This document outlines seven strategies for empowering oneself: 1) Clarifying personal values, 2) Facing fears to build courage, 3) Learning from adversity, 4) Challenging negative self-talk, 5) Using body language and facial expressions to influence thinking, 6) Visualizing desired futures, and 7) Committing to a daily self-empowerment pledge focusing on responsibility, accountability, determination, contribution, resilience, perspective, and faith. The author argues that making a one-minute daily commitment to these strategies can profoundly change one's life by overcoming disempowering influences like low self-esteem, limiting beliefs, and negative influences from others.
83. For a variety of evolutionary
reasons, the human mind
automatically gravitates
toward negative, frightening
and depressing thoughts.
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: The Evolving Self: A
Psychology for the New Millennium
122. Joe’s Youroscope
Surprising good news will
come to you from out of
the blue – but it will be
disguised as an unpleasant
chore so pay attention…
123. Joe’s Youroscope (contd.)
What will at first seem like
an incidental conversation
with a stranger will evolve
into a wonderful client
relationship and personal
friendship
124. Joe’s Youroscope (contd.)
A worry that has been
keeping you awake at night
will prove to have been
interest on a debt that you
do not owe…
143. Monday’s Promise: Responsibility
I will take complete responsibility for my
health, my happiness, my success, and my
life, and will not blame others for my
problems or predicaments.
144. Tuesday’s Promise: Accountability
I will not allow low self-esteem,
self-limiting beliefs, or the negativity
of others to prevent me from achieving
my authentic goals and from becoming
the person I am meant to be.
145. Wednesday’s Promise:
Determination
I will do the things I’m
afraid to do, but which
I know should be done.
Sometimes this will
mean asking for help
to do that which I
cannot do by myself.
146. Thursday’s Promise: Contribution
I will earn the help I need in advance
by helping other people now, and repay
the help I receive by serving others
later.
147. Friday’s Promise: Resilience
I will face rejection and failure
with courage, awareness,
and perseverance,
making these experiences
the platform for future
acceptance and success.
148. Saturday’s Promise: Perspective
Though I might not understand
why adversity happens, by my
conscious choice I will find
strength, compassion, and
grace through my trials.
149. Sunday’s Promise: Faith
My faith and my gratitude for all
that I have been blessed with will
shine through in my attitudes
and in my actions.
153. You keep promising yourself that you
will be responsible, accountable, and
determined; make a contribution, be
resilient in the face of adversity, have a
positive perspective,
and that your faith
will shine through.
154. Then you catch yourself whining and
complaining, procrastinating,
gossiping, blaming others for your
problems, taking when you should be
giving, and pretending
that you have no power.
162. Question #1:
If you personally were to take
these seven promises to heart,
would you be better off than
where you are headed now –
personally, professionally,
financially, and spiritually?
163. Question #2:
If everyone where you work made
a good faith effort to live these
seven promises, would you do a
better job of serving customers
and of supporting each other?
164. If your answer to these
two questions is…
And if you’re
being honest,
that’s what your
answer will be.
165. Then why wouldn’t you
invest those 365 minutes
in yourself? Do it,
because no one can
empower you
but you.