12. “…being excluded from a group triggers
activity in the same regions of the brain
associated with physical pain.”
13. Bronnie Ware
The Top Five Regrets
of the Dying:
A Life Transformed by
the Dearly Departing
14. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
15. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
16. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
17. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
18. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
19. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
20. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.
21. I wish I’d had the
courage to live a
life true to myself,
not the life others
expected of me.
22. Fear of Being
Different Stifles
Talent
Harvard Business Review
March 2014
Kenji Yoshino, Christie Smith
23.
24. 29% altered their attire, grooming or
mannerisms to make their identity
less obvious
40% refrained from behavior
commonly associated with a given
identity
57% avoided sticking up for their
identity group
18% limited contact with members
of a group they belong to
34. groupthink:
Mode of thinking that happens
when the desire for harmony in a
decision-making group overrides a
realistic appraisal of alternatives.
Group members try to minimize
conflict and reach a consensus
decision without critical evaluation
of alternative ideas or viewpoints.
35. Group intelligence is
not strongly tied to
either the average
intelligence of the
members or the team’s
smartest member.
-Thomas Malone, MIT Center for Collective
Intelligence
55. Top Regrets of The Dying
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a
life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express
my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my
friends.
5. I with that I had let myself be happier.