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1. How Long Do These Take To Learn?

2. When you were a little kid, learning
was easy.

3. Since it happened automatically, you
didn't have to think about it.

4. You just kept trying to do something
until you could do it.

5. This is how all humans learned, until
very recently.

6. When we try this as adults, it's called
"modeling."

7. Meaning we see somebody doing
something we'd like to do, and then
try and copy them.

8. Unfortunately, it's not always so easy.

9. Because not only do you have to DO
what they do, you also have to NOT
DO what they DON'T do.

10. This is the missing ingredient if you've
been trying to "learn" from gurus who
promise to "show you step by step to
get what I've done."

11. Now sometimes, this is easy. If you're
copying somebody's cake-baking
technique, for example.

12. Because when YOU operate on the
ingredients, they will respond the
same way they do when THEY operate
on the ingredients.

13. It doesn't matter WHO puts the batter
in the oven.

14. So long a the batter is prepared the
same way, and the oven is the right
temperature, you'll get the same cake.

15. But often times we're copying people
who have been INTERACTING with a
certain environment.

16. And unless YOU are interacting in the
same environment in the same way,
you'll get a different result.

17. Let's say you wanted to study acting.
And you copied the precise
movements speech patterns of the
most famous stage actors around.

18. So much so you were EXACTLY the
same.

19. But unless you could reproduce the
same audience, with the same
expectations, you'll get a different
result.

20. It's sort like that old saying, "You can't
step in the same river twice."

21. Only it's WAY more complicated.

22. No matter how much you model
somebody, you'll ALWAYS be operating
within a slightly different environment.

23. Does this mean modeling is useless?

24. Not at all.

25. It just means that you need to model a
meta-skill, rather than surface skill.

26. What does this mean?

27. Let's say you memorized a boxing
match from Mike Tyson.

28. You copied his EXACT punches, at the
EXACT time.

29. Obviously, this would NEVER work.

30. Because all the punches and blocks
would be based SOLELY on what the
other guy was doing.

31. Paying attention to feedback is the
missing ingredient.

32. No matter HOW WELL you copy some
"step by step" procedure, if you don't
pay attention to feedback, AND adjust
accordingly, you're doomed.

33. But paying attention to feedback is
easy.

34. It's natural.

35. It's how you learned to walk.

36. If you leaned forward too much, you'd
fall on your face.

37. And your inherent feedback-response
mechanism told you to not lean
forward so much next time.

38. So long as you are ALWAYS open to
feedback, and you are willing to adjust,
you'll always get better.

39. And then you'll learn the secret about
things like learning Covert Hypnosis.

40. You'll NEVER FINISH learning. Because
you can always get better based on the
feedback you get.

41. Compared to others, who sit in a
seminar and listen, or read a book and
think they are DONE.

42. YOU will always be improving, learning
and getting better.

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