I gave this talk at Barcamp 2013 in Saskatoon, SK Canada. I wanted to talk about how I felt I had achieved success in my own career and the things that led me to the current place in life.
5. Stereotypes - Mothers
“Sad white babies with mean Feminist
mommies”
http://jessicavalenti.com/post/25465502300/sad-white-babies-with-mean-feminist-mommies-the
9. 2. Speak Your Truth
- Simplify
- There is no one truth in a negotiation
10. 3. Find Allies & Advocates
- People who you trust
- People who trust you
- Mentors
- Mentees
- Advocate for you and help you gain influence
11. 4. Be Accountable
- Follow through on commitments
- Do what you say you will do
- Understand your impact on others
12. 5. Align & Adjust Goals
- To meet company needs
- Frame needs within company goals
- Boast most about what matters to others
13. 6. Stop Caring
- “Freedom 30”
- Stop caring so much about what others think
- Focus on your own achievements & success
- If the shoe doesn’t fit...
14. 7. Be Humble
- Never stop learning
- Confidence without arrogance
- Every job matters
15. Influences
- Kate Matsudaira: If You Don't Understand
People, You Don't Understand Ops (Velocity SC
2013)
- Sheryl Sandberg: Lean In
- Elisabeth Badinter: The Conflict: How
Modern Motherhood Undermines the Status of
Women
Notes de l'éditeur
Normally talks about metrics, monitoring, non functional requirements & DevOps because I support all kinds of sys admins who deal with on call for products they don’t write
- I had to start asking why I thought I was successful - despite female stereotypes
- Family of Men
- School of Girls
- First Boss Female, first job mostly female team
- Brown Hair?
- Because an organization is the sum of its people. Some people add value, and others multiply it. You need to figure out how to become a multiplier.
- what is success to you?
- Where do you want to be in 5 years?
- How can I get a seat by a window?
Simplify - Lean In Example of Mark Z trying to learn Chinese
It’s a graph, not a ladder, your mentees are as important as your mentors to maintain your status.
You need to figure out how to become a multiplier.
- Do what you say you will do and if you can’t make sure you have a good explanation (not an excuse)
- Zach’s (CTO)
David Callele
Focus without worry
it’s not loss of empathy it’s personal empowerment