This is a condensed slide deck from my Winter 2020 section of The Art of Self-Coaching at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Course materials are archived at https://www.edbatista.com/the-art-of-self-coaching-course.html
13. Driving forces favor change
Restraining forces resist it
Change
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14. Patterns keep these forces balanced
Change requires unfreezing
Change
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15. Driving force = Survival anxiety
I must change in order to
to achieve my goals
Change
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16. Restraining force = Learning anxiety
Change means a new identity
or loss of self-esteem
Change
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17. Increase survival anxiety to change?
Or decrease learning anxiety?
Both are necessary
Change
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18. Three steps to unfreezing
1. Disconfirmation
Dissatisfaction created
by confounding data
Necessary but insufficient
(Dismissal, denial, blame)
Change
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19. Three steps to unfreezing
2. A little survival anxiety
Confounding data =
I need to change
Change
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20. Three steps to unfreezing
3. Psychological safety
Critical to overcoming
defensiveness & denial
Change
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21. Threat from survival anxiety must
be balanced by sufficient safety
to decrease learning anxiety
Change
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Carol Dweck, Stanford
A mental model about ourselves
How do we perceive our abilities?
How do we perceive our mistakes?
Mindset
26. Mindset
Adapted from Carol Dweck [link]
Fixed Growth
Abilities Inherent Plastic
Mistakes Flaws Opportunities
Response Negative Neutral
characteristics
27. Mindset
Adapted from Carol Dweck [link]
Fixed Growth
Agency Diminished Heightened
Seeking Approval Challenges
Risk Averse Tolerant
consequences
40. Goals
When do goals get in the way?
Focus on failure feeling of threat
Learning matters more than execution
Diminished enjoyment & intrinsic motivation
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Self-coaching
Our mental models of ourselves matter
An ongoing dialogue is essential
Coaching, journaling, reflection
56. Other items…
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