1. GOOD PARENTING
6 THINGS
THAT YOU
SHOULD NOT
SAY TO
YOUR CHILD
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2. • Children are sensitive
GOOD PARENTING and putting down their
emotions and feelings is
THAT’S the last thing that you
RIDICULOUS! can do. At their level,
they give importance to
STOP things that may not
BEHAVING seem important to you.
But try to understand
LIKE A CHILD. what they are going
through.
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3. • This is totally unfair as
GOOD PARENTING individuals are different.
Also by comparison
WHY between siblings, you are
CAN’Y giving rise to rivalry and
causing a rift between
YOU BE them. Even comparing with
MORE LIKE peers is not fair to the child
and should not be done.
YOUR
BROTHER?
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4. • The message that you send
GOOD PARENTING out here is that the child is
worthless and incapable.
YOU ARE This may actually make
SUCH A your child feel so and lead
to underperformance. It
LOSER! YOU humiliates your child but
DO does not lead to any
EVERYTHIG positive change.
WRONG .
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5. • Although you may be hurt
GOOD PARENTING because of your child’s
actions, do not say things
I DON’T that will cut him off. The
WANT TO child depends on the
parents and cutting him off
HAVE will lead to insecurity. Also
ANYTHING he will feel that he can do
TO DO anything now as he is
outside your jurisdiction.
WITH YOU
ANYMORE!
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6. • Sometimes you may feel
GOOD PARENTING totally defeated and resort
to such kind of statements.
I WISH This sends out a negative
message and makes the
YOU child feel unwanted.
HADN’T Resolve the issue but do
not make it more volatile.
BEEN
BORN!
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7. • Saying things to this effect
GOOD PARENTING will have a very negative
effect on your child. You
I are not his peer but his
parent and this will make
him believe that he is
HATE repulsive as he holds his
parents to be the harbinger
YOU!
of truth. Don’t lose your
maturity.
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8. RESOLVE ISSUES
• Take a deep breath and pause from saying something hurtful.
• Refocus and get things done instead of giving vent to anger.
• Leave the situation by saying ‘We will talk about this later’.
• If you are very angry simply leave the room.
• Arguing with your child will make him or her lose respect.
• Say things only once and do not yell as this shows your
desperation.
• Cut out privileges like television or pocket money instead of
answering back when your child is very rude to you.
• Never ignore your child. Show that you care.
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