Using my own life's lessons to help others develop their own capacity to bring about the changes that will enable them to live a healthy, purposeful life.
4. Plan
Plan to give thanks!
Plan to be purposeful!
Plan to make a difference!
Plan to accomplish something!
Plan to be excellent!
Plan to accept challenges!
Plan to be courageous!
Plan to be disappointed!
Plan to fall!
Plan to pick yourself back up after the fall!
5. Love
Love your God or Spiritual Guide!
Love yourself!
Love your family, even when it’s difficult!
Love your friends, even the ones that aren’t always so nice!
Love your cat, your dog, your animals!
Love your country, your world and all they have to offer!
Love your LIFE, even when it stinks!
6. Live!
Live to love!
Live to give!
Live to be excellent!
Live with grace, hope, faith and wisdom!
Live with honesty, integrity, and respect!
Live to be loved,challenged, and forgiven.
Live with energy, zest and drive!
Live Big!
7. How do I begin to live
well?
Begin each day with forgiveness and gratitude.
Begin each day with purpose.
Begin each day with a smile.
Begin each day with good intentions.
Begin each day with the knowledge that you determine how
good your day will be.
Begin each day with a plan and take action.
8. “If the only prayer you ever say in life is ‘Thank you’… that is
enough.”
~ Meister Eckert
How can I begin to give thanks?
9. Why ?
Because it’s the right thing to do for your
spiritual self. Just do it!
10. Write a letter to express your thanks. It doesn’t
matter to whom you’re writing you’re letter, as
long as it gets done.
Address it to:
God
Buddha
An angel
A friend
A family member
To yourself
11. The letter should
include:
The date
The salutation
Thank you’s for the special people in your life
Thank you’s for food on the table
Thank you’s for a healthy body and mind
Thank you’s for all the freedoms and privileges in your life
Requests for things like: strength, courage, love, peace,
wisdom etc…
Your signature
12. What do I do with the
letter after I write it?
You place it in a safe place, a place that you can remember.
It can be a pretty box, a shoe box, a journal it really doesn’t
matter this is between you and your GOD. Just keep it safe.
13. Why do I need it keep
it safe?
You need to keep it safe because it’s a letter which is
precious, private and true.
It is a letter that is written with honesty and integrity, which
reveals your sins, sorrows, desires, and gratitude's, which
can lead you to your true purpose.
It is a measuring tool, which helps you see your personal
growth and accomplishments.
14. How do I begin my
journey of goal
setting?
Take action, put the pen to paper.
Write two different sets of goals.
Mini
Big
15. Action Steps
Get moving
Get out of bed
Get off the couch
Write your goals down
Write your script
Draw your set
Set the stage
Play the lead
Write your letter of Gratitude
Talk to yourself
“Believing is achieving.”
16. Mirror Talk is a way in which you can begin to retrain your
mind and develop new habits. It is talking yourself in the
mirror.
18. What does it take to get started?
It takes desire to want to change.
It takes an open mind.
It takes diligence and patience.
It takes your willingness to feel silly or uncomfortable.
19. What are the steps?
You need to look yourself in the mirror and study you.
Roll your shoulders back
Put a smile on your face
Talk to yourself
20. Well, you’re going to say something like this; I’m (your
name) and I am beautiful, pretty,/handsome and
worthy of living a happy, prosperous, and healthy life
full of love.
21. You want to do this at least six times every day. This helps
the mind begin to believe what the mouth is saying.
“Believing is achieving and what you perceive is what you
see.”
22. Goals
“In the absence of clearly defined goals, we are forced
to concentrate on activity and ultimately become
enslaved by it.”
~ Chuck Coonradt
23. Goal Setting
Why set goals?
Goals are important tools and can change the quality of our
life.
Goal setting is valuable in all parts of your life, whether it
be in work, sports, academics, business, or everyday life.
Goals help our conscious mind to connect to our
unconscious mind.
Goals keep us motivated.
Goals help us to achieve our dreams and desires.
24. What are the steps to
goal setting?
You need to be realistic
They need to be obtainable
You need to be clear about what it is that you want to
accomplish
You need to write your goals down
You need to take action
You need to have two different sets of goals.
25. Goals must be your
own
Races are won by individuals.
Super Bowl rings are won by individual players.
Weight Loss is achieved by an individual dieter.
Academic achievement is made by individual aspirations and
diligence.
26. Goals must be positive
“The objective of the game is to win, fairly, squarely, and by
the rules, but to win.”
~~ Vince Lombardi
“The object of any competition or task should be to
complete it with honesty and integrity. Without these two
characteristics you lose and ultimately defeat your purpose.”
~ LPS
27. Goals must be
measurable
Measurement is essential, without the ability to
measure there is nothing to compare it to.
Examples of Measurable goals
Newspaper deadlines for a reporter
Academic Achievement
To turn in all homework on time
To turn in works of excellence
To make honor roll
Physical Appearance
To maintain a healthy weight
To maintain physically fit and in shape
To maintain good hygiene
Athletic measurements
To achieve a faster time
To break the school or state record
28. Get Specific
If you can’t measure it, you won’t achieve it.
Knowing what we have to overcome or achieve is what keeps
us going.
Without a plan you don’t know where you’re going and it’s
easy to take a wrong turn.
Wrong turns usually put us somewhere we don’t want to be and
take up valuable time.
Clearly defined goals produce results
Unclear goals are difficult to obtain, because you don’t know
what you’re striving to achieve.
29. Goals must show
results
Goals must real
They must be visible
Goals must be something that can be seen by the eye.
Statistics and percentages
Grade point average
Shooting average
Dollars
Sales per hour
Invoices
30. Goals must show
mental and emotional
change
Fear must be conquered
Anger must be managed
Passion must be found
Joy must be experienced
Pride must be felt
31. Goals must be realistic
If you never danced in your life and have no natural talent
chances are you won’t be a famous ballet dancer.
If your not 5’7” or taller with a gorgeous face and wear a
size 6 chances are you won’t be a runway model.
If your not motivated to read and study chances are you
won’t become a great scholar.
32. Why must goals be
written down?
Writing your goals down give you direction; they work as
your compass.
The act of writing the goal down provides you with
something tangible, so you can measure your goals,
whether that be to see success or failure.
By writing your goals down they provide us with
knowledge of what we truly want and desire. This allows us
to separate what it is that we think we want from what we
really want.
33. More about writing goals
The act of writing our goals or intentions down allows for us
to connect with our subconscious. This is what enables us
to achieve our true desires.
You are forced to look at your accomplishments or failures
in black and white.
By writing your goals or intentions down you are provided
with a visual reminder.
34. Mini Goals
Mini goals: These are small goals that are easily obtained. An
example of a mini goal is as simple as completing what is on
your list of to do’s.
The carpets need cleaned
Getting that recipe for dinner downloaded
The bathroom needs scrubbed
Getting up for open gym
Taking the dog for a walk
You get the point!
35. The first step is to remember to be realistic.
Step two, write it down and have a measurable plan. Be
specific!
Step three, take action!
Step four, remember BIG goals take time and a lot of effort.
36. When do I start
writing my Big
Goals?
Right away!
NOW!!!
37. How do I begin?
Be POSITIVE
KNOW YOU CONTROL YOUR DESTINY
Get clear
Take action steps
Put the pen to paper
Write out the specifics
Give yourself deadlines
Give yourself motivators
Visualize
Talk to yourself