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If you chase a girl who's not interested in you, it can be a very long and fruitless pursuit. On the other hand, if you spend your time looking for girls who are already interested in you, you'll find what you want much faster.
32. One is that finding your dream girl is
not a seduction process, but a sorting
process.
33. It's much, much easier to find
somebody who likes you just the way
you are, then taking some girl who
maybe likes you and spending all kinds
of time, money and energy chasing
her.
34. One thing that will help is to simply
practice flirting with girls.
35. Only flirting. Not number closing or
long drawn out conversations where
you hope something eventually
happens.