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Success - Stereotypes Aside
Melanie Cey
Systems Analyst @ Yardi
5 years Programming
3.5 years Team Lead/Project Manager
4 years Systems Administration/Analysis
Speaking
Why?
Because of stereotypes…
- Sometimes I feel like I need to justify why I
am speaking
- I am dressed a certain way
Stereotypes
Men: Providers, decisive, driven
Women: Caregivers, sensitive, communal
Stereotypes - Mothers
“Sad white babies with mean Feminist
mommies”
http://jessicavalenti.com/post/25465502300/sad-white-babies-with-mean-feminist-mommies-the
3 Most Important Factors
- Ignorance
- Allies
- Advocates
Strategies for Success
- Becoming a multiplier
1. Ask Questions
- Of Others
- Of Yourself
2. Speak Your Truth
- Simplify
- There is no one truth in a negotiation
3. Find Allies & Advocates
- People who you trust
- People who trust you
- Mentors
- Mentees
- Advocate for you and help you gain influence
4. Be Accountable
- Follow through on commitments
- Do what you say you will do
- Understand your impact on others
5. Align & Adjust Goals
- To meet company needs
- Frame needs within company goals
- Boast most about what matters to others
6. Stop Caring
- “Freedom 30”
- Stop caring so much about what others think
- Focus on your own achievements & success
- If the shoe doesn’t fit...
7. Be Humble
- Never stop learning
- Confidence without arrogance
- Every job matters
Influences
- Kate Matsudaira: If You Don't Understand
People, You Don't Understand Ops (Velocity SC
2013)
- Sheryl Sandberg: Lean In
- Elisabeth Badinter: The Conflict: How
Modern Motherhood Undermines the Status of
Women

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Success - Stereotypes Aside

Notes de l'éditeur

  1. Normally talks about metrics, monitoring, non functional requirements & DevOps because I support all kinds of sys admins who deal with on call for products they don’t write
  2. - I had to start asking why I thought I was successful - despite female stereotypes - Family of Men - School of Girls - First Boss Female, first job mostly female team - Brown Hair?
  3. - Because an organization is the sum of its people. Some people add value, and others multiply it. You need to figure out how to become a multiplier.
  4. - what is success to you? - Where do you want to be in 5 years? - How can I get a seat by a window?
  5. Simplify - Lean In Example of Mark Z trying to learn Chinese
  6. It’s a graph, not a ladder, your mentees are as important as your mentors to maintain your status. You need to figure out how to become a multiplier.
  7. - Do what you say you will do and if you can’t make sure you have a good explanation (not an excuse)
  8. - Zach’s (CTO)
  9. David Callele Focus without worry it’s not loss of empathy it’s personal empowerment