Here's the deal: The "Players" are getting all the women without even trying and it makes us "regular" guys feel HORRIBLE. HOWEVER: After years of studying these players, I've found you can actually COPY their though-process to get the same results they get. It's something they do to AVOID oneitis, and avoid the friend zone. (pua term oneitis is being obsessed with a girl) If you also have one itis, or you want to escape the friend zone... this slideshare presentation is for you.

1. Do you Have Oneitis? Why
“Players” Don’t get Oneitis
and Their Secret to Avoiding
the Friend Zone
By: Frankie Cola
championsofmen.com

2. Are you focused on one girl a little too
much? If you are, then you have “oneitis”

3. Oneitis used to happen to me all
the time…
I would get a crush on one girl, and the
whole world would STOP.
Other things stopped mattering as
much – I would focus less on school, my
friends, and my hobbies.

4. Even if I had other girls I kinda liked, I’d stop
thinking about them… and I would get
“tunnel-vision” with just that one girl.
My ENTIRE well-being depended on the
interaction between me and this specific girl.
If she didn’t return a text message, I would
worry in deep SUSPENSE, if she replied, I was
temporarily RELIEVED for that day!

5. And then… I would FINALLY build the nerve
to ask her out (or to reveal my feelings for her).
It would typically end up with a speech that
sounded like…
“let’s just be friends,” or…
“you’re so sweet, but I don’t feel the same
way”
This felt HORRIBLE

6. Right now, you probably feel like you’re falling
into “oneitis”
…if you are, then you want to know… how do
you STOP this? How do you avoid the certain
disaster of getting rejected and being told that
you’re just a FRIEND…
…all while she hooks up with some other guy
who seems to "get it" ?
How Do You AVOID This Situation?

7. How do you turn yourself into “the man” who
triggers attraction in women… instead of the guy
who just gets friend zoned again and again?
The answer is what you discover when you
start studying the few men who are wildly
successful with women…
How Do You AVOID This Situation?

8. The Secret Weapon the “Naturals” Have
After hanging around and studying men who were
successful with women (we’ll call them “players”)...
…I started to notice one KEY way they handle themselves
with women.
This "Secret" Weapon that these “players” have, is all in
their MIND… it’s the way that they THINK
…and because they think THIS certain way, women find
them INCREDIBLY attractive.

9. Players Have an Abundance Mentality
The KEY mindset these players possess, is an
ABUNDANCE mentality.
They FEEL that they have many women to choose
from… and they BEHAVE as if there are many
OPTIONS out there.

10. An Abundance Mentality Avoids “Needy” Problems
The Bottom Line: Players create attraction
because they project that they have other
options, so they never get NEEDY or
DESPERATE

11. For example…
• Players are ok taking risks with a girl (because
they have other options)
• They don’t get oneitis and make desperate
needy behavior
• They are indifferent to the result and simply
move on to the next girl

12. Oneitis Comes From a Scarcity Mentality
See, if you have oneitis, it’s a situation coming from
SCARCITY
Oneitis is the scarcity problem of feeling like you
only have 1 girl to choose from.
You feel that, SHE is the only girl in the world for
you… and you CANNOT lose your opportunity.
Know what I’m saying?

13. How to Change YOUR Thinking
When you feel yourself falling into oneitis, do the
following…
1. Realize that oneitis is a situation coming from
scarcity
2. Inject abundance into the situation
This means, start focusing on other attractive girls in
your life.

14. Think about it this way: Two-itis is better than
oneitis, three-itis is better than two-itis… and so
on…
Make it a point to like more than one girl... and
failing with one of them won't hurt you as much.
The more options you have, the more unfazed
you become with rejection... and that's what a
"player mindset” is all about.
Make a Mind SHIFT Towards Abundance

15. Is a girl leaving you confused as to whether or not she
likes you?
Let’s face it. A girl won’t make it easy for you…
She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to
tell if she is being friendly or flirty…
Or WAITING for you to kiss her…
The Friend Zone Test: Simple Trick
Tells You if a Girl Likes You

16. If you read her signals wrong, you risk rejection
and embarrassment.
Or WORSE… you blow it with a girl who wanted
to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will
instantly tell you if you’re in the friend zone, or if
she’s waiting for you to kiss her…
Click HERE to Discover the Friend Zone “Test”
The Friend Zone Test: Simple Trick
Tells You if a Girl Likes You

17. Read similar “creating attraction” articles on
championsofmen.com:
http://championsofmen.com/do-you-have-oneitis-what-to-do-
when-you-have-a-crush-on-a-girl-3-steps/