The author took a great risk by moving from their hometown to Los Angeles against others' advice. They were accompanied on the risky move by their cat Kona and best friend Sally. In LA, the author felt like an outsider at times but the risk led them to find new lifelong friends and a new career path by applying to graduate school. The biggest risks the author took were falling in love, getting married in a black dress, and committing to sobriety at a young age while living in Los Angeles. They believe that without risk, there is no reward or true life.