Code words for certainty
– Comfort
– Stability
– Feeling grounded
– Predictability
– Protection

4. UNCERTAINTY/VARIETY
• Challenges that will exercise your physical and emotional range
• Everyone needs variety/stimulation
• What words would you use to describe Uncertainty?
• CODE WORDS
– Fear
– Instability
– Change
– Chaos
– Entertainment
– Suspense
– Exertion
– Surprise
– Conflict
– Crisis

5. SIGNIFICANCE
• EVERY PERSON needs to feel important, needed and wanted
• A sense of being important is necessary to all human beings
• What words would you use to describe Significance?
• CODE WORDS
– Pride
– Importance
– Standards
– Achievements
– Performance
– Perfection
– Evaluation
– Discipline
– Competition
– Rejection

6. LOVE/CONNECTION
• The need for the “Experience” of Love and Connection
• Everyone needs connection with other human beings and strives
for and hopes for love
• What words would you use to describe Love/Connection?
• CODE WORDS
– Togetherness
– Passion
– Unity
– Warmth
– Tenderness
– Desire

7. GROWTH (Spiritual need)
• We need to constantly develop emotionally, intellectually, and
spiritually
• Some people satisfy the need to grow by working out physically, by
reading books, or helping others
• When we stop growing we die
• What other ways can you grow?
**Anything that you want to remain in your life, your money, your
health, your relationship, your happiness, love, must be cultivated,
developed and expanded with growth.

8. CONTRIBUTION (Spiritual need)
• To go beyond our own needs and to give to others
• A life is incomplete without the sense that one is making a contribution to
others or to a cause
• WAYS OF GIVING
– Community Service
– Charitable donation
– Planting trees
– Writing a book
– Giving to one’s Children
– Any type of volunteering
• Contribution is the human need that effectively regulates
your other 5 needs

9. How does Contribution totally
fulfill all 6 Human Needs?

10. • If you focus on contributing to others, you have the
CERTANTY of being able to CONTRIBUTE (there is
always a way)
• You have VARIETY (contributing is highly interactive)
• You gain SIGNIFICANCE because you know you are
helping others, and improving their lives
• The spiritual bond created when you help others gives
you a deep sense of CONNECTION; and you GROW by
creatively helping others.

11. 6 Human Needs - recap

12. • Certainty
• Uncertainty/Variety
• Significance
• Love/Connection
• Growth
• Contribution
←Feeling of security
←Challenges
←The need to feel important
←Everyone needs connection
←We need to constantly develop
←To give to others

13. How do we meet our needs and of
our partner’s?

14. • What are your partners needs?
• How do you meet your partners needs?
― What vehicles or what actions do you take to get them
met?
• How do you meet your needs?
― What vehicles or what actions do you take to get them
met?

15. The Key to Everlasting Love!

16. • When you satisfy TWO of the needs of someone else,
you have connection.
• When you satisfy FOUR of their needs you have
strong attachment.
• When you satisfy ALL SIX of their human needs, the
person is permanently bonded to you.

17. Three Levels of Relationship

18. ♥ Level One
♥ Selfish love – it’s all about me and what I want.
♥ Disregarding the other person needs – they don’t exist
♥ Everyone’s getting what they want without any emotional connection at a deep
level – NO PASSION
♥ Level Two
♥ Somewhat Selfish love – I’ll give to you but I’m keeping score.
♥ You better give back or else (Whoring or Horse trading)
♥ Co-existing/no passion
♥ Level Three
♥ Selfless Love – it’s all about YOUR PARTNER and what YOUR PARTNER
NEEDS. Making sure you meet your partners needs daily. Giving
unconditionally. Loving them no matter what.
♥ Total connection/passion/intimacy

19. YOUR VISION LIFE COACHING
Dale Genetti
Certified Strategic Relationship Life Coach
Credentialed in Relationship and Marriage Education
Office 678-574-3370
Cell 770-598-9169
dalecoach@yourvisionlifecoaching.com
www.yourvisionlifecoaching.com

20. 4 – Archetypes – in all of us
• THE WARRIOR – The most fundamental archetype
– Intense, strength, action, power
• THE MAGICIAN – Somebody who can just detach, observe, finds the magic
in anything. Snaps their fingers and things change. See’s all the hocus
pocus, spells, trances, hypnosis, whimsy, fun, humor in it all
• The LOVER
– Your deepest emotions of love and connection
– This is where you vibrate with life
– This is where you connect with God, to yourself, to other people
– The deepest love you have, a love with no conditions, the purest part of you
• THE SOVEREIGN – The person with vision, intuition, acts with purpose. This king or
Queen in you knows why you’re here. They have enormous wisdom and
knowledge. They command and don’t overreact.