The document discusses how children interact freely with others regardless of gender but as people mature they begin categorizing and judging others, including being fearful of females. It suggests the key is seeing females as ordinary people by having casual conversations without expectations of anything happening, as this builds comfort and sees them as people rather than creatures with power. Regularly talking to females helps reach a level of comfort where interaction becomes fun.
12. The more we have to start becoming
responsible for our lives, the less free
stuff and support we get from our
parents and other adults, we don't
really have the luxury to throw caution
to the wind.
30. Well, you could go out and get
married, but that would kind of defeat
the purpose!
31. The easiest way to see females as
ordinary people, (which they are,
BTW) is to simply talk to as many as
you can WITHOUT having any kind of
hope or expectation that anything will
happen OTHER than a polite
conversation.