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Have You Ever Felt Like Giving Up On Your
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2. Sometimes life seems to getincrediblyhard if not downright
impossible.When we get into a fearful state where we are afraid we don’thave whatit takes to succeed or that our
peers will notlove and accept us as we pursue our dreams,itcan feel totally hopeless.We don’t like the pain or fear
we feel so our natural instinctis to run away from whatwe fear and somehow end the pain.For mostpeople this
involves working jobs they hate, staying in relationships thatno longer serve them,neglecting their health and
generallyliving a life that is less than they are capable of living.
You know you wantbetter than you have now, it justseems thatwhatyou wantis way far off into the future. So far off
that at times,you feel like saying “fuck it, what’s the point?” When we choose to chase after an audacious goal,it
becomes easyto get discouraged with you look at the enorm ityof the task you have undertaken.Much of your time
may be spentworking on,spending moneyon and spending countless hours trying to figure out how to make an idea
into a profitable business model.While you spend all ofyour valuable time and energy on these endeavors,actual
results,profitand/or the reward you are seeking are years in the future. Most of the time quite frankly, it can seem like
an exercise in futility. You may ask yourself“why should Ispend mytime and moneyworking on something thatmay
never come to fruition?”
Most people when faced with these challenges or emotions will give up and try to find anything that will bring them
peace of mind and certainty. In the process,their dreams and goals getthrown outthe window.Everyone has a
struggle.One of my new clients has always wanted to be a veterinarian.He never went for it because his fear always
caused him to give up before he even really got started.After high school he spentseveral years in the Navy and
now is a truck driver driving the big rigs.He’s miserable.He’s always on the road and its not easy to meetwomen in
his line of work. He’s also scared and fearful of the future. In his latestemail he contemplates quitting and giving up
because he fears he is meantto justbe a loser.Here’s his email:
Corey..I don’t believe I can do any of this shit honestly.Its too hard man..I cantseem to rid myselfof my loathsome
dumb-ass past..I cantrid the demons and progress fwd worth a fuck..I believe I was put here to just not get m uch
done.Yes I know,giving up is easy.I truly want a real satisfying great life so damn bad I can taste it!,but reality sets in
and I realize some ofus are just not meantto be greator get what we want.I only got laid 2x last year. That’s how
much I’m hated.Plus,I don’t think I`ll ever get over the fact that there`s millions ofdudes who never had/have to do

3. shit and they are somehowtop dogs and wanted by all the hotties. Fuckin A man,all the lucky fuckers have to do is
merely existand the world is theirs!They can have any woman they want anytime!Withoutquestion!Must be nice to
live life effortlessly and get whatever and whoever you want.I`ll probably never getover that fact.Oh well,at least I
gave a little effort,but then I realize over and over that all will be futile.You say do the work and itll pay off..I say
bullshitsome ofus are actually losers.I went to see my favorite band Motorhead sat nite in Chicago,and ithit me..I`m
so far behind everyone else in the game oflife so why play.Im a good person and what do I get for being me?
Absofuckinglutely NOTHING.I wish it was all different I truly do. I would bustmy ass like no tomorrowif I knew it
would pay off. Anyhow, I`ll email you next week to let you knowif I decide to continue with this coaching thing.Doubtit
seriously.Until then,enjoy helping others and enjoy your life because you`re one of the many lucky ones.Tom.
Here’s myresponse to Tom’s email:
Brother Tom!
“Inaction breeds doubtand fear. Action breeds confidence and courage.” ~ Dale Carnegie
When I become fearful,discouraged athow long certain things in my life are taking to develop, etc. the thing that
makes me feel better the mostis… taking some kind of action. When we take action we move forward towards our
goals. When we do nothing,we stay put and make NO progress.
Stop beating yourselfup. Give yourselfcredit for the things you are changing. That includes how you think and how
you act. Since we have started working together you have gotten really clear about who you are and what you really
want to become in life. What was the first thing your mother said when you told her you were going to go to school to
be a veterinarian? “You’ve always wanted to be a veterinarian!”
Deep down we always know what we really wantand des erve in life. We justchoose to let fear (false evidence
appearing real) slow us down and take less action than we would if we had no fear. The more you take action, the
more your confidence and courage will grow.
Take baby steps. Think of little goals. Once you apply for your GI bill and enroll full time in school,they only give you
a few years to get it done. So take 1 class and pay for it on your own to testthe waters.
Go to Purdue’s website and download the curriculum for veterinary school. This will listall of your pre-
med/undergraduate classes you need to take. It will include english,physics,chemistry,etc. which are classes
offered at every communitycollege in the country. Go to a guidance counselor atyour local communitycollege and
bring the curriculum you downloaded from Purdue. Pick one of the lower level classes like english,chemistry,etc.
(classes thatPurdue will acceptwhen you transfer) that you have an interestin and register for it. I am sure they will
have a night class you can take once a week on tuesday evenings. If its a 3 credit hour class itwill be 2 1/2 hours
long once a week usually.
You can still drive your truck during the day. Once a week you can take a class thatis of interestto you. You will be
surprised to see young kids,people your age and much older in your class.People go back to school all the time and
change careers later in life.

4. Its NEVER too late to be what you mighthave been.
What happens before/during/after class is people form studygroups atthese classes thatget together outside of
school. This will expand your social circle and help you make some new like minded friends. People justlike you
who are going for their dreams. If you continue to hang out with people who have no goals and dreams,you will
never go anywhere in life. The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the expectations of your peer group.
You know how you have said to me many times… “I’m better than that guy, I am better looking,he has nothing on
me,I deserve a great chick, etc.”? You are right. You do.
By taking only one class you can use your downtime in your truck cab to study and ace that one class. I can teach
you how to study so you can be efficientand learn how to pass their tests. Being successful in college is due to your
ability to pass tests,notnecessarilylearn stuff thats importantto you.
You are not a loser,nor did God design you that way. How do I know you are not a loser? Dude,you survived boot
camp. How manytimes did you want to quitthat shit? In the Navy you can’t justsay fuck it!, and then leave. You
were very successful in the Navy doing something thatpretty much sucked.
Justthink how successful you can be at doing something thatas you said you, “truly want a real satisfying greatlife
so damn bad I can taste it!”
By the way, things don’tjustfall into my lap. I’ve always had to work for the things I wanted. You are imagining
things thinking thatreally successful people have lives filled with bliss and no challenges. They struggle justas much
as you do. However, they simplyREFUSE TO QUIT when things gettough or they have a bad day.
Its ok to feel the way you do Tom. As a matter of fact, its healthy. You have to feel it to heal it. You know how to
ignore the urge to quit already (bootcamp).
Next time you wanna quit,justfind a way to keep moving forward like you always have. Or juststop,relax and come
back to it a few hours later or the next day with a fresh mind and heart. No need to feel guilty about it. Some days are
better than others. Some days you will make more progress than others. Take the good with the bad.
Look at it this way. In 20 years, you are going to be someplace. Every day you choose to get up and be a truck
driver. A profession you have stated you hate along with the lifestyle.
You motivate yourself to get up every day to drive a truck which you hate. You can justas easilyget yourselfup to
go to school or study and sit next to some sweetsmelling young hottie who wants you to be her study partner.
Be surrounded byan endless supplyof beautiful women you can practice your skills on… or… sit in a truck by
yourselfhating every minute of it for the next 20 years knowing that you could be hanging outwith and getting to
know lots of beautiful women. You could even say to yourself… I will date no beautiful women I know… only be their
friends. Only try to date their girl friends. It wont be long before they are wondering why you aren’t interested in

5. them. That’s an effortless lifestyle. A target rich environmentfull of beautiful and intellectuallystimulating people.
You can NEVER have too many hot girls as friends. Hot girls have hot friends.
Dude,start out with one class. U got a month or more before summer school starts to enroll and pay for a class out
of your own pocket (you don’twant to start GI bill until you are ready for full time classes). Worse case,justget
registered and work on your body and working out until school starts for the fall semester ifsummer semester is too
soon. After you finish thatfirst class you can decide if you want to take another one, or stop there. You can even
“audit” a class. That means you are not graded. You pay for and experience class,you justdon’t have to take the
tests.No pressure to pass or fail. You can even take the tests and see how you would have done had you taken the
class for credit. You have tons of options!
Dude,don’t you understand? You have choices,unlike when you were in the Navy. You can do anything you want
right now. Go visit a local communitycollege and talk to a guidance counselor and tell them where you want to go to
school.
You are going to be somewhere in 20 years. You have to get up everyday and be something. Why not be something
you really wantto be? Being something thatyou hate (truck driver) and that sucks is easy4 you. Can you imagine
what a breeze school will be once you get into it, studying and learning aboutthings you have a passion for? Dude,
we’re all giants inside. Once we have decided whatkind of giantwe want to be, we justhave to take action every day
to become that giantor a better version of that giant. Justimagine who you will be after 8 years of college and 12
years as a veterinarian. Think about all of the animals you will help.They are waiting for you. People are buying
dogs and cats right now that will be your patients in 10-15 years! You can be there right when they need you most!
That’s exciting!
Sorry dude.Quitting is for pussies. You are no pussy! Pussies never call me. Pussies never send me emails.They
are too chicken shit. Its ok to have a low pointand want to quit. Get used to feeling like this. Its going to happen
more and more as you move forward and step outside ofyour comfortzone and push up againstyour fears.
However, the more you take action, the less quitting will enter your mind.
You got this brother Tom! You can do this! I believe in you!
From my heart to yours,
Corey
PS: You got laid 2 x lastyear? Do you know how manyguys that read my newsletters would love to have gotten laid
2 x lastyear? I talk to guys who are 30 years old, never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl, never had sex,
etc. You got nothing to complain about. Be grateful for whatyou have and whatyou have accomplished. Get off
your fucking cross. Way more guys have it worse than you.
Here’s his next email:

6. Corey..If you would kindly disregard my weak ass last email to you. It ain’t easy being me butI knowI can unfuck
everything from the past by just ignoring it and moving forward..like thatline from the muthafuckin Bad Brains
song..”yeah we got that attitude,yeah we got that PMA!!” Anyway I got to tell ya this quick and see what ya get out of
it..My bestfriend`s girl is wantin to hook me up with her ex sis-in-law.This gal is pretty fine and prissy girly and seems
like real fun.She asked for my # and started texting me.We`ve talked a few times (good conversation) and text alot.
Thing is,I hope I ain’t gave too much info aboutme away. She flirts dirty via text and I try to keep my responses kinda
aloofbutfun n still direct. I`m tryin 2 build excitementhere butit`s hard to not go overboard ya know? She lives out in
Indiana where I wanna move to anyway and our first meeting will be in a month,unless she wants to ride up to see
me.Who knows? Anything can happen.I will resist fucking her the 1st time out of respect and to remain an old -skool
gentleman.Itwill be hard tho, if we do hit it off. Just gotta stay centered is all. She says she`s nervous butexcited
and I say I`m all smiles and look fwd to meeting her.She also says she thinks I will like her.Sounds great and she is
making iteasy in a way, butI gotta keep from going overboard with the conversation.I gotta keep itlight and funny I
knowman,and I’ve got compliments thus far from her aboutmy way with words. I`m really lookin forward to this
Corey. She`s a knockout!Any solid ideas to keep itlight and any tips for conversation starters? It`s goin good thus far
and we are goofin around havin fun gettin 2 know each other. How aboutquestions to ask her to show genuine
interest (in person and by text or talkin on the phone)? This is one of the toughestthings for me cuz I don’t wanna
drone on aboutme,even though I’ve had a widely traveled and loud and unique life,and I don’t know what she`s all
about.Ol` gal got 2 grown boys and is recently out of a crummy relationship.I knowchivalry is dead nowadays but not
for me. Like I said,I`m from an old-skool gentleman mold kinda like Clark Gable or Roger Moore 007,but I keep it
modern and notstale or gay. Any input as far as this goes would be great! Thanks man.Tom.
Here’s myresponse to Tom’s 2nd email:
Dude,YOU’RE AWESOME!!!!! I am so proud of you.
I got your emails and will make a nice email summaryof my answers which includes the notes from things we will
discuss in our coaching call tomorrow.
This new chick is simply… cannon fodder. Someone to practice your skills on.
We’re gonna have a greatcoaching call tomorrow! Good stuff!
I told you that you could do it. Now you are. Progress. Keep moving forward. Thats all it takes. Baby steps.
From my heartto yours,
Corey
Here’s mynotes after our coaching call.Tom is meeting this girl in person in abouta month.She already has been
sexting him.She is doing mostof the pursuing which is the way you want it. They have mutual friends who introduced
them via email and pictures.He also has another date lined up this weekend with another girl. He’s made a big
turnaround in a few weeks!

7. He wanted me to give him some questions to ask her (the chick from out of town that’s sexting him already-chicks
want it justas bad as men do) when he meets this other girl in person.As I say in my book,the person asking the
questions is the one thatis in control of the conversation.When a woman is telling you something its good to say
things like… “really?” “wow!” “oh, my God” as you would say to someone who is telling you something compelling.I
mean,if you like the girl you’d be excited to learn anything abouther.
You could ask… “whathave you always wanted a man to do to you, but were afraid to ask him?” “whatis the most
trouble you ever got into as a kid?” “What’s your naughtiestsecret?” “Whatdo you do when no one else is around
that you would be embarrassed aboutifpeople saw you?” “What is the mostpublic place you have ever had sex?”
“What is the mostfun you’ve ever had?” “What are you mostproud of in your life and why are you proud of it?”
“What’s your greatestaccomplishment?” The key is to come up with open ended questions thatshe can’tgive justa
yes or no response to.Let her do 70%-80% ofthe talking, that way you remain a mystery.
These obviouslyare not questions you ask a woman on a first date, however, in this situation mutual friends have
introduced them and made him outto be a total stud so he’s a lot further along.She has already hinted several times
aboutsleeping with him.He’s done a greatjob of being a mystery and she is asking… “I hope you like me” “if you like
me”,etc. He has been unclear abouthis feelings.This has caused her to pursue him more and more as well as
causing her interestlevel to go up. You can’t be getting dumped when she is chasing you.
Now he’s got some success and he is building momentum.The besttime to meetnew women is when you’re already
meeting and dating women.Be looking for the third girl to hang out with. Then the fourth, etc. Repetition is the mother
of skill.Success breeds confidence.Be excited aboutyour future and your dreams as you chase after them.This is
exciting and sexy to women.A man who is pursuing his dreams thatis.He seems alive and exciting. He’s going
places.Chasing your dreams is fun and exciting. Working a job and living a life you hate makes it pretty hard to get
excited long term. You can only fake it for about90 days when you meetsomeone new until the “real you” comes out.
Human beings need something to be excited about. Like it says in the bible… withouta vision the people perish.You
can’t fuck a woman with a limp dick.Just like you need a boner to have sex, you have to have a “boner” aboutyour
life. Masculine energyis mostalive and strong when it has a purpose and a mission thatis compelling.A woman
wants you to fill her up with that passionate boner and purpose ofyours… physically, emotionallyand spiritually.
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