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2. When a guy is checking out a girl, he's
making a LOT of assumptions about
her.

3. Plenty of guys only need a picture of a
girl to literally fall in love with her.

4. Now, think about what's going on for
this to happen.

5. They're basically assuming all kinds of
things about her personality, her likes,
dislikes, beliefs, etc.

6. All from her pretty face and smoking
body.

7. All of which are highly made up to
accentuate the "good" parts, and
minimize or hide the "bad" parts.

8. If you've ever had the "let down"
experience of seeing a favorite actor or
actress in an interview, or give a
speech during an awards ceremony,
this is why.

9. We see them up on the screen, and
imagine their characters (whose words
are written by others and actions
dictated by others) and actually think
that's really them, on some level.

10. Then when they're in an interview, and
sound nervous, super shy, or just plain
dumb, it's kind of a let down.

11. That's what will happen when you
walk over to that girl, imagining that
she's a super perfect princess.

12. And from her standpoint, it seems
really creepy.

13. Think about it this way.

14. Imagine some guy grabbed you off the
street, and told you he had a job at a
big company, and he KNEW you were
perfect for the job.

15. He didn't want to know your skills,
your background, your education. He
just told you he'd pay you alot, and he
KNEW you'd be a PERFECT MATCH for
the company.

16. On top of that, he seemed to be totally
desperate to hire you.

17. Would you take the job?

18. Unless you were one meal away from
dying of starvation, probably not.

19. After all, what kind of job and what
kind of company doesn't care about
your skills?

20. To even further expand this mind
experiment, imagine that you'd just
spend four years in school, working on
a degree you thought was really
important.

21. And this crazy hiring guy didn't seem
to care.

22. How would THAT make you feel?

23. This is precisely how girls feel when
you walk up making all kinds of
assumptions about her based ONLY on
her looks.

24. Sure, a girl needs to look good.

25. There's no reason to interact (if you're
looking for a relationship of some sort)
unless you're physically attracted.

26. But don't let that be your only reason.

27. You need to talk to her.

28. Find out what she's like.

29. Figure you need at least FIVE things
that must be true about any girl you
date.

30. And only ONE of them can be her
looks.

31. What would the other four be?

32. If you don't have a list, you should
have one.

33. A good solid list of things about her
that need to be true.

34. Then when you see a cutie, you KNOW
she's only 1/5 of the way there.

35. The rest you need to find out via
regular, old fashioned conversation.

36. This will not only make her easier to
talk to, but YOU will be much more
attractive.

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