This document discusses the differences between natural charisma in real life versus on television. It notes that television characters are fictional and have scripted lines, sounding very confident but less so in unscripted settings like interviews. Real life naturally charismatic people genuinely enjoy talking to and engaging with others, making them feel good, and are relaxed and comfortable in social situations. It encourages the reader to develop their own social skills by starting conversations to attract others.
9. Watch that same actor in an interview,
or giving a speech, and they sound a
lot less confidence, and the stuff they
say is lot less "well thought out."
10. This is what happens when they don't
have people writing their lines.
23. The idea that you can glide through life
as the silent, lone wolf, but then
suddenly turn on the charm when you
see Miss Right is kind of far-fetched.