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EQ : Why Cooler Heads Prevail
Discussion and Workshop
CPE Credit
•   In order to receive CPE credit for this session, you must be present for
    the entire session.
     –   Session Code: C-0183
     –   Recommended CPE Credit = 1
     –   Delivery Method = Group Live
     –   Field of Study = Specialized Knowledge and Applications
•   Visit the Sage Summit Connect kiosks to enter CPE credit during the
    conference.
There is something you don’t know about yourself!


• It controls your behavior
• It impacts your relationships
• It causes you severe stress
• It impacts your professional performance



• Would you like to know what it is?
Your Partner in Dialogue


                    Grant Howe
                •   Vice President of R&D w/Sage
                •   15+ years in Software Development

                •   Favorite food: Italian (anything with Alfredo sauce)


                •   @geekbyte on twitter
What is EQ?

INITIAL EXERCISE
Exercise
• Please get out a pen and
  paper for this exercise

• We need 3 volunteers who
  are willing to help with this
  exercise
  – No harm will come to you, no
    heavy lifting required 
Everyone Freeze!
• On your paper write down:

   – What physical sensations do you feel?

   – What emotions do you feel?

   – What actions were you contemplating taking?

   – What response did you expect from your actions?


   – Did we “push your button”?
Introducing!


                    Erin Teter
               •   Director of Human Resources w/Sage
               •   13 years of experience in Human Resources

               •   Favorite food: Hamburgers w/ fries

               •   @eeteter on twitter
Let’s discuss your reactions
  – What physical sensations did
    you feel?

  – What emotions did you feel?

  – What actions were you
    contemplating taking?

  – What response did you expect
    from your actions?
WHY DID YOU HAVE A
REACTION?
Introducing Your Amygdala
What does the Amygdala Do?
• Flight or flight      • Good for running from
  response                tigers
• Controls release of   • “Hijacks” your logical
  adrenaline              thinking in favor of
• Suppresses logical      emotional response
  processing in the     • Not so good for
  frontal lobe            making decisions
• Creates “Fear”        • Not so good for
  sensation               communications
Emotional Intelligence (EQ)


  Emotional intelligence (EQ) refers to the
  ability to perceive, control and evaluate
                  emotions.
What is EQ?
         Reason                                        Feelings




 “Only 36% of the people we tested are able to accurately
 identify their emotions as they happen.” –Emotional Intelligence 2.0
Personality

Decision-Making
                              Stress Tolerance
Social Skills    Communication
         Trust              Time Management
Anger Management
       Empathy                   Flexibility
                     Assertiveness
Social Skills
                       Change Tolerance
What Does EQ Look Like?
Now What?
5 Key Strategies for Raising EQ
• Rapidly reduce stress
• Recognize and manage your
  emotions
• Connect with others using
  nonverbal communication
• Use humor and play to deal with
  challenges
• Resolve conflict positively and
  with confidence
Reduce Stress
• Recognition: Am I stressed?
• Response: How do I react to
  stress?
• Reduce: Stress busting
  techniques for YOU!
Connect your emotions
• Moment-to-moment Awareness
• What is your relationship with your emotions?
• Reconnect, Accept and Get Comfortable
Nonverbal Communication
                “Are you listening?”
          “Do you understand and care?”
       What is your body language saying?
•   Eye contact
•   Facial expression
•   Tone of voice
•   Posture and gesture
•   Touch
•   Timing and pace
Humor & Play
• Use humor and play to deal with challenges
  –   Take hardships in stride
  –   Smooth over differences
  –   Relax and energize ourselves
  –   Become more creative
Resolve Conflict
 Resolving conflict in the trust-building way:

 •   Stay focused in the present
 •   Choose your arguments
 •   Forgive
 •   End conflicts that can’t be resolved
Your Action Plan

  Pick a skill to work on
    • Stress, recognizing your emotions, nonverbal
      communication, humor & play, resolving
      conflict
  Pick up to 3 strategies to being using for that skill
  Get an Accountability Partner
Remember…
                           Measure Progress

    Be patient


                  Practice, practice, practice



Expect Success, not perfection
Recap
 Experienced an emotional reaction
 Learned why you reacted
 Know that reaction has a name
 5 Strategies for increasing your EQ
 Developed an “Action Plan”
To Learn More…

Emotional Intelligence 2.0
     by Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves
Go Suck a Lemon: Strategies for Improving
Your Emotional Intelligence
     by Michael Cornwall
www.helpguide.org
www.talentsmart.com
Additional Learning Opportunities
•   For information about additional learning opportunities visit
    www.SageU.com (Sage University).
•   Training options include:
     – Anytime Learning—Recorded online training sessions.
     – Realtime Learning—Live, online learning.
     – Replay Learning—Recordings of live classes.
Your Feedback is Important to Us!
•   Completing a session survey is fast and easy:
    Stop by a Sage Summit Survey kiosk or complete the
    survey on your mobile phone, laptop, or tablet through
    the Sage Summit mobile app.
     – IOS, Blackberry, or Android users may download the app
       from the App Store by searching “Sage Summit”
     – Laptop users may use this link www.sagesummit.com/webmobile
•   Remember each completed survey is another entry for one of several
    daily prize drawings, including an Apple iPad!
•   Your feedback helps us improve future sessions and presentation
    techniques.
• Session code for this session: C-0183
Contact Us
•   Presenter Contact Information:
     – Grant Howe and Erin Teter
     – grant.howe@sage.com erin.teter@sage.com
     – @geekbyte @eeteter
     – Follow us on Twitter: @Sage_Summit
     – Use the official Sage Summit hashtag: #SageSummit
•   Don’t forget to use the Sage Summit mobile or web app for all your
    conference needs.
•   Access presentations on Sage Summit Virtual Totebag.
     – www.sagesummit.com/virtualtotebag
Thank you for your participation.

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Sage Summit 2012: EQ - Why Cooler Heads Prevail

  • 1. EQ : Why Cooler Heads Prevail Discussion and Workshop
  • 2. CPE Credit • In order to receive CPE credit for this session, you must be present for the entire session. – Session Code: C-0183 – Recommended CPE Credit = 1 – Delivery Method = Group Live – Field of Study = Specialized Knowledge and Applications • Visit the Sage Summit Connect kiosks to enter CPE credit during the conference.
  • 3. There is something you don’t know about yourself! • It controls your behavior • It impacts your relationships • It causes you severe stress • It impacts your professional performance • Would you like to know what it is?
  • 4. Your Partner in Dialogue Grant Howe • Vice President of R&D w/Sage • 15+ years in Software Development • Favorite food: Italian (anything with Alfredo sauce) • @geekbyte on twitter
  • 6. Exercise • Please get out a pen and paper for this exercise • We need 3 volunteers who are willing to help with this exercise – No harm will come to you, no heavy lifting required 
  • 7. Everyone Freeze! • On your paper write down: – What physical sensations do you feel? – What emotions do you feel? – What actions were you contemplating taking? – What response did you expect from your actions? – Did we “push your button”?
  • 8. Introducing! Erin Teter • Director of Human Resources w/Sage • 13 years of experience in Human Resources • Favorite food: Hamburgers w/ fries • @eeteter on twitter
  • 9. Let’s discuss your reactions – What physical sensations did you feel? – What emotions did you feel? – What actions were you contemplating taking? – What response did you expect from your actions?
  • 10. WHY DID YOU HAVE A REACTION?
  • 12. What does the Amygdala Do? • Flight or flight • Good for running from response tigers • Controls release of • “Hijacks” your logical adrenaline thinking in favor of • Suppresses logical emotional response processing in the • Not so good for frontal lobe making decisions • Creates “Fear” • Not so good for sensation communications
  • 13. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Emotional intelligence (EQ) refers to the ability to perceive, control and evaluate emotions.
  • 14. What is EQ? Reason Feelings “Only 36% of the people we tested are able to accurately identify their emotions as they happen.” –Emotional Intelligence 2.0
  • 15. Personality Decision-Making Stress Tolerance Social Skills Communication Trust Time Management Anger Management Empathy Flexibility Assertiveness Social Skills Change Tolerance
  • 16. What Does EQ Look Like?
  • 18. 5 Key Strategies for Raising EQ • Rapidly reduce stress • Recognize and manage your emotions • Connect with others using nonverbal communication • Use humor and play to deal with challenges • Resolve conflict positively and with confidence
  • 19. Reduce Stress • Recognition: Am I stressed? • Response: How do I react to stress? • Reduce: Stress busting techniques for YOU!
  • 20. Connect your emotions • Moment-to-moment Awareness • What is your relationship with your emotions? • Reconnect, Accept and Get Comfortable
  • 21. Nonverbal Communication “Are you listening?” “Do you understand and care?” What is your body language saying? • Eye contact • Facial expression • Tone of voice • Posture and gesture • Touch • Timing and pace
  • 22. Humor & Play • Use humor and play to deal with challenges – Take hardships in stride – Smooth over differences – Relax and energize ourselves – Become more creative
  • 23. Resolve Conflict Resolving conflict in the trust-building way: • Stay focused in the present • Choose your arguments • Forgive • End conflicts that can’t be resolved
  • 24. Your Action Plan  Pick a skill to work on • Stress, recognizing your emotions, nonverbal communication, humor & play, resolving conflict  Pick up to 3 strategies to being using for that skill  Get an Accountability Partner
  • 25. Remember… Measure Progress Be patient Practice, practice, practice Expect Success, not perfection
  • 26. Recap  Experienced an emotional reaction  Learned why you reacted  Know that reaction has a name  5 Strategies for increasing your EQ  Developed an “Action Plan”
  • 27. To Learn More… Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves Go Suck a Lemon: Strategies for Improving Your Emotional Intelligence by Michael Cornwall www.helpguide.org www.talentsmart.com
  • 28. Additional Learning Opportunities • For information about additional learning opportunities visit www.SageU.com (Sage University). • Training options include: – Anytime Learning—Recorded online training sessions. – Realtime Learning—Live, online learning. – Replay Learning—Recordings of live classes.
  • 29. Your Feedback is Important to Us! • Completing a session survey is fast and easy: Stop by a Sage Summit Survey kiosk or complete the survey on your mobile phone, laptop, or tablet through the Sage Summit mobile app. – IOS, Blackberry, or Android users may download the app from the App Store by searching “Sage Summit” – Laptop users may use this link www.sagesummit.com/webmobile • Remember each completed survey is another entry for one of several daily prize drawings, including an Apple iPad! • Your feedback helps us improve future sessions and presentation techniques. • Session code for this session: C-0183
  • 30. Contact Us • Presenter Contact Information: – Grant Howe and Erin Teter – grant.howe@sage.com erin.teter@sage.com – @geekbyte @eeteter – Follow us on Twitter: @Sage_Summit – Use the official Sage Summit hashtag: #SageSummit • Don’t forget to use the Sage Summit mobile or web app for all your conference needs. • Access presentations on Sage Summit Virtual Totebag. – www.sagesummit.com/virtualtotebag Thank you for your participation.