1. 5 Tips in
Building
Your
Child’s Self
Esteem
By
Henry Chong
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2. W e lc o m e t o
Delivering
Happiness to Your
Family
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3. Parents, building your
child’s self esteem is your
responsibility
The most obvious place for them
to build confidence and self
worth is from you at home.
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4. Why do you need to build your
child’s self esteem?
Because they’ll be
1. Better in handling conflicts and
stress.
2. More optimistic, smiley and
enjoy life.
3. Well-rounded, respectful and
getting along well with peers
4. Able to excel in academics,
extracurricular activities and
hobbies.
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5. Low self esteem children will be
1. Anxious and frustrated easily
when encountering life’s
challenges and difficulties
2. Isolated, withdrawn and
passive.
3. Easily depressed for no
apparent reasons.
4. Finding difficulty in solving
problems, especially issues
relating to interpersonal skills.
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6. 5 Tips in building your
child’s self esteem?
1. Show your own Self
Esteem
2. Positive Praise
3. Communicate Openly
with Them
4. “ Engineer” Successes
5. Tell Them You Love
Them
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7. Demonstrate your
own Self Esteem
• Speak positively about ourselves
• It’s okay to be proud of their skills
and abilities.
• Never self-depreciate yourself or
hurting your self worth or
importance.
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8. Positive Praise
Give them honest and
positive praise
everyday
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9. Positive Praise
You praise them when
they
• Take a right action.
• Show a positive and good
attitude.
• Put in great effort though the
end result may not be as well as
you’ve expected.
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10. Positive Praise
How to praise the child
• Keep eye contact, use other
body language
• Tell the exact behavior or
action worthy of praises
• Don’t criticize immediately
after your praises
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11. Communicate
Openly
When they’re angry, sad or
depressed…..
1. Listen intently
2. Demonstrate patience and
understanding
3. No judging or laughing at them
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12. “ Engineer” Successes
Design achievable project goals:
2. Setting realistic expectations and
standards.
3. Identify necessary traits and skills
4. Encourage teamwork (siblings)
5. Praise task completed during the
project (process) instead of only at
the end (results).
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13. Say “I love
You”
1. Say “I love you” each
and every day, as many
times throughout the
day.
2. Dislike the
misbehavior; love the
child
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14. Make A Difference
in Your Child's
Life……….
Build Self Esteem
and Confidence
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